We all know that providers value regular customers and try to encourage repeat business. That said, how often do the ladies actually come out and ask the guy directly to "come back and see them again"?

I really don't have to come out and outright asked a gent to book with me again! I send out a nice email, DM, or text saying how much I enjoying seeing them and give a few examples of things I enjoyed about our time together. This of course is dome with gents I want to see again. I've never had anyone think I was being pushy with this kind of communication. It's more subtle IMO. I'm thanking them for choosing to book a date with me and I really think that's the way to go for me.  

You should leave off the last paragraph that reveals your own bias.  People are more apt to participate if they don't know you have an agenda of your own.  This is basic Poly Sci 101.  

This depends on several things such as whether or not it is a popular touring lady or a local lady, whether or not I am seeing her in the US or outside of the US, and my actions.  If I mention to her that I enjoyed my time with her as I am leaving, she will almost always tell me the same and encourage me to schedule again.  And if I send her a thank you note, she will always respond.  I'm sure that most people encourage desired behaviors from ladies which probably makes it difficult to discern whether or not that behavior would have occurred absent that encouragement for reciprocation or provocation.  What doesn't happen as much as I would like to see is a simple, unprompted (not in response to a PM or email) thank you note.  Net, 100% (or close) of the time when I encourage it and maybe 50% of the time if I don't.  

That you fellas have acquired. I've had several ladies actually ask me to come back....but more often than not, it's more like " you are welcome to come see me again". Either is fine with me... due to my start with agencies, nothing was really that continuous, but the indies I see, and have seen regularly for about a year now, are always very good to me. I would say I've developed good friendships with them. I'm in the process of cultivating new friendships as well.

Well, I am batting 1000 when it comes to the K-girls I've seen. At least I think they're asking me to book again. Sometimes hard to tell through the thick konglish accent.

I'm not a very adventurous monger. I see about 14 ladies around the US and some of them I see multiple times a year. Most of them ask me when I will be back in town and say they would like to see me again.
Except Terri Lynn. She tells me that I will come back to see her. While I was in Australia, she insisted that on my return to the US, I should fly directly to Atlanta and make sure that she was my first orgasm back in the country. Who am I to argue with that?
Hehehe.  
When I do see new ladies, they already know that I'm a serial repeater and they are not shy about asking me to return.  

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Unless I truly didn't like him...
I always hug and kiss them and tell them to call again (at end of our time together)
I also send a thank you text fairly soon after he leaves.

I am positive that I have had polite goodbyes that suggested a return visit but I always downgraded it to JUST a polite goodbye. I guess I have a hard time accepting that even the most emotional or romantic or sexy request for a return visit is 100% sincere (which I am perfectly OK with).  
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On the positive side, not one hostess has ever told me to leave and to never darken her door again.

1 lady has explicitly asked me to see her again, unprompted.

I bet it is close to 70 to 80 present of my paid dates ether directly ask about, or talk about "the next time".  It goes up if you count statements like "I hope to see you again". And I am not a looker, have a small member and outside of my wife never had much luck with the ladies outside of this world. Hell, even when it is obvious there isn't a connection and I haven't given them tons of "O"s like you read in some reviews they ask.  

...a lot of implied requests and few blatant asks. However, they usually know by my demeanor if I'm interested in repeating or not. So, it's kind of a moot point.

Where might a weary traveler find this particular swimming pool?

To say directly to the guy call me again is not very polite, and you put in an in an uncomfortable situation in front of the customer and you remain as a desperate one. You don't know the situation of the person, if he can or want to make an appointment again.  

Considering like Mick said there are only about 18 people still here, I would say the turnout is pretty good and so far no-one seems to be agreeing with you.  

1st - how do you post pictures that show up in the post and not a link?

that have 10/10 reviews that did not come by them honestly?!!!   I'm shocked, shocked I say!!!!

sample, say 10,000 responses, I think you would find the results form a traditional bell curve, with a few people like me at the 90-100% mark on the right side of the bell, and guys like Followme, who, based on his own experience, doesn't believe ANYONE has ever been asked back by a provider, at the 0-10% mark on the left side.  Usually the biggest volume that forms the "bell" would be in the middle.  However, the results so far from this small sample show the center of the bell would probably sit to the right of center, in keeping with your numbers of 66-75%, which I think is reasonably accurate for someone who sees both Kgirls and chicas from bars.  But again, the sample is going to be too small to have any meaningful results, but this would be a good one to ask when there are 50-100,000 users online at any given time.

