Let's say that you have a couple of ladies that you especially like to spend time with, but your budget leaves you two choices.

1) You can them less often, but possibly for longer dates.
2) You can still see them regularly, but will have to settle for shorter dates.

Which would you opt for?

And ladies, would you rather see some of your favorite gents for longer dates, or more often.

I'd much rather see her regularly but shorter dates than less often.  For example, I'd rather see a lady once per month for a two-hour date than see her for an overnighter once every three months.

I've got three scenarios depending on the lady-

I've got one repeat that is incredibly beautiful- the only 10 in appearance I've given out, we enjoy each other thoroughly for the sex, have good conversation, but there is no connection.  I repeat with her every two months for a one hour visit and always am glad I did, but there is never any reason to spend more than an hour.

I've got another repeat that has become a friend- no "in love" but a friend, and I see her every two months for two hours because we love to talk afterwards.

I've got three repeats that there is major connection- not only are we good friends, but the connection is very strong- well within the necessary boundaries.  I would never book less than 4-6 hours with these three.  I could not imagine coming for an hour for sex and leaving, they have become friends and lovers- and the love making takes 4-6 hours.  A meal to reacquaint and start the seduction, then 4 hours of love making, cuddle, intimate talk, love making, cuddle, intimate talk.....   Any shorter would just not feel right.

I no longer do overnights unless the occasional 4-6 hour just evolves to an overnight.  While I love going to sleep and waking up cuddled, I can't see an extra $1000 for the sleeping hours!

Now travel is a different story.........

I've never done 1/2 sessions, except in the "old" days. One hour seems about right

exactly

I see my atf for one hour.....but of course, I see her 3 times a week about 12 or more per month, so it adds up.  I've done longer dates...it doesn't really equate with more quality.... seeing her reguarly allows me to see her in her variety of moods and styles...which has been really interesting.  Longer dates doesn't necessarily mean its any more special...sometimes I've had 2 or 3 hour sessions and she happened to be having a bad day... I do both longer and shorter...but if I was forced to choose, its more fun to see a girl go through the different seasons.

I need an hour minimum...  one fav gives me 1.5 for nearly the donation of one & the time is well spent.  Halves are too short.

Several hours / over nights...  I'd reserve that for a ATF and would really break my budget...  this would not be in my plan normally.
S

I don't know Sophie, I agree with the longer dates, some I would love to spend more time with...but, I am a fraid I'd miss them too much between dates.

I love long dates, especially overnights; however I get pretty lonely if I don't see  someone every week.

So far, I've been able to make the finances work, but if and when the time comes to choose, it will be a tough choice.

I suppose I will opt for the shorter session and see someone more frequently, but then again, I might just have to knock off a drugstore.

We shall see.

Agree.  While I love the long sessions and overnights, seeing my favorite lady twice during her visits for shorter sessions rather than one longer one is preferable.   Keeps the anticipation level high all week!

“54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month”

“19% of women think about sex everyday or several times a day, 67% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 14% less than once a month.”

I think by the very nature of the male/female anatomy and physiology, men crave release more frequently than women. Of course, there are always annecdotal exceptions.

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I think thats wrong, either that or I am very very very horny, more than most woman in their study.
who are they surveying, it's  crazy.

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If I really needed money that badly I'd do what the bid boys do and invade an oil rich country.

I'm trying to recall who said it, G B Shaw?:

It is criminal to steal a loaf of bread.
It is daring to steal a fortune.
It is genious to steal a crown.

Criminality decreases with the magnitude of the crime.

The lady who saves money by using paper towels instead of wasting time and money washing a cloth one!


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I just loved that one.

maddy