I would very much appreciate feedback from ladies and gentlemen with regard to YOUR private vs. hotel incall experience.

**DISCLAIMER**  This is not an ad. I am entering a new VENTURE with a private incall.  

Previously my incall has always been a hotel.  I believe sharing an experience at a private incall vs. a hotel incall offers a more cozy and intimate environment.  Please consider sharing your experiences, both negative and positive, hopefully more positive,    with me and other members of this board. No bashing required.  During my travels I have had the opportunity to see some of the gorgeous incalls of some of the top ladies in the business.

Like other ladies who have made this decision, in choosing my private incall, security, discretion, comfort, and location were of major concern to me. I believe that opening the door to the comfort and personal atmosphere of my space opens the door to a more intimate experience vs. a hotel incall. In my opinion, this type of incall becomes more exclusive and intimate.

Thank you.

Sexy Carolina

A top hotel is better than a private locale with  stinky pets etc., but a plush private locale beats all but a top 5 star hotel.  Great service is the key regardless.

I did have 2 bad experiences at "private" incalls both involving dogs. At one, the dog used a hot radiator as a "doo doo" receptacle. (That was vile)!!!   And another where the provider, hobbyist, and "Foo Foo" were all expected to share the bed equally.  WTF?   "Smelly" smells a lot better than Foo Foo or Doo Doo !  lol



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Personally, I prefer a hotel.  You don't say what the private incall setting is -- if you're talking about your own place, I'm always wondering about nosy neighbors, whether it's a big apt complex or a private house.  I'm glad I don't have vanity plates on my car, but if I did, this would be another cause for concern.  With a hotel, you're just another guy passing thru.  

Also, if you're talking about experiences at "private incall locations," let me tell you...ummmm....her cat jumping on the bed at the magic moment....the dirty dishes in the kitchen....the TV running all the time....the puppy poop in the bathroom...the boyfriend in the other bedroom.......yikes!  and I consider myself a relatively sophisticated consumer....

I would much rather drive to see someone and be able to leave when I'm ready than having to ask someone to leave because of my schedule or if he doesn't get the hint that it is time to leave. Plus, I feel safer going to a hotel. Then I don't have to worry about nosey neighbors.

With outcall, I don't have to worry about how my house looks (and it usually is in good shape), or washing sheets afterward, etc. My incall location is a very private part of my life, but I do offer it and it's very nice.

Hugs,
ciara

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...on the type of building, amount of exposure to nosy neighbors, etc.  One of my favorites had a very nice small efficiency in a very anonymous building in DC.  Very easy to park & get in & out without being noticed.  That setting I preferred to a hotel.

due to it being a fixed location.

in terms of security?  In a stranger's room, you've got less protection than in your own place...it's a your turf vs. my turf situation.  But if I were a provider, I think I'd prefer outcall.

My apartment building is larger then most hotels, I have been her for years and the managers don’t know who I am, let alone anyone else who walks in. Plus I don’t see enough people to make people think, and the neighbors that I do know, know I work from home, they also think I internet date a lot, being a known slut takes attention of the she could be $#!!!ng it. (just joking on that part.)

It is I am more comfortable at my location, I know where my hammer and stake knives that I have never had to use. Also I am in LA, I hate driving, if I have to use a free way you will not see me till after 9 PM.

I once did an outcall and showed up to one man opening the door but 4 men being in the room, I was able to leave with no fuss, but it scared the shit out of me.

you can scream in a hotel and he knows if something happens to you in the room, his name and address are on file. It's a lot more dangerous to bring someone to your incall.

Hugs,
Ciara

Well personaly it private residence might be better. For example in a private residence a provider could cook a nice dinner at her place which may be better going out to a restaurant for reasons  such as the client has a S.O. and does want to take a chance of her finding out. Even if does not have a s.o. I been restaurants 2 hrs. away from where I live run into friends I know there and would interesting explaing who the provider was. Imagine knocking on providers door and having a candle light dinner ready or almost ready would worth a some extra money even if the dinner was something basic that did not take to long to prepare.

I pretty sure there are other benifits to using a private location that could be better for client but too tired to think of any more.