invitations to return.  Sometimes, as they are straightening my tie and giving me a goodbye kiss, they will say something like, "When will I see you again." I count these as asking to see me again. Sometimes, as others said, it will be a followup communication shortly after the session, where the provider will say, "It was fun and would be great to do it again sometime soon." I take this as them inviting me back, too. It doesn't have to necessarily occur right as I am walking out the door, or even the same day, nor does it have to be in-your-face-explicit. Some will even wait a week and say, "I miss you. When are you coming back to see me." This also counts as an invitation. The providers with a little marketing savvy know how to do it in a subtle way to get an invitation across casually without seeming pushy, but its STILL an invitation nevertheless.  This is why I claim 100%, because I can't remember a single time when one of these were not used to invite me back.  Is it possible I've forgotten one or two from nine or ten years ago.  Of course it is, but I can't count what I don't remember.  Neither can anyone else here.  I, too, am not offended by this type of marketing, unless she is spamming my email or texting me daily.  

URL into the photo box when you start a post.  

Before that, do you know where I can find this lady?
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It's not a moot point if the lady does it with passionate kisses and sultry glances and softly asking "please come again" repeatedly while smiling up at you. That kind of thing stuck in my mind forever and I would have to repeat for sure. Always have a soft spot for the ladies who asked, implied or otherwise.
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Do you have any sexy kissing pic?

I would buy one, too.

What about "see you soon"?  
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I am trying to get my percentage up to respectable level around here. I will make note of what counts then take note of what the lady says when I leave. It's hard to remember when they don't do it with a lot of kissing and sensual glances and touchy feely hugs and pleasant smiling goodbyes. I can never remember if my ATF said goodbye because my head always in the cloud.

create an awkward moment at a time when you want him to have nothing but good thoughts of you going out the door, but phrasing it in a way that lets him know you enjoyed his company and would be happy to have him return may be the tipping point to get him to repeat.  I think being silent runs the risk of the guy having doubts about asking you for another appointment.  Many men that see providers have not had a lot of success dating civvie women, so their egos are a bit fragile and their confidence lower than it should be, so some gentle encouragement that you had a good time with him may be what he's looking for to give him the confidence that if he asks for another appointment, you're not going to say, "Sorry, I don't think so."

you don't need to be rude and ask directly for another date, as a woman you have many ways to seduce, even using whatsapp and "create" the temptation using the photo on "my status".  
If you're agressive you can get the opposite result and the guy will run away.

Those are "soft" invites because they don't want to seem pushy, but they want you to know they would like to see you again.  I describe a number of other "soft" invite styles I have gotten below.  They are STILL invites, and that's why I don't remember a single incidence where I didn't at least get something like this to let me know she would like to see me again.  IMO, it would border on hooker malpractice not to at least tell a guy something like this so he knows for sure you would like him to return.  

You might not be turned on shaving when using a  mirror but that has nothing to do with how civilian women see  you.
   I never wonder how the short, bald, fat, middle class guy found a stunning woman who loves him.
 
He's polite, he's good natured, makes her laugh and smile a lot , tries to not be boringly repetitive and he does his best to keep her from crying.  

Looking for acceptance and not finding it.

The most aggressive I ever had was a provider that leaned against the door as I was leaving and said she wasn't going to let me leave until I told her when I would come back.  I said I had to check my schedule, but I would email her within two hours.  I sent her a one-word email . . . .  . "NEVER."    Lol

I mean, I am a politician and we're known for gouging the public. 😎

I obviously wasn't clear, if she tries what you described at the end of our time together and hasn't been that engaging earlier. It's really too late.  

Strip off your clothes and hop into the bed.    

You know, those uptight, two faced bastards.  

a pair of aces in my book.  

hahahahaahahahahahahaha LMFAO for sure she will think twice before repeat the joke hahahaha  

at  turning lemons into lemonade than me. That sounds like a win-win strategy if ever there was one.   Lol

I got treated like 2nd class client with my repeats and pretty much have decided against seeing a provider more than once in 6 months.

not that I believe anything that anyone posts here about their RL/hobby life that can't be verified, but:

I was concerned that you had a constipation issue that so often takes guys your age out of action.   Its clear that you have been away from the boards awhile, and only 21 posts so far this year seems to support that idea.  When I'm away for even a few weeks as sometimes happens when I travel out of the country on business, before I start posting again, I scan the boards and leaf through the threads to find out what topics were discussed while I was gone, mainly so I don't make a fool of myself by saying something that's already been posted by someone else just a few days earlier.  Apparently, you chose to make a fool of yourself rather than look and see that your whitelist challenge has been made before, ad nauseum.  As LaRouche says, How can CDL stay anonymous with providers and still have a whitelist?  They are mutually exclusive.  Do I need to explain it to you step by step, or do you get it now?  You should have thought it through before opening your mouth and you would look less the fool right now.  

