saw a very hi rated provider. pretty face. very nice. however she had put on about 15 to 20 lbs and was probably 10 years older than her posted age. Great attitude although never did get FS so I'm confused. I don't want to hurt her but what she now offers is not even close to her reviews in my opinion. On the other hand hand she is very nice and I don't want to hurt her income. If I gave an honest review t would be at least 2 points lower than her latest. I'm thinking just don't post at all.
but be prepared for her to be pissed,
Catch 22. Did she deliver on experience? Looks have nada to do with that.
Whole point of TER is honesty. She might not take it well though and it is her income that suffers. FS as far as I go, is for 6 on up. Would you see her again? Did you ask for more and she said no?
Maybe wait the 90 days before posting and be vague so she doesn't know who you are. Protect yourself.
Just a IMHO you guys can't always tell age. I have been rated 10 years younger.
Do what you have to but be safe.
Whole point of TER is to be honest. Struggle with it. Many other review places have FAKE reviews. Contribute but within your means.
Isn't it false advertising if she no longer offers FS?
Catch 22. Did she deliver on experience? Looks have nada to do with that.
Whole point of TER is honesty. She might not take it well though and it is her income that suffers. FS as far as I go, is for 6 on up. Would you see her again? Did you ask for more and she said no?
Maybe wait the 90 days before posting and be vague so she doesn't know who you are. Protect yourself.
Just a IMHO you guys can't always tell age. I have been rated 10 years younger.
Do what you have to but be safe.
Whole point of TER is to be honest. Struggle with it. Many other review places have FAKE reviews. Contribute but within your means.
While good reviews are good for someone's business, I don't think cheating is. I was wondering, correct me if I'm wrong, if some men either don't review or if they give high scores because that's all the lady has on her profile at that point. The man may 1, not want to ruffle her feathers, 2, look like an ass by giving a review that's not consistent with the others, or 3, (enter reason here).
IDK, All 10's across the board? Is that possible in an entire career? Everyone has their opinion on women and other types of businesses. If someone walks into a 5 star hotel with great ratings at least one person is going to catch that place on a bad day and run to Yelp with their not so perfect review.
Please advise. I'm actually really curious about this issue.
Most people don't like to say negative things about people, women especially . It's usually as simple as that. Now that may be because they are cowardly, or it may be becasue they are just nice.
Some think it through a bit more and realize (maybe neurotically (sp?) that TER is used to screen clients. No one wants to get blacklisted or denied in the future because they've written a harsh review...
That blacklist thing is a huge hammer over the head for some, mostly because so few know how it works...
And setting up a new account for one review is a PITA.
Oh I understand. I'm not talking about bad reviews so much as honest reviews with scores a man feels he should give.
I was talking to someone who said he only writes mediocre or good reviews, he never reports the bad unless its a scam or rip off... as he understands the ladies are trying to run a business.
So I understand what you're saying. I'm asking why, if someone feels a lady is a 9 though she has all 10's, he doesn't write a review with a nine. Yeah, it'll put a stick in one's spokes, that makes it hard, but if its not true...
Some think it through a bit more and realize (maybe neurotically (sp?) that TER is used to screen clients. No one wants to get blacklisted or denied in the future because they've written a harsh review...
That blacklist thing is a huge hammer over the head for some, mostly because so few know how it works...
And setting up a new account for one review is a PITA.
Cowardice or delusion
Some think it through a bit more and realize (maybe neurotically (sp?) that TER is used to screen clients. No one wants to get blacklisted or denied in the future because they've written a harsh review...
That blacklist thing is a huge hammer over the head for some, mostly because so few know how it works...
And setting up a new account for one review is a PITA.
Wait a bit. Use an alias if need be, but write it.
give her a great review.
There are ways of using or writing words that should not hurt
her business but you can still be honest.
The fact is, many hobbyist are really into looks or seeing younger ladies.
If she is obviously being deceptive. She is wrong no matter her skills.
You know, say she's beautiful and a nice woman/girl whose pictures are "a little out of date" but that "for whatever reason we just didn't click" and "YMMV" blah blah blah. If it was just you, then the next series of reviews will be solid and yours can be written off. If it wasn't you, then the next dudes might have the cajones to tell the truth...
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While you are under no obligation to anyone here, your fellow mongers would appreciate hearing about your experience to help us make more informed decisions.
If you are concerned about the fallout, you can wait a few weeks and post the review under an alias.
If what you say is true, I am sure it is going to come out eventually
Different guys have different preferences. There will be guys that prefer the things you did not like about this girl. Accurate information will help the right guys pick her for the right reasons.
I think all reviews should be written in honesty. It seems all my reviews, the guys want to be brutally honest, so why are people afraid to be honest with other girls?!
Why doesn't she simply change her profile to reflect the changes? Better to have an accurate profile than negative reviews.
Maybe she's just not paying attention to what's posted about her online.
Did you go for fs and get rebuffed? Did she say no fs? Write the truth Man, you don't have to be mean but describe the session as it went down. You and your readers are paying $. She's the hooker providing the service...What are you afraid of?....If we can't tell each other the truth, TER is worthless.
If someone is listed as providing FS and then doesn't, I think it is worth mentioning. Of course, I don't know the circumstances under which this occurred/why it wasn't provided. Maybe you should follow up with her and send her an email asking why she didn't provide what you thought she would? When I've had to miss appointments, I have received follow-ups on "why?" It's understandable from my point of view.
Keep in mind, pictures on ads and websites are usually altered/PhotoShopped to a degree. Sometimes, the photographer does not give the provider the original proofs, only a whole bunch of already altered images (to a degree) to choose from. The photographer will go even further, doing extra alterations to the already altered images. So maybe said provider doesn't realize that she appears older/heavier than in her images if she hasn't seen the "raw" image beforehand?
I doubt that your one review will affect her income...it may even help it! It could help attract those patrons who prefer someone of her type. You never know! Since I've hit my mid-30s, I attract a certain clientele who I make very, very happy! No need to lie about my age. I'm proud of it!
Best of luck!