Also I admit there is more dangerous for the provider so would recremend only using private incall to clients went on at least a few dates with.

I bit the bullet and leased a small apartment.  My business has incresed quite a bit since I leased the apartment - many of the men in the Dallas area just weren't comfortable meeting me at a hotel.

I like the ability to have my own things there without digging them out of a suitcase.  My fridge is full of snacks for me and beverages for my guests.  My bathroom is stocked with necessities so that the gentlemen can shower before going back to work - or home.

Of course, I have been touring some and have gone back to living out of a suitcase - but i'm still glad to have my little incall there.

When a woman sets up her private space she can let more of who she is show in the decore. I love to see what makes each person different from the others I have shared the bed with. For those that are concerned there are security systems that one can install in a private incall that far surpass anything the hotels have to offer.

It is always a series of trade offs and there is not always one right answer.  However, I must say that it is a big turn on for me to be in the bed of a sexy lady.

Do any of the other guys out there feel the same way?

Outcall to a hotel is fine; it would be better if the clients is known. Outcall to a home should be for regular clients only. Incall location should not be the provider's home; for security reasons the incall location should be changed several few months.

Both private incalls and hotel incalls are fine with me but I do like the personal atmosphere of a private incall. By the way, I would like the pets out of sight. . . at least for the first visit anyway.

Hi, I used to use hotels for incall exclusively.

Now I have my own place. It's not as fancy as I've heard about some others. Or as bad as some, lol. But I keep it very clean and feel comfortable there.

One thing I strongly advise is to have your clients call you while in route to your location. I have them call when they are just close by & stay on the phone until they get to my door. Reason being, when I first got my place, the first 4 out of 5 guys I had invited over went & knocked on the wrong door in bldg next door. I wasn't real upset but a few said that they weren't sure they were in right bldg. And I wondered why they didn't just call me from their cell phone.

I think there's good & bad in both situations, what I liked about hotel incalls is that since I would only rent the room on days I had an appt, I feel that it was kinda safe in that I was not in the same place all the time, meaning different hotels, etc.

But I noticed guys were way more nervous about going to a hotel vs apartment/home although I don't totally see why. I mean I know if they are married, they worry someone may seem them, but it's a hotel for goodness sakes.

I don't see it any less discreet than an established incall. Some ladies have alot of visitors in a day. So I felt good in hotels in that I may be there one day but not the next.

One good thing about having your own place is making appts anytime, like around 11 am for example which is an odd time at a hotel because of check out, etc.

I'm pretty low volume, so I think that helps cut down on some problems.  

Good Luck!

Sara

I've read some many stories about ladies & gents pets on dates.  I don't actually live at my incall so my cats are at home & they are very neat, lol.

I think a messy place would be a big turn off.

My neighbors are all brazilian & I rarely see them.

Sara

Touring gilrs tend to schedule appts a half hour apart. Or they just don't want you around. So you half to leave and you feel a bit rushed.

With Private they may schedule only 1 or 2 appts a day and will let you hang after the playing in over IF they like you and there is a natural personality match.

Private incall offers more atmosphere in that the woman can set a stage more readily. Not that a hotel room cannot be transformed, but the options are more limited than a private incall.

With that said, some private incall locations are dumps! and can be filthy. At least at the hotels, you know that someone has been through at some point recently.

The ideal is a setting that is comfortable and clean. I would want a place that maybe adds to the experience, but at least does not detract from...

I say if it makes the woman more comfortable to be in one or another and she is more free to be totally with me, then I am all for it.

I agree that there are many different pros and cons with the outcall/incall situation as well as within the private vs. hotel incall situation.  I would add one more plus to the private incall sitaution although it's a bit on the emotional side of things.  When a woman has expressed a level of trust to not only meet with me but to invite me into her home then I do feel that I've been granted a special privledge and to that degree I do feel honored and I really respect such a gesture.

Since we have done both, my place and yours, and yours is always immaculate, I much prefer incall with you.  So much more intimate, relaxed, erotic.
For me, hotels have too much scrutiny that it makes me paranoid.  Perhaps on a first visit, but as much as we know each other your place and you are as close to paradise as it comes. Besides, we can cook and play with food too. Wink.