is a 3some. It's something that I enjoy immensely with providers but I'd never try to talk my SO into trying it. I'm afraid that she wouldn't be down and then when she turned me down she'd start getting suspicious of my asking and she'd start wondering what I'm up to. As much as I'd love to try it with her, it's just not worth the risk of asking.

that comes with a GFE session with a provider, so I generally eschew activities that require advance notice and preparation, like Greek, but some of the girls I see in London are always prepared for anal for every customer, so I can decide while I'm there as the mood strikes me.  Other activities that involve heavy equipment is a no for me at a paid session, as well.  I'd rather set up the room in advance with everything I need to give my sub a breathtaking experience, then go to dinner, and come back for playtime, which is harder to do with a professional, so I limit this stuff to real life sex partners, usually at their request.