I saw an ad on one of the escort malls that looks like my former secretary.  I can’t tell for sure since her face is blurred out, but the body, hair, shape of head and stature look similar.  Even the name is the same (first name).

While she worked for me, I always wanted her.  She was very hot.  However, I was too afraid of the sexual harrassment laws to even suggest anything.

I’m going to call her, I just can’t resist.  Should I ask her on the phone if it’s her?  Should I just wait till I show up and see?  Could it be potentially embarrasing to both of us, knowing what we know of each other?

Your advise is appreciated.

You are going to want to know before hand if it was a former secretary. You should find that out without trying to give away your identity. If you prefer you prefer to remain anonomous, and reduce risk of exposure you are better off if your provider has had no prior contact with you and where you worked.... Too risky..

I think she would appreciate your honesty of bringing it up on the phone, and might not appreciate you withholding it until you met.

When you bring it up say something clever like "I'm not sure if you are my former secretary, but I hope you are!"

Good luck and keep us posted.

I'd think about it more.  Did she quit or did you fire her? Does she know your SO?  Does she know co-workers and friends? If you don't see any negatives from this - have her dress up in her business suit and do her on the desk!

Well, this has the makings of a great Penthouse - Forum story. Since getting one published there is problematic, please post here if this works out for you.

Since you want to do her anyway, lets keep it underwrap until the appointment.  That way you won't have to reveal yourself at all if that wasn't her.  On the day of the appointment, if it is her, just act pleasantly surprised and tell her that you had wanted her from the beginning but didn't want to do anything inappropriate at the office.  This way, you can work things out with her in person instead of through email or phone calls.  Chances are, it is probably not her since how many ladies will use their real first name to advertise themselves, right?  Nevertheless, keep the fantasy alive and good hunting!  Please keep us posted!

Definately make an appt. to meet her. If it is her & you are not concerned she knows you are a "hobbyist", NEVER let her know you suspected you knew her, etc. If you do & she finds out, you look like a moron.

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I agree, this is a tough one to answer.  It depends on your relationship in and out of the office at the time.  I had a secretary that always liked to flirt and I am sure she wanted to do more.  But I never took the chance because we worked together.  Sometimes I wish I would have after see left.

But on the other hand, I posted a couple months ago about the provider that moved in next door.  We are good friends now, but she doesn't know that I know she is one.  She holds a regular job as a realtor and seemed to keep the provider side quiet.  I would not approach her because she lives next door.

Now this is just my opinion, but I would be up front with her on the phone.  This will give her a chance to say no if she is uncomfortable.  I am sure she will be professional enough not to tell your friends, if she knows them.

... not a paying one. Now that you know she's a provider, and had some contact with her in her civilian life, you might be able to ring some of her chimes more readily. Seduction is in the eye of the beholder ...

I had a similar experience a few years ago.  There was a secretary where I worked who was really hot, she knew it and flaunted it.  All of the guys were sad when she left since our number 1 eye candy was gone.

A few months later I called a local service.  Who shows up?  The girl from the office.  We immediatly recognized each other, had a really good laugh about it all and I had one of the best sessions I ever had with an agency girl.

Don't say anything to her on the phone, wait until she shows up.  It could be your best experience ever.