Recieving, no. Giving, yes. But the list of things I like to do to a woman has always been longer then the list of things I like to have done to me.

Perhaps part of the reason why they are doing it is that anything having to do with that part of the body seems to be taboo, and most people get off, at least mentally, on delving into a taboo area.

Plus it's a very sensitive area (as you already know ) and can cause a heightened reaction to other things being done.

Having had a number of providers offer rimming, I was pretty much to the point where I could take it or leave it.

Last June, however, I saw an escort in Detroit who took a different approach to rimming. She had me lay on my stomach, and said "I'm going to be enjoying myself down here for a while. Whenever you get tired of it, let me know."

The fact that she enjoyed it as much as she did, and that I was in a very relaxed position, made all the difference in the world.

I have only been rimmed once and I enjoyed it immensely.  I am more than happy to be the recipient of such wonderful services if they are offered.  

Women who rim are in the minority IMO, because it just isn't a very clean thing to do.  I would think that BBBJCIMNQNS would be a piece of cake for a woman after she does deep exploratory work in a guy's anus with her tongue.  Wow!  It gets me excited just thinking about it.

One my first times a girl touched me down there. I didn't say anything. I thought it was ok and I, maybe was going to do the same. But she told me that I was a man (I was so young and "pretty". Man, what happened to me?) and shouldn't let anybody touch or do anything with that. Since then I have nothing to do with the anus part. I guess I did listen to her or I'm just not and still wouldn't be interested in rimming and the like.

Well, it's like this-- A rimming feels very good. However, I also enjoy kissing- it's what makes a session really intimate rather than just mechanical, and I'm reluctant to kiss a girl whose tongue has been up there. So how do others deal with this conflict? Do you kiss earlier in the session before she starts rimming and then not kiss after that, assuming that she has cleaned her mouth out since the last time she rimmed? Or if she comes up to kiss after she has rimmed you, is it offensive to say you don't want to kiss her then? Or do you ignore it and just kiss away and get your mouth full of whatever? I've often thought of this and would like to hear others' responses.

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If you've ever had a beautiful provider give you an awesome massage and then move down to thoroughly rim you, it can pretty much paralyze you with pleasure.  So the next time I visited this young woman, I made sure I cleaned up the pipe almost a finger length with baby wash (doesn't burn), so she wouldn't be dealing with the depths of my digestion.  She usually followed up with a BBBJTCIM and rinsed with mouthwash afterwards, so DFK was still in the mix for the second pop.  I wouldn't be squeemish if I were you guys, you really don't know what your missing.

I do like it and wished it was easier to research the providers that offer it.  The last provider who give was someone with whom I had booked an extended session, and I ended up reciprocating, and she was very grateful.