Such as Greek. For Example, if the fee were to be 350 and then add on another 100 for Greek services, would you pay 450 for a session??
What benefits would you take into account?
For Example, In my case, I am a 1st time Greek visitor...should a 1st time visitor take this into account or is this fee too insanely high...even for a 1st time visit?? Also, take into account, I'm a one cup kind of guy.
Money is relative........ and so is value. I have done things that others said I was stupid to do with women, but TO ME it was worth it. It was worth it because I had that smile you just can't wipe off and the afterglow lingered when I walked out the door. It's all in how you look at it.
I think you'll get answers to this one on both sides of the line. Do what makes you feel the best, no the rest of us.
As a rule, I hate add-ons because usually you end up getting nickle-and-dimed to death. If the provider agrees to do something she normally doesn't do, it should be because she wants to do it too. Then I would probably give a her tip afterwards. If there is a particular "extra" you are interested in, you would probably be better off searching for a provider who does that. That way you could also check her reviews to see how well she does the extras.
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Don't you get what you pay for?? If the donation isn't for FS, then shouldn't you pay for extras? I think each provider answers that question individually.
I've seen certain providers advertise that they're either an expert or love performing a certain action but then they have an additional rate for it. Remember "Anal Ashley"... always bragged about how she loved anal, but then charged extra for it. I just don't get it, I think it's just plain greed. I mean why charge extra if you love it anyway??
On the other hand, if its an activity the lady will do, but she doesn't really enjoy it or get into it, then I can understand her reason to charge extra. The money is the incentive to offer or provide it.
I knew a guy who did home construction. I asked him about remodeling my bathroom. He was booked solid with work and told me that he would make the extra effort to squeeze in my project but he was going to charge me a rate to make it worth his extra effort. I totally understood that and didn't think him to be greedy at all. I waited till the next year when he had more time and would charge me less money.
I think if a provider is asking for more money for 'extras' then I don't think she really enjoys it. How can you enjoy it and have a great experience when you know she's only willing to do it for that extra donation?? I myself thoroughly enjoy speaking Greek and to charge extra on top of my normal rate for something I truly enjoy, and therefore YOU enjoy, is ridiculous. A provider should set a price and say what they enjoy and don't. Then let the client decide whether to play or not.
Of course you are only paying for time. This companionship does not assume any kind of sex. Extras should be for more time.
you know, if a girl is giving greek to every guy that comes in the door "stick it up there hard and fast first" and she's got 800 pages of reviews and she's a low ball special entry that does a regular fast pace of guys, is "greek" greek?
or is it just another sloppy orafice?
*shrug*
Not having a penis, I wouldn't really know. Help me out.
I enjoy the greek, on occasion, with a guy that isn't hung like a horse, but it takes some time and a slow go, and I have to be really fired up beforehand and all, and I need a little extra bit of translation in the form of anbesol just to help make everything relax... Once there I enjoy the travel time so much that often the climax for me is, well, you'd think I own a prostate of my own.
So, while a gift is a gift, and I'd never suggest more for a more extensive trip during the same amount of time, Well, my gifting suggestion is based on the idea that it is a rare treat to pass the levels of screening and get me to actually hit your door. I'm just really busy, and I don't get out much. I'm hoping that we "click" on more than one level.
So maybe greece with some providers may be like a trip on backpack for one night in a hostel while with others it may be like a week of sailing there or megayachting and really visiting all the isles and walking up to get a view from the Parthenon.
Or am I deluded?
xoxo
Elise
Elise, you are incredible! You have recited the itinerary for my two trips to Greece in this hobby.
Both times it was "Do you want to..." and then "Okay, ram it in."
None of the tender tonguing of the forbidden area, followed by gently probing with well-lubricated fingers, and finally penetrating slowly, ever so slowly, as we both utter a sigh of pleasure.
Apparently, neither of us are deluded.
To have Greek with ladies that offer it only on occasion if they think that I am worthy of them giving it to me. "Factory" Greek providers are a turnoff for me, I avoid them if I have information that they are in the assembly line business of giving Greek.
I honestly would not want to have Greek with every provider that I see. This has nothing to do with them as much as it has to do with me. I do not like the service often and have to be with a woman who causes the urge to well up in me. I occasionally see a provider who offers Greek on a selective basis and probaly would give it to me if I asked. But I have never asked her for it because eventhough she is nubile, sexy and very beautiful, her body type is not the type that turns on my Greek urge.
I have heard the same exact things.
He is right on target.
If you want Greek, then her fee is $450.
Don't think of it as $350 plus extra. There is no point.
Find someone who offers the service you want at a price you can afford and you are set.
Greek is offered only by a very small percentage of providers. I consider it a true extra. If I want it and it is not on the menu that the session price covered, I would not mind paying for it if I was interested in doing it with the lady.
I digress from the tpoic of the thread somewhat, but I think that Greek is not offered by most ladies, even ones that would get an awesome rise out of it, because most men are idiots when it comes to doing Greek properly. Guys want to insert and pound away, this is totally the wrong, way to go about it, first the lady has to be properly and patiently loosened up before insertion. Second, after insertion, maximum attention needs to be paid to how the lady is feeling and whether she is enjoying the activity, her rubbing her clit and G-spot during the activity maximizes the sensation for her and should send her into the pleasure strastosphere. I often look at many women that would be great at Greek and would get maximum erotic pops from it but they do not offer it because of fear (valid, given the skill level of most men) of getting injured, what a waste of such a pleasurable sexual avenue.
I still remember my most successful Greek experience many years after it took place. She was a 33 year old, educated and elegant, bright eyed, blue eyed blonde that was allowing Greek for the first time. I had watched some flicks of porno studs who did it right, so I had and idea of how to do it right. I got it right and gave her several of the most powerful oqgasms that she had ever had (I had to ask her to press her mouth against the pillow because she was screaming so loud from ecstacy). Not to be outdone, my orgasm was unreal also. I remember pulling out just before cumming, ripping off the condom and masturbating for a few strokes (incredible sensation, given the hightened state of arousal) before cumming. Awesome experience, I still get all hot and clammy when I think about it.
doing your homework and properly researching providers. Some ladies offer the extras just because they want the money. This doesn't necessarily mean it's worth it they will be happy to take any money you give them. Kind of like going to those jiffy lube places where they try to sell you everything they can on top of the oil change. It's a borderline scam, but as long as someone is willing to pay, they will sell it to you regardless of quality.
But other ladies might be worth the extra hundred for greek. She just might be charging extra because if she advertised greek as part of the regular fee her "back door" will be getting pounded all day by greek hungry hobbiests (I've had several ladies that offered greek inclusive tell me this is the case). But by charging the extra $ for it she can offer greek and make it enjoyable for the guys that want to pay.
The everything else in this hobby, it "all depends on the girl". Similar to the base fee providers all charge of $$$-$$$$/hr.....some ladies are worth this ten times over, some aren't worth a fraction of it. Being a diligent consumer is the key.
Just my two cents from experience....hope this helps
Yes I do aggree that it is an extra. I could not resist asking this young lady visiting from South in the middle of the K9 session. She offered it for an extra $ over the $$$ original fee. This was my first greek experience and I beleive in my case it was well worth the experience and reasonable.