that they deserve a discount? I have had a few men email me saying "What are your package prices" "keeping in mind, I am handsome and well hung" What are they thinking?

I have also received pics from "these guys" and they are not even close to being attractive.  Are they just Narcissistic or what?

If, I were going to give a discount for "size only" it would be to a man that is average or smaller. I am tiny and it's not a treat, to be hammered by a man, that thinks he has to prove his masculinity by is dick size.

Q:  Are they just Narcissistic or what?

A:  Yes.

delusional

It's not even the presumption that the provider would find them attractive and well hung, it's the presumption that they will get some sort special treatment.  It's their belief in their own entitlement more than the arrogance that would bother me.  Sigh.  That's what the delete button is for!

Just tell them it'll be extra since they're well hung.  That should take care of it!

Any guy that emails a lady and says, I'm handsome and well hung is a dork!

well above average looking, well built females who charge a shitload extra for their model like looks!
Their reviews are no better, and some will tell you right on their websites that "yes my prices are high, but you pay for my goddess like beauty".
Narcissism runs in both directions....the guys feel they should pay less, and the ladies feel the need to charge more!....or did no one else notice that?

Just being able to admire myself in the mirror every day is reward enough.

Besides... would any discount be based on length?  or width?  Or like UPS where you measure every dimension?  lol

I was just wondering..how often do you providers actually see good looking men? I just have this preconception that the majority of clients are not really attractive, no offense ^^, just because they pay to see girls. But I could be totally wrong, I'm just curious. And if a client does happen to be pretty good looking, is this a plus for you providers or are you immune/desensitized to the physical appearance of the men you see?

Again, no offense to any hobbyists, just thought it'd be interesting to hear what providers think.

yourself to fall in that category of "not really attractive"? Since ur a hobbyist like the rest of us.

Myself -  i've had 3 providers tell me I'm cute, but then again, that could be the business talking so I'm not sure where I stand. I would like to think of myself as good looking tho.

Of course, I find beauty in every being... Aside of that, I've met many marathon runners and others in great shape, silver fox hair, sparking eyes, big smile total cuties...

There are many types of attractive and there are many reasons men come to see us. It's a total stereotype to think men are here because they are unattractive.... Many just don't want the hassle or risk of a mistress, or love variety too much to waste their time at the bar. Or are married to their careers and need a sure thing. Or are painfully shy. Or or or...

You can write it off your taxes as charity.

While you do indeed reserve the right to discount anyone you wish(me for instance.LOL),for someone to ask or expect is flat out rude.


If you're looking for medium-small try Smarty, MP67 or Gambler. You know what they say about whiskey-dick!!!!! LMAO

but after hobbying for so long, I know that I'm better looking that Clooney, Pitt and the rest of them.

Hell, I may even be as good looking as MP67!

Not very often and those that are in my experience are more arrogant and tend to treat the ladies in a way that would ensure no repeat visit. I have one guy that continually emails me even thought I have filtered his email into the delete box. He sent me an initial email telling me how good looking we is with the obligatory accompanying image. The tone of his email screamed arrogance and I politely refused his request for a meeting. He still has not gotten the hint.

Then there are the men I love to see and these men are not conventionally attractive at all, but make great clients because they are sweet, gentle and seem to have a great deal of respect for the ladies they contact. Or at least this comes through on their emails and conversation.

I am not immune to good looking men but I do seem to avoid them in this business because in my experience they are not ideal clients.

As for the well hung part, the smaller the better. I just wish I could put that on my website, because bigger is uncomfortable and there is less I can do with it.

It doesn,t get any better.....Just ask him!  LOL

I simply do not believe it is fair that I should know up-front what a provider looks like; but she should have no idea what to expect when she opens the door.

I'm not particularly handsome, IMO. (Maybe a 6 on the ter scale.) But I'm not Quasimodo either. She just has the picture so she knows what to expect.

I also know I'm not an easy customer in some respects. My favorite provider referred to a session with me as "Physically easy but intellectually demanding." I'm simply not every provider's cup of tea.

So when I am seeing a lady, I like to give her every possible advantage to help her do the best job she can. I think knowing in advance what I look like is one part of that assistance.

Hey, I'm paying the provider. It's not necessary that she find me a physical turn-on. I have no control over that anyway. Besides, the last thing on earth I need is some provider pining away over me. If I wanted to hurt women, I'd be leading civies on instead of paying pros.

But I'll admit to doing what I can to make my company enjoyable in other respects. I often do a fair amount of "homework" in advance of a date, including reading material in her fields of interest, etc.

That way, even if she doesn't especially enjoy the physical part, she can at least enjoy the company.

Life is too short to spend it in the company of unenjoyable clients.

The paradox of the envelope is that it raises a very high hurdle in terms of the truthfulness of any positive statement uttered by the provider.

Not sure why. One provider told me that I was her youngest client ever, even though I was older than her. She typically had older clients, up to 80 years old. Another provider said that her typical client was mid 30s, rarely above mid 40s. It sounded like she would be freaked out if she got anyone older than 50. Another provider said she was relieved when she saw me because most of her clients were unattractive.

I've got to think that there are lots of decent looking clients out there, because there are so many reasons to see a provider. There are lots of normal looking guys in sexless marriages that don't want messy affairs, not just ugly fat and bald guys that can't get sex except if they pay for it. Maybe some providers don't get a lot of the good looking clients, but I've got to believe there's a decent number of them out there.

And to add, what is good looking to one lady may not be to another. OK for argument sake let's not use any Hollywood type guy to compare...that's like using a model to set the bar for what is good looking for a woman...hang on, that is done on here...oops my bad.

Look, besides the tongue in cheek glibness I might add here and there, I can safely say that looks mean nothing to me...It's your attitude and level of respect that mean EVERYTHING. One of my fave clients is 45o pounds if he's an ounce and the sweetest guy ever! Good looking no...fat yes...a great guy, you freaking bet he is and oh so gentle with me.

None of my clients are ugly...just not what you'd call attractive in the general sense of the word. But I don't care about that one bit. I am not looking for a soul mate or a SO from any of my clients...as much as the gents pay us to go away, the same goes for me. I will be Oh so happy to see you again the next time you book some time with me.  

I know full well what this is about and I do not ever blur the boundaries...I have a private life and am dating myself and am very, very content.

I've seen numerous ladies who advertise how exceptionally attractive they are and they're only marginally good looking. On top of that, some of them try to charge way too much for their time. Fortunately, if a lady doesn't light my fire, I don't have to make an appointment.

Actually, if you look up 'narcissist' in the the dictionary

You'll see my pic!

BTW....

by so many people, for so long a time, it's kinda hard not to believe it yourself.

It's a fucking curse sometimes.

When I see a lady I would very much like to be fucking with, and I tell her who I am, sometimes they get intimidated and that fucking sucks.

Then I have to act like a nice guy and assure them that I'm just like every other guy, just better looking.

Then when I make them wear their ankles behind their ears when I pound them Greek, I think they get the idea I was bull-shitting them.

But hey(link included), everybody's gotta fucking grow up some time!!!  

is the one in his back pocket.  I am amazed at the guys who try this line.