true one was slightly less than enthused but understood the Prime Directive of SO Relationships: sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. which in this case meant no BJ no DATY.
OTOH one was a totally enthusiastic BBBJNQNS-swallows. there was even a bye-bye BBBJ.... a BBBBBJ.
want to as long as your wife wants to every time you're wanting it. It took me three times to get a wife that does. Life doesn't get much better than that! It pays not to give up!
and just a pretext for make up sex. does that clarify?
i actually loathe arguing. i "make myself" argue when i think i'm being steam rollered. it costs energy and it is stressful. but it is always more stressful to STFU.
100% when she wanted something or was apologizing for something idiotic that she did. Closer to 0% when I was feeling the need. I'm now happily divorced and get it 100% of the time because I always feel the need! LOL
although i hear lots of horror stories from many of the married men i see about their wives lack of sexual interest or participation, i've observed lots of commonalities which point to overlooking sexual incompatibility in the early stages of a relationship. in other words, knowing that things weren't 100% from the start, but hoping that in time things would improve. even in the oft-told case of those women who were supposedly sexual dynamos before marriage or in the first year or so of marriage, then turned into cold fish, there were usually clues and signals that were not picked up on, clues which would tell an observant, even mildly analytical person that all of those hot sexy times in the beginning weren't always genuine on her part.
but anywho, i am a married woman and i enjoy giving oral sex to my Husband very much, nearly everyday. it is actually my favorite sexual activity by far, as there is so much variety (everything from him laying back, relaxing while i attentively serve him to having my gag reflex tested and eyes water from being passionately throat fucked), and it really makes me KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that i am giving him pleasure. with intercourse, a man is really just using my body, but with fellatio i am really putting in the work and i dig that.
...my percentage in that department was ZERO percent! Took me 18 1/2 years to find out why -- turns out her father sexually molested her from the age of 8 until she was 13. Explained a lot, but then a lot of damage was done by then, so the marriage wasn't salvageable.
Of the half-dozen SOs since then, about half were generally enthusiastic about the giving and the other half were occasionally indulgent. What surprised me were the number that were NOT enthusiastic about the *receiving* of oral, even though I've been told that I'm apparently good at the giving part of the process.
So it's become my "screening tool," i.e., the litmus test, for any potential SO. If she's enthusiastic about the oral portion of the playtime, then she has SO potential. Of course, I have yet to devise a process for gauging how *long* she might retain that enthusiasm, as it seems to diminish over time and leading to a general diminishing of the relationship overall.
If it isn't any good? One hundred percent of the women that I have been married to performed oral sex (that would be my one and only ex wife)but it was only done rarely and I was never allowed to come anywhere near climaxing that way. The first time I paid a pro for BBBJ and she sprayed my cum all over her tits I completely lost interest in oral sex at home...
Absolutely agree. 1st wife would not get her mouth within a mile of my organ 99% of the time. If she did, it was a painful tooth filled experience. Wife # 2 had no problem but, CIM was not an option. After that, my girlfriends and SO's have been very orally inclined, including 2 who went above and beyond and even taught me a few new things !
Who cares about the percent. If it's that important to you and you don't get what you want, move on. What matters is the woman you are with.
1. Birthday - sex comes along with it. 2. Honeymoon = the whole package 3. Anniversary = that's only if you were not a cheap bastard on the gift 4. New Years = depending on alcohol consumption
Falls rapidly after 40 to practically non-existent. Headache syndrome prevails. Although BJ's can be purchased via nice anniversary gifts or wads of money to be spent on useless shit in their life.
If you answer “yes” to “honey does this dress make me look fat”, your BJ’s are forever a distant memory.
Falls rapidly after 40 to practically non-existent. Headache syndrome prevails. Although BJ's can be purchased via nice anniversary gifts or wads of money to be spent on useless shit in their life.
If you answer “yes” to “honey does this dress make me look fat”, your BJ’s are forever a distant memory.
They dislike it for the most part. I would say only 20% or so really enjoy it. My SO gives me a BJ (rarely to completion) maybe 7 or 8 times a year. I usually have to hint or guide her into it. That is one of the reasons I like this hobby. Before we were married I got it more often, then that was it.
100% of my one woman sample loves giving and receiving oral sex. She shut down the back door about five years in but has the oral skills of a porn star to this day - and lovs to stay in practice.
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