Therefore is he telling the truth that no provider knows him as CDL?

you took the bait.

I see how you might "think" that 600+ providers ALL explicitly asked you to rebook considering your apparent inability to count something as simple as board posts.

... in their requests as the example you gave, but they let me know in other ways they'd like to see me again.  It might be some words when I leave, like "That was fun, let's do it again soon" or a thank-you follow up afterwards.  Also I assume that when a provider gives me a P411 OK or white list (back when TER was functional) that she wouldn't mind seeing me again.  

made in this lil world. Most do not have to be aggressive since we have regular friends here in the first place. So adding new friends is done  at our discretion !

As I previously mentioned, most of his reviews are AAMP Kgirls. They don't comprain too much about fake leviews, especially good ones.  

I can't believe anyone with room temperature IQ or above would believe that FM has only 21 posts for the year when it's so easy to simply click "see my posts" next to his handle to see every post he has made since his very first post in early 2004. Does that mean it's any less dishonest of CDL to claim FM only has 21 post this year in an attempt to discredit him as a "newbie" despite his 15 years of being here?

who just keep repeating themselves over and over.  I already said a week ago that I made a mistake and said I stand corrected.  This is last week's potato salad and is starting to go rancid.  Can't you accept that I owned my mistake and move on?  When was the last time YOU owned being wrong about something?  You never do, you just abandon the thread.  However, merely because I made a mistake doesn't make him any less of a grumpy old man that can't seem to move on either.  You're going to unintentionally lead people to believe you are like him and can't come up with anything new.  You're better than that.  

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If you continue to make false accusations I am going to keep calling you out on them. Your post is still right here for all to see, just in case you can't find it, I'll go ahead and link it right here. You clearly claim that FM only has 21 posts for the entire year and that plainly is not true, as my link on that post will prove beyond all doubt.  What is it with you and the truth lately? It's one thing to tell a lie that hard to dispute, it's quite another to tell one that can be proven wrong with one simply stroke of a key.

you are unfamiliar with the Kgirl business model, and so you are trying to equate this to your experience with indies.  

the of course a number that  pick at a certain point in time is going to become aged.  Now you're making shit up and grasping at straws.  When I wrote that, I counted the posts on THIS board, which is what we were talking about, and 21 was what it was for 2018.  I'm sure its a few more now because he has posted since them.    Got a link handy on a RECENT one you owned up to?  I don't recall any so far this year.  Of course, you're going to say its because you're NEVER wrong.  

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When you don't have anything substantive to come back with to support your bullshit.  Might work somewhere else, but the folks on this board are too bright not to see you posted this in desperation because you got nothing.  

But a message search with the keyword "oops" found this minor fuck up I made, and unlike you when I was called on my mistake I owned it, apologized and moved on with the conversation, without any attempt to weasel out of my fuck up or to parse words.

on the Politics and Religion board.  The count of 21 was for this board.  What does the P & R board have to do with mongering?  If I am talking about THIS board, and you are talking about this board PLUS the P & R board, then of course we are going to come up with different numbers.  Its apples and oranges and doesn't mean I lied or made a mistake about what I was talking about, only about what YOU were talking about.  Since I'm not a mind-reader, until you clarified that you were talking about something DIFFERENT than I was, then it seems YOU were the one that was mistaken, not me, at that point in time.

Here are your exact words;

taking only about the GD board where we were discussing providers, not politics.  I will be more clear in the future.  In the context of just the GD board, I was absolutely correct at the time.

and they do expect me to come back, which mostly I do. I've also been told to tell any friends of mine about them. But since I have no friends...

calling FM a newbie was incorrect in the first place. And whatever the amount of posts FM has or hasn't made, in the year 2018 he's NOT a newbie and calking him one was just another example of being wrong!  

where I explained that extremely low-volume mongers never really get out of Newbie mode based on their personal experience.  I often get PM's from guys like him that have supposedly been mongering for years who are asking questions that a guy who sees one girl a week would know the answer to after one year.  I'm guessing FM sees about as many providers in a year as GaG and I see in a week.  Its difficult to learn anything about the business or to keep current on changes when you only see one or two providers a year, and who knows how long ago he saw his last one.  For me, when a guy shows a lack of knowledge and talks like a low-information Newbie, I will often refer to him as a Newbie.  Its meant more as in insult than a fact.  I think most people understand that concept, but since you want to keep beating the horse and bring it onto this thread, I thought I would just point out how much you are like him because you want to keep repeating yourself, too.  How old ARE you anyway?  Are you experiencing other types of cognitive impairment that comes with age?  Just curious.  

