nope this isn't about DATY or taking your date to a fancy resto...(sorry to disappoint haha)

recently saw a traveling companion at her incall. (i'm usually a fbsm guy). booked 1.5 hours - her recommended minimum - because her photos looked great (the ass was as advertised), and I had seen her reviews pre-TER blackout and they were stellar.

we do 2 rounds in an hour. still 30 mins left. we're chatting about this and that, then she pulls up Ubereats and orders some food coz she's hungry. food arrives, and she proceeds to wolf it down (in fairness, I ate my share of the fries lol...).  

anyway - has this happened to anyone else? should I have gone for round 3 instead of sitting/chatting/eating? I wasn't offended or anything, but it was during my session so thought maybe I should have had more input (yes I know it's too late now)...your thoughts please

She was either super-comfortable with you, or else hoping you won't come back, because for me, that would have been a total turn-off.  As soon as she ordered the food, I would have asked her if she was ending the session 30 minutes early, so that I would only be charged for an hour, or was she planning to eat during the time I paid for?  its a not-so-subtle way to let her know she's being rude and that if she wants to eat instead of finishing the 90 minutes THAT SHE REQUESTED, then you don't expect to pay for that time.  This gives her some room to maneuver if she wants you to come back and see her again.  Since you're paying for the block of time, its YOUR time, and she should have asked you first if you would like her to order some food to share since you popped already and still had 30 minutes left.  When a girl requests 90 minutes or more instead of an hour, I expect a MSOG option.   In a one-hour session, I don't. Maybe you don't want MSOG, and would be fine sharing a meal or a bottle of wine for the duration of YOUR time, but that's the point, its YOUR time, so its your decision how you want to spend it.   She was out of line to hijack your time so she could eat, even if she was willing to share her fries with you.  

If she advertises a dinner session, then that is fine, and of course the guy pays the bill for that, but that's always at least a 3 hour session, not 90 minutes.

Now, if she had ordered a hot fudge sundae, and slathered it over her body, then invited you to feast upon it, that's another matter.

8o)~

I usually bring some food delights to a session just to be gracious and to assist a provider stuck in an out of the way place with few food options.  They're certainly appreciated and not coincidentally are these providers especially hungry - but they don't dive right in in spite of their hunger. They first take care of business.  Not once by the way did a provider not perform for the full session before giving in to the hunger and temptation - after I was dressed and ready to leave.  

Only once on an apartment incall in NYC did a provider after the first pop decide to have an elaborate snack, microwaving and all.  Not a good experience it was with a Russian who basically complained about other mongers pretty much from the start, got me off somewhat reluctantly before munching in the kitchen with me in the bedroom.  She continued the convo, complaining more with a mouthful.

There's a lot to be said for professionalism in the hobby.  That includes being respectful of the time paid for.

You expect us to believe that she ordered and that the food arrived and she ate it in front of you in 30 minutes. I'm not buying it. If anything, she ordered and the food arrived as your time was up. If you're still there then she was okay with you hanging out while she ate.

I was thinking the very same thing myself.  

 
First off, he already states he got TWO pops in before she ordered the food, he was hardly going to leave the session unsatisfied even if his timeline is correct, which I too seriously doubt.  

 
Secondly, what are the chances of her ordering food at the 60 minute mark, having it show up at the room, and finishing the meal (fries and all) all in a matter of 30 minutes. Keep in mind, this isn't hotel room service we are talking about, he clearly stated she ordered through "Ubereats" which necessitates a restaurant preparing the food and then an Uber driver picking it up and delivering said meal, does ANYONE here really believe she could have done all that on HIS time?

 
I am with you in calling BULLSHIT. If his story is true and if he actually did "eat most of the fries" he most certainly did not leave at the 90 minute mark and most likely was the recipient of quite a bit of OTC time.  It would surprise me if her version of the story went like this.

 "I had a ninety minute session where the guy popped twice in the first 60 minutes, and while we were chatting during our down time after the second round I ordered a "post session" meal that I expected to enjoy alone after he left. My meal arrived just after our 90 minutes were up which I thought would be his hint to leave, but can you believe this jerk not only stayed over an extra 45 minutes without paying or tipping, but he ate most of my fries to boot? What a cheap fucking jerk" lmao

 
Which version of the story sounds more believable to you??? lol

the Senator beat me to it.

thanks for everyone for your different perspectives, especially from the long time TER contributors. some cast doubt or expressed skepticism on my experience, which is understandable, but i maintain that the events transpired 100% as recounted.

the post was meant to learn from your experiences, and at the same time liven things up, since there haven't been many posts here lately. i also wanted to contribute since i have learned/been entertained from your contributions.  

some points to clarify/illuminate

1> food - the lady ordered from Mcdonald's (available via Uber Eats, i left a clue with the fries haha), there's a branch 3 or 4 blocks away from the apartment building (this is midtown NYC, after all).  

we took a shower together after she placed the order, and the delivery guy came shortly after we stepped out of the shower. so must have taken roughly 10-15 mins (yes, she answered the door wearing only a towel ;-D), and an equal amount of time to finish (she was quite hungry, having flown in that morning from the Midwest; not sure if she ate before our appt)

2> 2 pops - yes, i had 2 pops already after an hour (kudos to her), so I was a very happy man. nothing to complain about, and i hope my orig post did not imply dissatisfaction.  the post was more along the lines of "hmmm, i still have 30 mins left...what do we do now? should i go for a record breaking 3rd pop?"

3> OTC/overstaying - simply did not happen; i booked and paid for a 90min session; we both had our phones lying on the table, so i checked twice to see we still had time (that's how i knew i still had 30 mins left). in fact, i got dressed and left the incall on the 89th minute of my session!

GaGamblers alternate reality was quite hysterical though, but not true in this case.  

so there you go. i appreciate everyone's feedback and take everything in stride. i am leaning towards seeing the lady on her next visit to NYC, whenever that may be, but hopefully the culinary episode will be of a different type lol

A legit question, but if you were, you would have provided more of these details that would have changed the substance of some of our responses. If you're just playing games with us, tell us up front. Thanks for wasting our time.  I will know not to respond next time because you're probably just fucking with us again.

I WAS actually asking a legit question...I wanted to hear others' experience, if any, with the same situation, and what I should have done...my follow-up post just added more details. I liked your original response - well reasoned.