My last date that's what I called her and she liked it

but even more than that, many of the gals I know going back decades now are just good friends who are open to hearing listening to what I have to say, and know that I will reciprocate.

 
As I age, I am finding that as important than the sexual release I get with them.

providers = fantasy

I try to seek out those gals that I imagine would be my ideal.  Some of the Asian gals, I picture being some of the gals I dated in the past.  Blondes are somewhat of a rarity in the DC area, as many are priced out of my comfortable range.

Ideal?  I used to see some gals who were absolutely dolled up in the office environment.
An ATF used to do that for me, just to the point where she could pass for a highly desired coworker.

Others, I look for someone who instinctively know how to treat me if I were coming home after work.  Almost like a roleplay without having to actually set it up or to ask for it.

In addition to enjoying sex, they were/are girls who liked being rebels who lived by their own rules, broke lots of others and rejected the constraints of "polite society."
They wear the title of "hooker" like a badge of honor. They'd laugh at being called a healer or a therapist.