Just wondering: What is your preferred way to start a session?  Getting right into the intimate activities or chatting first while enjoying a beverage? Or, maybe beginning with a shower or bath together?

Runningman

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I let the provider start the date her way, as I enjoy watching people and often wonder why they do the things they do.

However, being a fairly extreme introvert, I find it much easier to chat with a woman after I have had sex with her. Sex is a great conversation starter.

I have one favorite who, upon me opening the door on our first date, lunged at me and smoothered me with kisses as she pulled my clothes off.

Others, invite you in, offer a glass of wine and want to chat for fifteen minutes before they suggest that I might be more comfortable with less clothing on.

I loved both sessions.  Variety is such a wonderful thing.

I find it way too mechanical if you jump right into the action. Even if I am seeing someone I have seen before, I enjoy some opening conversation.

Do you providers have any preference, especially when you are seeing someone for the first time?

I agree that each session is different! And so far - none have been the same! I love kissing and especially with tongue - so in doing research if the lady isn't into it based on reviews - then I pass for now! (same with DATY)!

I also like the chatting, with sweet kisses in between and even soome rubbing and if the lady is really into this - well it gets the session started - it seems more like seduction and deep passionate looks - than just jumping into it!

Maybe old fashion - but I know I am less distracted than just a cold - get the clothes off and let's start!

...variety is such a wonderful thing.  For me, it is a most important thing.  Women are so wonderfully different and fascinating.

A shower together is a great ice breaker.  Depends how well you do at chit chat.  

I find first dates so full of anticipation, it's nice to use that tension to it's advantage.

I hope you don't mind me posting a response.

It does depend on the client too. I generally prefer to talk a little and try to put people at ease. It also allows them to 'check me out' (I don't show my full face on my website). I never had anyone walk out on me so far...haha

Gents who i meet regularly can be completely different. I feel more at ease to take their clothes off right after they walk in , i am sure you get the idea.

I don't think anyone can generalise. Each to their own.

On occasion, if I know the gent, I like to jump right on him. Variety is the spice of life, and it depends on both our moods and desires.

That said.. To generalize, I'd say I usually like to have a glass of water and/or wine and chat for 10-15 minutes or so.. I kind of feel like it relaxes me to be able to catch up for a few minutes and have a little something to eat and/or drink before jumping into the action. I don't expect to spend a half an hour or a full hour talking (although sometimes if I know the gent and it's a longer date, it does happen that way) but I'd say for me the ideal would be to have a refreshment or beverage, often just a glass or bottle of water, and chat for a bit, and then maybe over the course of the 10-15 minute conversation, ease into making out, fondling, removing an article or two of clothing.. then move to the bed and jump into the hardcore action. It feels more natural to me, I guess, although like I said, there are times when jumping right in to bed is exciting and mutually desired.

Like I said, it certainly depends, and isn't the same every time. Just what makes me feel most comfortable, in general, is to have a few minutes to adjust and progress into the action.

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Marea

Also.. I often like to start a session with mutual massage which kind of gets the body and the senses warmed up.. the progression from light touch to heavy petting, the sensual to the sexual.. aahhh.

And the idea of a bath or shower.. especially a bath. I like to shower before I come, to get the cleansing part out of the way privately.. but then taking a bath or hot tub dip together, not to get clean but more to relax and touch, could be a great way to start. I mean, you could have a glass of wine or water and conversation while sitting in the tub, and the sensations of the warm water and nakedness, like massage, kind of get the body revved up for the sensations to come.

Also, I have one regular who, on occasion, we'll go to the hotel pool/jacuzzi and go back and forth between the hot tub and pool for a few minutes, caressing and kssing. Hard to explain if you haven't done it, but it's usually very private and deserted, and the state of relaxation from the extreme temperature change and being buoyant in the water is comparable to the way you feel right after getting a professional full-body massage, or that post-orgasm full-body relaxation.. it's an amazing feeling and gets us both feeling both relaxed in the body, and randy from touching and seeing one another in partial undress.

