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But if others are, more power to them. It cost someone money to shoot that photograph. There must be someone jacking to her.

*sets down cake*  

Hello gentlemen,  

If I respond to this intelligently as part of a conversation, can we refrain from the demeaning comments in regards to my size ? Im simply here to offer a point of view from an actual BBW provider who does happen to see her fair share of business. As im not here to get into a war with anyone and put down anyone because of their difference of tastes.  

Ive addressed this type of topic on my local board as well..  

Its clear that everyone has their own individual tastes.  
Though im still wondering why when this subject is brought up, it has to be done in such a derogatory manner and that people who comment on it have to be insulting, when all it is a difference of taste.  

If you look on Eros which is a good example, they have categories, Petite, Ebony, MILF, Mature, Big Booty, BBW, PORN, Asian, TS, XXX, BDSM etc..  

Categorically speaking, these have existed as long as the sex industry has and there is a demand for niche market providers as much as what you would consider your typical mainstream providers, and this industry has room for all of them.  

I know this may be shocking to you big girl haters, but there is a healthy market out there for BBW providers. What may be as equally shocking is not all of us hate ourselves and there is a majority of us who embrace ourselves and all our BBWness proudly.  

It has nothing to do with the economy since BBW providers have been around as long as this industry has been around, its considered a niche market, because there is a demand for them.  

Speaking from personal experience,  and trust me when I say this , there is absolutely no lack of self-esteem on my part. I'm a women so I have my days, but over all I think im pretty awesome.  
Im smart, funny, well-spoken, quick witted, full of personality and I was blessed with the fact that as a big girl I fill out my plus size hourglass rather well and darnit people like me.  
I love being a provider, I am passionate about this industry, and I am passionate about continuing to build a sex positive environment for myself and others who participate in it. I've been blessed with the opportunity of connecting with some amazing clients and providers. And I'll be damned if anyone is ever going to  make me feel less than fabulous with something as simple as words.  
There are so many quality men in this community that love big girls as well as men that love women of all shape and size variety that Im not lacking in dates.  I actually offer a 2 hour just desert type experience where I bring the client my favorite desert and we share ,, and its gone over rather well ..
There is room for all and to each his/her own
 
Pleasure is a buffet with an endless amount of delectable entrees to serve yourself from. and there is always something for every taste..  

And If you want to put me into a OTHFBC, thats your choice, but I dont think being in your 30's is considered over the hill either  
Ive also notice that any provider who tries to debate this subject is also accused of being bitter, and that isnt the case , just simply offering a different point of view..  
I think it would be nice to see the community refrain from putting eachother down because of our individual tastes, or stop making a bigger deal over body types , when it is a simple as " if you dont like it dont try it" stick to what you love ..  

Whats the big deal anyways, How does it hurt you if I dont hate myself ?  
 
Now if you'll excuse me, I have a piece of heavenly 7 layer dark chocolate cake that I have to partake in and afterwards im going to wash that down with a glass of whole milk,, and god damn if Im not going to enjoy every last bite...  
 
Bless, Beauty and Bliss,  
Yours Truly,  
~Cat xoxo

Classy Post. lol

but that doesn't change the fact that not all large women are in fact BBW, some truly do belong in the OTHFBC, I will admit that you would most likely be refused admission into that club. One of the prerequisites for membership is bitterness, you seem be lacking in that department. lol

and thanks for spoiling my fun, How am I supposed to respond to a well written, non hysterical, unapologetic post like yours with a put down without looking not only like an asshole (which is a badge I wear proudly) but a moronic and judgmental asshole to boot?

You have achieved the impossible, while you haven't exactly rendered me speechless, this post which is getting a bit wordy is proof of that, but you have put in the unfamiliar position of not having a "witty comeback" so I guess you'll get sincerity instead. Generalizing all large women to be beautiful is simply not true, but generalizing all of them to be bon bon eating couch potatoes not worth the air they breathe or the food they eat is equally not true.

I am now going to retire to eat my own piece of 7 layer dark chocolate cake, along with a little bit of crow, but I will pass on the milk.  Happy now??? rofl

The totally irascible and piggish one?  Oh, right, that's your smarter brother.
FYATWYRIO!

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I try to keep things on the positive side of life...  

There is a piece of pie for everyone in this industry..  
(( I love food references for obvious reasons ;P ))

For the record, Im way more of a cake BBW than bon-bons..  

Death By Chocolate at Figlios , it should be on the TDL of every desert connoisseur  

And just in case you think I lack wit and humor , please read said thread below and enjoy

CAKE FTW!!

I CANNOT TELL A LIE!!  

The awesomnisty of my overly verbosity is staggering and only amplified by the introduction of CAKE!!

:P

Bliss, Bless, Beauty

~Cat aka CAKELOVAH!!

Ive never had a client shorter than me, and im 5'8" without heels..  
and builds have varied from skinny, muscular, average to big guys..  
I think the commonality is gentlemen over 50 and id have to say so far that around 80% book 2 hours or more.. because they like the intimacy/cuddle/social time .
All my clients have had down to earth and charming personality types

I have been doing PA/screening/scheduling work and business/marketing development for other providers for 4+ years and in my time doing that saw that there was a demand for cute fluffy (( i like that word better )) statuesque BBW's
So I threw my hat in the ring about 1 1/2 year ago and do it PT, and have had a wonderful client response.  Before I did though, I researched other BBW providers as far as advertising, rates, presentation. Determined what my goals were, what type of clients I wanted to see and what I wanted to get out of being a provider. I had an advantage because I had all the ad and board and secure site exposure from being a PA. Im incredibly resourceful and already had an established network of industry professionals to get alot of great input from. Im an astute screener and set up strict screening and verification protocols, to weed out all the rif-raf, and ((knocks on wood)) so far all my clients have been the "good guys"  

My decision wasnt economy based, and I dont know if I break a mold, but I actually put alot of thought into making the decision to "cross-over" .
Im already a very sex-positive person, and Im a very independent female and with everything that I juggle I dont have time for the whole "relationship" thing. I dont believe in monogamy, so I like having a variety of partners. I love working in this industry, and believe its empowering. I get to do something that I LOVE to do, have a great time, and make connections with all types of men as well as connection with other incredible women who are providers, and the bonus is that I get paid.  
I make what I want to make, im not into owning a ton of name brand shoes and purses, and Im not going to lie , having the extra money to buy the things I want is nice. But money wasnt entirely my motivating factor, because its not the only thing I do in this industry.
I also thought it was a great way to connect more with my PA clients that I work with because I know better where they are coming from because I do walk in their shoes, if that makes sense. And so far my experience has been a positive one.  

I also think that regardless of the laws, that this industry will exist no matter what, and like all other industries there has to be positive role models so to speak, and im happy to share what I have learned from everything I have done in this industry to help other ladies who make the conscious decision to participate, to grow and be successful in this field as well.  

Oh and there is that part that its also a FANTASTIC way to get my exercise in for the week :P  
You know, because of the whole cake thing.. *winks*

~Cat xox

I could not imagine a more disgusting evening than one spent with someone of her attributes.

I know there are "chubby chasers" out there, but BBW to me means...FAT!