If a provider has a ton of reviews, I don't bring up the subject. I just write the review.

If a provider has very few reviews, I usually ask. Maybe she would rather fly under the radar? Or maybe she lives in an area where TER is not popular, and could use all the reviews she can get?

Doesn't hurt to ask.

-- Modified on 7/9/2013 8:46:10 PM

If I had a good experience with a provider overall, and since the review could possibly be good marketing for the provider, I'll write it....I usually have more loyalty to the provider than I do to the reviewers. Most reviewers are too over-the-top, either too positive or on the negative side. When reading reviews for research, I'll usually look to whether, overall, the provider got positive reviews. Everyone has their bad and off days.....There's a local provider that I've on the whole had a good experience with, and she's got a minority of absolutely ridiculous reviews that faulted her for driving a Lexus, being older than the hobbyist, starting her period during a session, and where the window cleaner showed up at her incall, as if she had any absolute control of any of these ocurrences...If I have a mixed experience, I just won't write the review....Recently, I had a provider show up that had something between her teeth (not sure if it was temporary or permanent) and who was, overall, too overweight for my tastes, but she seemed like a nice person, and she overall had good reviews, so though she requested a review, I didn't write it...If you don't have anything good to say, then don't say it at all, unless you have an overwhelming reason otherwise...

-- Modified on 7/10/2013 1:12:04 AM

If I had a mediocre or poor experience, I'm going to write about it whatever her preference.  But some providers don't want reviews published, so now I do ask if they want or mind if I write one.  If I had a good time and would like to repeat, I will want to follow her preference.

I don't think you should ever feel the need to ask for permission to write a review on a Provider. That is the glory of TER. Men need honest, valuable, reliable reviews in which to base their decision on when choosing a Provider. I see too many providers who come out of the gate with 10/10's and end up on the top 100 within a few months. Gee, I wonder how that happened?  For me? This took 2.5 years. I have many 10/10's but also a couple of 9's and a couple 8's.  

Men should want to see some variety with Reviews. There is not one girl on this earth that fits every mans fancy and a girl should have some sort of varying numbers. I think when you ask, your then going to have her guide you on what to say and how to say it and now you have another rigged TER Review.