I also like the idea of doing the bath together, or the hotel pool/hot tub thing, in between two rounds, during the rest and conversation period. Or taking a shower together between the two rounds, just to rinse off and cool down after getting all sweaty together, and then doing it all over again.

XoXo
Marea

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will be able to sense fairly quickly what kind of mood the fellow is in and react accordingly.  Sometimes she will sit on my lap, both of us fully clothed, and discuss issues; sometimes she will strip both of us and jump into a shower; sometimes we will undress and lie together in bed for a hour chatting, joking, laughing, before any physicality takes place.  Her ability to read the mood is the thing that makes her the FOTD--setting aside, for the moment, that she's tall, beautiful, a REDHEAD, and very skilled at the art.

This is my favorite part...


I love when the door opens, and she is wearing something sexy.  

Personally I prefer a bikini top, with one tit hanging out.

I like to stick my tongue out, and do some dirty flirting/dirty talk, in a somewhat restrained/mellow, somewhat agressive manner, and let the energy/chemistry go from there.

I prefer to start a session with a shower. Sometimes I am joined by the provider sometimes I am not but the warmth of the water relaxes me and puts me in the mood.

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I think for me each session is different in terms of how I want to begin. Lots of times I like to chat at the beginning to catch up on things since our last session(in the case of a regular). Sometimes I'm not even sure how I want to begin a session.  I know that when I'm seeing a provider for the first time, I'm quite shy and nervous, so I prefer to talk for a while and maybe have a glass of wine or water to break the ice a little bit.  Sometimes a massage is a great way to begin as well, that can be very relaxing.  I can only hobby  once a month so there are times when  I might want to get right to the hot fun, and then chat and have a beverage afterwards.
I love taking a shower or bath together. I've never started  a session with  either of those, but have done them between rounds. During my last appointment we took a bubble bath after round one and it was very relaxing. It was actually the first time I  had ever taken a bath with a woman, so it was quite a moment for me(go ahead, laugh at me).  I'm thinking I may want to begin my next appointment with a bath, if the gal is up for it...
I like variety so if we find different ways to start sessions, that's perfectly fine with me.

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It's been a while since I've looked at a picture and just went "OH MY GOD.  OH SWEET MAGICAL JESUS!!!!"  Who is SHE... and how can I meet her?!?!?!  Thanks for the pictures, OFF.

an extended passionate make out session, clothes on. Then, we slowly take each others' clothes off. Talking comes later. This is how my most passionate real life girl friend rendezvous went, and I still crave it.

I get tired of showing up, sitting down for a chat, and then having to strip before *anything* has really happened. Or worse, having to "get comfortable" almost immediately. I understand that, but hate it.

I like boobs that stand up & salute!

of the awesome women I've been blessed to see (see reviews), I'm sure all could attest to the fact that I can get lost in conversation easily. I've learned to always book at least two hours to leave time for speaking English before moving on to 'other' languages. It's kind of cute when the ladies are the ones to put the moves on me!

Well...I always shower right before I attend the incall.  When she opens the door and lets me in and locks the door behinds us, I put the donation down and embrace her in a long tight hug.  This is to slow down my slamming heart and I always love hugs.  I always request that she wear tight, figure form fitting clothing so after the big hug we rub our bodies against one another and I spin her around so my crotch grinds against her buttocks and my paws roam all over her body.  Then the clothes slowly come off....

we should skip the elevator and take the stairs!    We can come back and get the clothes later as we chit chat!  Trust me, I would chase you up the stairs and throwing clothes at me would only egg me on! LOL

I suppose we would be ready for the shower when we got to the room.  I like your thinking!

I agree, and tend to do the same.  Love it when they move on me.  Classic example, I'm in my late 60's, and the agency sent a substitute who was just under 20.  She was new, and lovely.  So, we chatted up, me trying to discover how she would handle the age difference and give her a legitimate chance to decline the session.  She gave me a superb answer, "because you guys know what you're doing!"  We had a wonderful time.