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HobbyAdvocate 3585 reads
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It's time to mention something that I'm sure we all have noticed here and there and that is - DETAILS.

Have you noticed sometimes someone will write a post or a review and mention something unnecessary such as the location of her incall? How about just saying 'her incall', 'her apartment', or how about mentioning just 'San Diego'. No one has to mention the city, or anything else more precise.

Have you noticed reviews where, at the end, he uses her real name to say 'thanks' or 'goodbye' or something? What's up with that?

Leave details out. Vague is good. This is about discretion people!

A story is only as good as its details, and with the crapheap of wham-bam-thank-you reviews, I savor those details. It makes it genuine. Speaking of details, could you be more specific? Which reviews? (Yes, the sky is blue depending on your perspective, but what about it?) I would think that Staff would be happy to edit content that made a provider nervous. My reviews have been chopped for length, so there must be some editing process afoot.

Here, here! Listen up, prick up your ears: providers are everywhere, we are taking over the planet, budding off and multiplying like the Playboy bunnies we aspire to be. Long live.

when you are looking for a provider in a big city or one with suburbs, it is nice to know if she is midtown, eastside, west side, etc...I agree stating that she is on 57th Street and Madison on the 3rd floor of a white brick building is a bit over the top...and I have seen such details slip through the 'cracks'!

I agree.  Sometimes people put the Washington, DC Metro area.  That is an area that could be 75-100 miles across.  Even if I owned a car, there's some places I wouldn't want to drive considering the traffic here.  But if you put Downtown, Tyson's corner, Silver Spring, then I know whether I am willing to go to that area before I contact the lady.  I did see a review in my area with an intersection and I thought that was too much info.  That said, if a lady requested that I not give any information about the area she is in, I'd respect that just as I would not write a review about her at all if she asked me not to do that given that she was not a ripoff.

in L.A., at least, you gotta plan for the science of traversing this nasty highway system.  Knowing whereabouts a provider provides is essential to whether or not I book her.  I wish people would put the damn street sweeper's day in their reviews so we know not to book her when parking doesn't exist.  (I'm trying to concentrate on my boner here and I'm walking 2 miles!)
 Obviously I agree on not handing out real names and actual street numbers.
NetMichelle has hit the nail on the flat part when she calls for MORE details.  Of course she's looking for lurid ones, god bless her her pointy little heart.

I find myself to be in agreement with HA on this one. All details of a geographical nature can be gotten from the provider upon the hobbyist's first contact, I would think.

Discretion (in all areas) is a must in this profession/hobby.


And real names-- never.  

Discretion is really just being selectively vague.  If you're too vague, you might as well use macros of five letters from Penthouse Forum and just insert different names, or maybe rearrange the order.

/Zin

Vague is not good... not at 300+ per hour!

Why even have reviews then... kinda wasting time saying "I saw so and so, had a great time"... do we really need a review section for that, let alone pay a fee to access those reviews?

Now I agree that locations shouldn't be given out... but there are certain details with location that can be helpful.  I've read reviews where a client described parking as a problem due to the location being in a very bad neighborhood.  I value my safety as much as the provider, so for me, this made for good info as I decided to pass on that particular lady.  Once I heard she switched her incall to a hotel, I went and saw her.

Being discrete doesn't mean saying nothing... it means selecting the right information and the best way to post it.  I agree to be discrete, but don't omit important details.

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