so my preferred scenario, after a bit of preliminary chat and necking, is to give the gal a massage, then move to the main course. After that I love receiving a massage.
If time and budget allow, I love to dine out with the person when that is done.
I started off giving FBSM & prostate TLC, then I progressed to FS & BDSM. It took me years to become GFE & PSE. Every session is tailored to fit the needs of my clients. I prefer chemistry & compatibility, plus I love special requests. I have lots of lingerie, and adult fun toys. I love to surprise my friends! I will always have a wide variety of playful options because I am a professional.
* I found that massage clients usually want everything, but FS it’s a lot to provide.
I have more of a general outline of what I want going in but things can change based on the girl I am with, what we have done in the past (if I have seen her more than once) and my mood in that moment. I generally don't like scripted dates and with some women that is what they are known for.
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Personally, it would be difficult to tell you what I want before we meet or as we meet. I often don't know until we get into the passionate part of the date as my mind may change as things change. I guess I like the unknown and am more of a just a "go with the flow" type gent as part of the excitement I get from this lifestyle is truly never knowing what will occur 30 minutes, or even 5 minutes, down the road when I am intimate with someone.
My personal style has evolved into a great mesh of perverted girlfriend meets sensual dominate, so the flow of my sessions are always uniquely curated with that in mind. I do like to start with a general idea of interest and desire for us to explore while making out time together feel spontaneous and natural. Lingerie, latex, sexy high heels, fetish and role-play request always get my heart pumping and a great starting point for me to create something special.
I try very hard--within the bounds of P4P discretion--to let the ladies I'm about to see know what I expect in our session. Given that I see mostly duos, I let them know I expect real engagement between the ladies, including toy play. Better to make sure everyone is comfortable with what's about to go down.
And I usually have at least footwear requests.
And yes, when the session starts, I let the ladies know exactly what I want to see, hopefully without turning into a bad imitation of a movie director. Given that some ladies are apt to think I want their attention focused on me, i politely but firmly guide them to the specific things I want to see them to do together, based on the "script" I have in mind that day.
I will say that it's great to have a regular rotation of 3 or 4 ladies who know and like each other and who all know me pretty well. These days, often the only direction I have to give to my duo is "Action!".
I know exactly what I want. If she passes the looks criteria I move onto her likes and dislikes. Then if the rate is ok I reach out. I’m never looking for a one and done. I prefer someone who wants a regular and desires to learn what I like. Which definitely isn’t vanilla .
Incall, I'll let he do what she does, if she ask me to shower, I'll shower. I want he to be comfy. But I'll set the tone during the fun part.
Outcall is a different beast. I set the tone, I know what I want and what I'm expecting. I won't ask her to bring a change of clothes because I'll usually will get her something to wear for me, I hated garters and the girls usually bring that as part of their costume. Usually a bralett and V thong is all I need so its sexy simple.
But because its outcall I like to set the ambiance and mood. Normally the young lady knows what I'm looking for based on my vibe. Hard to explain but most get the ideal.
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which goes right out the window as soon as I'm onsite.
I spend a good deal of time before the session thinking formulating a masterful plan about how I'd like the session to progress. But then, all of a sudden, she's showing junior a ton of love, all of the blood leaves my brain and she's fully in charge from there on out (no complaints).
Maybe next time (he says, every time).
