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Do providers call you by name?
PRS2005 1090 reads
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It hit me tonight that I've never had a provider call me by name. This includes providers I've seen twice, three times, or much more.

I find that really odd.  

Am I the only one?

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perfectstorm260 reads

Many use the terms babe, Hun, sweetie and things like that. I don't mind that, but I actually find it a nice touch when certain ladies remember my name and call me by name.  

Posted By: PRS2005
It hit me tonight that I've never had a provider call me by name. This includes providers I've seen twice, three times, or much more.  
   
 I find that really odd.  
   
 Am I the only one?

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Fromundamyeyes265 reads

I have a couple of regulars who I think are smart GFE providers. They say my name in a very intimate way, gently into my ear while we are in mish. One of the personal touches that add to the fantasy and keeps me coming back to them.

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perfectstorm189 reads

Is your name also "God?"
;)

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micktoz123 reads

At least they get the name right!

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Is your name also "God?"  
 ;)

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camote16177 reads

Papí ,

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SavannahStJames310 reads

Because I assume that you're giving me an alias. I hate calling out Richard when your name is actually Daniel. A lot of guys say...well, is Savy your real name? No, it's not...but it is a name I identify with. If you want to call me by my real name that's fine...but I promise you, calling me "Bertha" will not invoke the same sex kitten personality you're hoping to spend time with lol  

If you make it clear that you want to be called a certain name..whether it's an alias or real...most providers will call you that. Just make it known.

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vantheman666153 reads

OK, now I'm curious.  Why would I want to give you an alias?

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SavannahStJames155 reads

I get that a lot. It's not until the 4th date that the truth comes out lol

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vantheman666122 reads

You must have some weird clients.  I always use my real name for dates, and there are even a few people on TER who know my real name.

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Duplicitouslust120 reads

Savannah just wondering when you release your genuine appellation do you fear that there is some vulnerability that is being released when you tell someone from this demimonde what your real name is?  Also do you fear some retribution if something might happen out of the ordinary as well?  What are the sorts of things that you think about with respect to the ramifications of releasing your genuine appellation in a play for play environments where pseudonyms are commonplace and used most often?  I am thinking that you tend to be apprehensive because there is another existence and identity in mainstream society and therefore you tend to be extremely careful about releasing your appellation.  Also you only tell people in the demimonde whom you trust with that information because it can be extremely damaging as well. Also  as you said before Savannah has more of an aura for your play for pay persona than Bertha would have.

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SavannahStJames145 reads

I think anyone who works hard to separate their personal life from hobbying can suffer from a bit on an indentity crisis. Without proper balance..it's really difficult to feel like you can shut this off. I have quite a few people that call me by my real name.who text me on my personal line.. Who I entertain in my real home with family pictures on my walls. I've stopped opening up my personal life to people after spending more time reading reviews and checking out forums... To think that some people could experience the pleasure that another persons body can offer..to be so desensitized that you could kiss someone ever so gently..smile in their face..rock back and forth into them as you relax in their embrace...to only violent rip them apart and publicly humiliate them. The tips and tricks you share on convincing women to barback. The Provate messages of UTR providers that you swap..I give some of you my body...hoping you find joy in it and even then it may go unappreciated at times. I'll be damned if I let the assholes in this industry shit on my personal life too. That companionship? I save that for the people who don't take it for granted. Hope that explains why I'm so hung up on boundaries.

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impposter180 reads

Some of the K-girls call me Ahjussi (papi). I think I'd rather be Pyeha. Some of my K-girls are Gumiho

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FatVern154 reads

Very rarely will they call me by name, the ones who I've been the most intimate with don't even know my name, or have forgotten it.

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sasha2cute176 reads

The word I refuse to use it "daddy". It's not sexy at all.... Imo

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BrittneyStarGirl152 reads

Oh yeah!  

Pimps and Fathers

And nobody wants to be compared to a man like that or reminded of their family at home. Leave your "Daddy" out of the bed room. It's a turn off for me to say it, and when I client asked me to- I nearly lost my composure laughing at him.

Just don't do it, I won't

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GaGambler153 reads

and it's very sexy when said in a latin accent.

being a chola, you should already know this. lol

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BrittneyStarGirl147 reads

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GaGambler160 reads

Poker is a game, pool is a game, Basketball is a sport, golf is a game. Sex is, well sex is just plain fucking awesome regardless of what the fuck you want to call it. lol

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GaGambler136 reads

They even think they own the SPOTY's while everyone here knows better.

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BigPapasan303 reads

...their stage names, as did I, although we all knew each others real names.  I guess when you're performing, you don't want to break character.

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BrittneyStarGirl125 reads

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mrfisher142 reads

then I'm fine.  

8o)

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MILFCARESSA246 reads

Related Link: http://caressa.naughtynsexy.com

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WickedBrut183 reads

Providers call me by name all the time, but I have a very common, everyday name. If you have an unusual name like Ebenezer or Boniface they might not feel comfortable saying it, especially in the bedroom.

Posted By: PRS2005
It hit me tonight that I've never had a provider call me by name. This includes providers I've seen twice, three times, or much more.  
   
 I find that really odd.  
   
 Am I the only one?

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DT_lover130 reads

There is no need to say a name when there is nobody else in the room.

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resource101163 reads

But my favorite is Darlin!

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PRS2005141 reads

I thought it was just me.

The provider I've seen the most should know my real name. There's things I've shown her that have my real name on it.  I still think it's strange she's never used my name after three years.

I just figured I was so unmemorable that my name eluded them. ;)

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bocabuster128 reads

My provider just calls me Mr Franklin...but that's usually only when she's counting...😁

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Demcc3161 reads

One or two do. Others will use hon, sexy, dear ( I don't like dear that much...it sounds kind of ......old)

D.

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BrittneyStarGirl151 reads

While I'm getting dogged from behind, in the most sensual of voices ;)

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BigPeterJohnson120 reads

every girl i've been with knew my name

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PRS2005121 reads

Last year saw the provider you reviewed most recently. That's about the level of provider I strive for.

Not sure she knew my name, though.

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BigPeterJohnson112 reads

don't know what to say.  i'm pretty sure every girl i've seen knows my name and remembers me.

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PRS2005119 reads

if I text or email they seem to know who it is, but they don't use my name. Weird.

Then again, BigPeterJohnson is a memorable name. :)

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MasterZen129 reads

or by handle. I'm fine with either; they're interchangeable for me. Hell, I've made dinner reservations under my handle.

I will always ask and call the lady what she prefers... whether name or stage name.

Every once in a while one of us will use a pet name... no problem for me, it's usually used in a situation where it is proper to do so.

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escalade1964123 reads

Makes me feel like they are really into me

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