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do not retire!
parthree 63 Reviews 2121 reads
posted
1 / 13

My health has gotten the worst of me and I need to retire, but not befoe seeing a couple of special friends one last time.  Do I tell them I am retiring due to health at the beginning of end of the session.

Thanks.  It's been a fun ride

TheGovernor 142 Reviews 94 reads
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2 / 13
Silkstalkings 341 Reviews 98 reads
posted
3 / 13

or tell the gal you're leaving this "lifestyle" for personal reasons. Don't bring up health cause she might start thinking other negative things.

followme 98 reads
posted
4 / 13
coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 88 reads
posted
5 / 13

Parthree is retiring, but before you go, you want a hole-in-one.  

 
Seriously, if you want the best month of sex you ever had, tell each one the same thing . . . . .

 
"I'm leaving this lifestyle and settling down, but before I go, I wanted to create some great memories by making YOU the last girl I have a date with."

 
Trust me, they will give you their absolute best.    

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 127 reads
posted
6 / 13

...look like you're asking for a "mercy fuck."  
You can be honest about your reason for retiring.  Providers have heard it all and they'll understand.  Chances are they have seen a decline in your health or you have discussed it with them if they are "special friends."  

 
Also, many providers are insecure and might think that you're dumping them because you've lost interest in them and are moving on.  Honesty is the best policy.  "It's not you, it's me" was a gag on Seinfeld, but in your case it's the best way to go.

 
P.S. to the other replies:  The OP isn't asking IF he should tell them or WHAT he should tell them.  He has already decided to tell them.  He's simply asking WHEN to tell them - either before or after the session.

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Robertini 4 Reviews 94 reads
posted
7 / 13

By the time you read this words  
I will long gone.
But don't worry not from this world.
But from this sinful one. Bye, I found Jesus.
I hope you do too.

And dissapear.
That's how I would do it.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 118 reads
posted
8 / 13

There are a number of providers I've known for over 10 years, some stretching to 30 years.  We have very close contact and I would feel right telling them just about anything about myself and know that they would be fine with it, so I would tell them the real reason.

Others are more transactional, so I may not say anything at all, or be very non-specific.

Katethecat 81 reads
posted
9 / 13

Melissa, I so enjoy your comments on any and every subject.  They are so thoughtful and compassionate.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 91 reads
posted
10 / 13

it really is only polite to say your good-byes, in person if you can and just a simple message if not.  

Sorry to hear things are turning down, hope that reverses for you.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 101 reads
posted
12 / 13

If it were me, I'd want to know and it certainly wouldn't make me think you had some kind of health issue that would make me not give you in time of your life! Many ladies in the biz have hearts of gold and re kind and understanding.

IMO since you describe these ladies as "special friends", you don't have to worry about them thinking you "have something" they could catch. I'm betting your last time with them will be better if you share with them the why.

You will be  missed here...

Steph XO

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j4play 44 Reviews 114 reads
posted
13 / 13

don't tell them anything, and moreover, do not go gentle into that good night.
keep fighting, brother, my eskimo brother, rage against the dying light

If you got to go, do it like Nelson Rockefeller, in the saddle

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