It's like I told you on the other thread, tell your girl to stop attacking me.   I will always respond and I have no problem escalating to places she probably doesn't want to go.  You're the most reasonable guy here. If she won't listen to you, maybe she's not worth saving.

Now, get in line or no soup for you!

While also creating memories. One fun way to keep the fire going is to have selfies, candids, or pro pics with something they have gifted me either on me, or in the background. (It kind of happens automatically, because it's almost impossible not to have something in the background.)

That is very interesting.  
You say, and I paraphrase, K-girls do not speak or read much English. I believe that to be true, not because you said it but because others have posted that in the past here and on other venues.

And attempted a straw man argument to get what I wanted. That pic turned me into a clown.
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I said essentially same thing when I posted an answer before GaG even started polling. I knew you meant it's a moot point [for you] [because] the ladies did not have to ask since you would want to come back already. I couldn't disagree with you.
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So I said it's not a moot point [for me] [if] the ladies asked [implicitly or without pressuring me] because I would feel more appreciated. The ladies who replied here got it.  
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It's the difference between a mass thank you card versus a handwritten note. There was a reason when I said I have a soft spot for these ladies and would want to repeat with them even more and sooner. They knew how to make a man feel appreciated.

Going by memory I'd say the vast majority suggest future encounters in some manner. As others have said, why wouldn't they. I'm clean, on time, respectful, easy going, leave on time, and don't haggle. In that regard I am an ideal client. The only better client would be one who just mails the money without a visit.

Switter from women saying just that . . . . . that We're all worthless pieces of shit and should just send them our money.  Wading through posts like this, along with the golden and brown shower crowd, is what caused me to give up looking on that site.  

I guess you don't know fish quite as well as you think you do. ROFLMFAO

anyone who is into that.  The fact that there is even a "crowd" there for me to refer to shows there is a market for that.  The only point I am making with my comment is that it is SO not for me, so its a waste of time to have to filter through it.  I'm completely confident that I'm NEVER going to run across an ad that makes me say, "She is so hot, I wonder if she will pee in my mouth or shit on my chest?"  And  I'm guessing its probably not for you either.  lol

Those are called deposits.

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for a long time, about 9 years, maybe 8, is that isn't even close to a deal breaker (thank goodness). He loves GFE and FSBM w/super happy endings and gives a great massage himself. *IMO*, those are his two favorite activities. Pretty sure he's never done brown showers so let's not group him in with that. He's pretty much a neat freak, lol.

Let's just agree that fish is a freak, but he's our freak and if someone doesn't like it they are likely to get "punched in the throat" by a certain fucking fucker. lol

I called him a polite freak and yes he's a neat freak too.  But yep his our freak and I do wish a certain someone we both know would show up. Actually I wish he had shown back up about 3-4 days ago but better late than never.

They seem  to be saying you are the consummate polite gentleman, and a "neat freak" who will occasionally go for being peed  and shit on (although there might not be a consensus on this last one) by a provider, as long as its done "neatly", of course, and that you are likely to say, "Thank you" afterward, because you're just so damn polite.  

I'm not sure where you got the shit on part. You've addresses this before with him and you included both like they are mutually exclusive.  Or is that shat on, I dunno?  And neatly is an oxymoron in that case anyway..  

its pretty obvious where I got it.  The link is below.  I mentioned golden and brown showers and it was then pointed out from a member who knows him better than I do that Fisher is a "freak" and I should not say anything denigrating about ether of these activities with regards to him.  If I was played, then I have been mislead into believing something that is not true, which is not my fault.  After what GaG said, are YOU sure of how well YOU know Fisher?  Lol

I know what post you meant, it's easy to see. And I know Fish pretty damn well so even thou you love to try and put doubts in your postings A LOT, I'm sure I know Fish well, but thanks for checking. Now as much as you love to keep things going to the right side of the page *it seems*, I don't find the need to debate with you whether Fish rolls around in shit or not. Now there *may* have been a review at one time of GaG's MOST favorite ladies on TER (I'm being very sarcastic btw), that may have had something in it of a pee pee nature but nothing shitty, lol.  It was *probably* before your time here, umkay. And no I don't remember exactly what year it was so no debate there either. She's delisted and has been for years so I can't name her.  

How much fucking help do you need.  It was four to one there for awhile.  Can you even dress yourself in the morning without help?  Lol

why did you call me out?   Are you just being an asshole-ette?  

as to what constitutes being "called out" these days. And since (THANK GAWD) you don't really know with my abs look like you are once again WRONG that I neglect them.  Once again while I kept it light on my response back to you on the "shitty subject" you chose to make it a personal jab on what I may look like. Not surprising thou. Now MAYBE you can move on to a "less shitty" subject matter now, lol!

Now that's really hilarious lol...