Are you talking about when you do a search in one of those engines it doesn't pop up? If that is the case it's pretty normal. There is something called the "sandbox" which means that when your site is new you are in the sandbox for a bit till the engines can verify that you are an actual legitimate website. It can take several months to get out of there and as far as I know- the only way to speed things up is to have lots of traffic come to your site.

One other thing you might check is your metatags. Make sure you have those entered as those are the keywords a search engine uses.

Hope that helps....

meta-tags can help but the search engines have been making less and less use of them.

your email address is used for the user name and you create your own password as well.

Seems straight forward, but I have never used it, so I might be missing something.

I used Wix.com to do mine and love them! I know a few other ladies who have used them as well. I've heard of a few ladies having that issue...of getting deleted because of their content but so far so good with the one I used