Last june. The man i met on craigslist wanted to be my manager and show me the tricks of the trade. My first appt was an hr with a nice Asian man... he said it was his first time and it was mine too, but i said I've been doing it for months we finished and i split the 175 three ways, and I got to keep one third.


This memory encapsulates all the reasons why I became independent. I hope your memories are more enjoyable.

A john shows up and she gives a BBBJ...then he wants to CIm ad she is replsed.

Then he wans FS and shE doscn't hv rubber...so mor BBBJ.

Thne he wnants hr phne nbmeber cz he wnsts to see her OTC.

And sHe has to gfive her mnoney to a PimP

I had to deal with running one, I decided it would be a hell of a lot easier to make that money doing it myself from time to time. My first day, was not all that great. It was actually Valentines Day and I was single (just got divorced from my second), and did not do incalls at that time. It was very scary going to some random hotel and standing at the door knowing some guy was judging me through the peep hole.

I wondered if he would leave me standing there, or think I was cute enough to let in lol. He was nothing like the clients I can see today, I will say that. It was seedy and a bit rushed on his part, not what I would call gfe. He did tip me 100 and talked to me after this first nut, and that was all he wanted.

I took another call about two hours or so after and since I knew nothing about etiquette, I raced home to take a bath vs. doing it in the next client's room. Again, another lonely guy for V day just needing company. There was no kissing, daty, or any of the sort. It was a bbbj, cfs, and done. He tipped me as well, which was nice, but I could never see myself doing 2 clients like that in a day again.

I like charging more, and working less. I also value the power I have as an indy and agency owner because I can pick and choose clients who call the agency, and decide if I want to market myself to them or give them to another girl.

What brought me to this business? Wanting to further my education because my first degree would only benefit me in an area like Chicago, NYC or Paris lol, and a bit of being lazy. I did not, and still do not want to work 50 hours a week to make what I can make in 4.

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Nervous, of course

I was dating a guy for about 6 months and found out he was seeing escorts almost daily. I had googled one of his aol screen names and a review that he had written on TER came up. We broke up over his controlling behaviors and, of course, the escorts. I had been aware he was with other women sporadically, and although it did bother me that wasn't a problem. The putting himself at risk seeing these random backpage losers who were clearly crackheads upset me, as well as the amount of money he was burning through. That and he was opening himself up to acquire amd pass an STD clinched the breakup.

A few weeks later after worrying about money, I had an epiphany. If those idiots were being successful, why couldn't i? I was insanely nervous, but luckily I had come across TER and did many weeks of researching. I ordered several books, two of my favorite being The Business Side of Escorting II(written by a CPA) and The Internet Escort's Guide series.


Luckily for me, my first client was a guy that just came back from Iraq and when I met him at the door I was shocked at how smoking hot he was. We ended up chatting for a good 45 minutes before I got up the nerve to make a move. A set of six pack abs is a great way to get introduced into the P4P lifestyle, LOL.