Maybe he likes...

Maybe he likes...Little Debbie Snatch Cakes, but his wife or SO never lets him have any and he seeks that out from a provider, while saving kissing for his relationship with his wife or SO.

I don't order fried chicken at McDonalds and I don't order burgers at KFC.

I hear it from providers all the time:  "He wants BBBJ but brings a dental dam for Daty...."

I would think for the same reason a provider wouldn't...

kissing can be seen as the most intimate exchange between a couple. and because of this, is often reserved for those you feel most connected to.

Conversely, there are providers who'll give BJ but not kiss, so there are concerns and limits both ways.

DATY is sex, but kissing is intimacy.

I love both, by the way, Zayzha.

perform CIM, greek, bbbj, etc.. but say that DFK is too intimate?

Why ask why...just accept it as personal preference and move on.

...it is the American Way to DFK afterwards.  DATY, BBBJ or good old fanciful rimjobs - swap spit and taste each other's genitals.  Or get the hell outta the country!