After a good rollicking round of sex, there's nothing I like better than to curl up with my beloved and enter the land of nod; even if just for a short while before starting round two.

My ex always complained that sex got her to feel just the opposite, she couldn't sleep after sex.  Therefore she was a morning person and I was definately a night person.

I don't recall any provider ever commenting one way or the other, so I thought I would conduct an informal poll here.

Also, guys:  Do you have the same experience as I do?

I've always thought it was natural selection.  We plant our seed and go to sleep while the mother of our progeny stays awake.  Guess who escapes when the hungry sabretooth comes calling?

the time of day.

If it is morning or early afternoon, it charges me up.

Once 3 or 4 pm rolls around, I do feel the urge to rest. Not to nap, though. But if she offers to rub my back, heaven!

Day or night, 24/7, if she asks to cuddle up in a spoon position, I'm there!

I once used to think that the afterward cuddle was a waste of time and $.  It is not!  My only regret from my eveing with my ATF last summer in LV (both of us were 2K + miles from home) was that I didn't do the overnight.  After two rounds of fun, sandwitching dinner, I entered that ethereal realm of nod, only to have to wake up, escort her to her car, and watch her drive away.  Won't happen next time!

I don't date or have a boyfriend .............so I love to cuddle and pillow talk after the frolicking. It makes for more of an intimate session.  I have found many men are missing this important key to intimacy in their lives!  It meets my needs too! I also love to nap afterwards.  But most men aren't keen on paying me to sleep on the job!  hehe

Afterwards, I really enjoy talking and relaxing with the lady I'm with.  Sometimes enjoying a glass of wine together while taking a bath is a great way to relax between rounds. I love that.

I love to give the lady a back rub and tender kisses.  That's saved for my two fav's who feel comfortable with me.   I watch the clock a little, I admit, so that I have time to do this without going over the time limit.  Only fair to do that.

One of these days I'm going to save up the energy and do an entire day with one of my ladies.   Love, eat, love, eat, nap, etc.

Is "love and eat" the same thing or different?!

With my favorite providers and longer appts which I always schedule with them-

I love to talk, cuddle, and back rub-  really enjoy the prolonged closeness.


Now with my wife when we used to have sex.... straight to sleep!

its a chemical reaction really.
When you have sex you release endorphins in the brain which gives you that relax utopia feeling of bliss.
And at the same time by ejaculation its a dumping of testostarone so thats why you want to nap.
Woman also release endorphins as well which causes that utopia feeling but their estrogen levels increase. So unless you have totally worn her out, she is having a rush and not the nap deal as you have.
There you go.

I have three kinds of reactions after my orgasms.

If I am working, with a schedule to follow, I can orgasm and keep going until I wear the guys out.

If I am with my boyfriend or a boytoy, after I cum, I enjoy the cuddling and the spooning, just to rub my ass on his dick and feel him arise again and again

If I am by myself, orgasms put me to sleep real fast! Sometimes I don't even have the chance to remove the toy from my pussy I keep it there during my nap.

I love to masturbate, and I do during my sessions and also when I am bored and have time in between appointments. I have this urge to cum many times a day, either with men or with myself.

To me, orgasms are the best things to either relax or put me to sleep.

BDG

It depends. Sometimes my aftermath is to just curl up and pass out - especially after a really REALLY big O. Sometimes though, I feel like I could run a marathon after a really great round of down and dirty heart pounding toe curling sex.

I have a bad habit of giggling after I cum, which some men find very unnerving. I'm not laughing at them, but sometimes a really satisfying O just makes me giddy LOL

I know what you mean about the giggling and unnerving effect on some.....

I've only experienced the desire to giggle with one special gal-  she had a special intuitive touch and learned my body better than I'd ever experienced, and the pleasure she'd elicit would just make me laugh with joy-  she had a hard time getting used to that- kind of freaked her out!

I actually enjoy running half marathons..... but never really crossed my mind after sex!

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You sound like fun

I find it quite charming actually.

Sometimes I love to cuddle and talk before round two. Sometimes I love to drift off to sleep in her arms. Sometimes I love to get up, get a shower and get some work done. Sometimes I want a big sandwich.

Sex is pretty good before everything.

Ha! My ATF used to laugh after a particularly good round of multiples. I really miss that spontaneous joyful release.

I'm not a roll over kind of girl unless it's late, I'm planning on spending the night and there's no chance of extra innings.

Katie

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Just the thought of you spending the night is enough to make a guy get excited in more ways than one.  Now, a wake-up BBBJ would be a nice bonus.