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Selina's Client Review of the Day!
Well, I have be thinking about doing this for some time, so what the heck......Here goes!
It was an outcall to a nice hotel, scheduled for 2 hours and arranged via e-mail correspondance.
The gentleman was very nice, a polite professional from out of town in his late 40's, caucasian with a beard. After a cocktail and some conversation, I headed for the bathroom to freshen up, and came back into the bedroom wearing nothing but lovely cream colored French lace lingerie & stockings, armed with massage lotion, an extra sensitive Japanese condom, flesh colored at that!
After suggesting that a bit of music or porn would be better than absolute quiet,
I proceedded to massage the gentleman's back, and of course he got turned on & turned over promptly. We engaged in some caressing & light kissing, he started to rub my private/still dry area roughly, and then it went all downhill.......
What was the turning point? There were a few:
The smell of tar shampoo, or was it just his unwashed hair wafting in my nose? The scatching of the beard on my neck/face/labia, the tingle of mint gum on my now abraded inner lips, or was it the cock ring? The not being able to cum despite multiple positions in my magic virgin-like pussy? My arm getting exhausted from stroking?
He admitted to holding back on purpose for what seemed like an eternity, removed the cock ring and finally came.....I went to the bathroom, freshened up again and emerged fully dressed, apologizing for not being able to stay for the full 2 hours, handed him half his money back and left. He was very gracious about it, I simply said 'This is just not working out for me'.
At moments like that, I always feel fortuneate to be a completely independant woman, because any girl working for a agency would likely stay put and suffer silently. When minutes feel like hours, you know it's bad......
I immediately called my best girlfiend and gave her a report, we met for drinks and salvaged what remained of my Saturday night.
THE MORAL OF THE STORY:
Guys, please wash your hair daily, do not rub anything that is dry, keep your beard off a girl's skin, spit out your gum, and for God's sake, inform the girl that you may have a problem ejaculating/maintainging/acheiving an erection, it may not be worth her while in the long run: There are other clients who are more fun/she could have booked with, or she may preferr to just stay home rather than go through the ordeal.
Stay tuned for the next episode!!!!
I hope the board doesn't react harshly to you.
Sorry you had a tough time.
You might want to take more control of the situation next time.
I start spraying fruit scented body spray heavily on myself so I can't smell the guy if it is bad.
You can have them do there own stroking as well.
They aren't evil just a bit deft at times.
This is where our skills can comer into play.
I can't stand when guy would write about me and didn't even open his mouth to say what he wanted and then writes a crap post -usually bashing my looks -instead of just saying what the issue was.
Once I was with someone who after holding off to many times lost his erection and I bbbj for a very long time. I was timing him and then I offered to let him extend for a small fee -lower than the difference in my 90 minute rate so he could finish. He totally trashed my looks in the review and completely lied after I bbbj his flaccid,hairy ,and sweatiness for 22 minutes (this after 30+ minutes of sex).
But in your case you could ask him to pit out the gum. You could redirect the session away from the things that made you uncomfortable.
So the guy is clueless. Be open to helping our guys to be more suave.
No need to reject and potentially bash the self esteem for being a caveman.
Show him how to lick you without touching his beard to you.
Be more on guard and so you can respond quickly and reduce abrasions which put you and him more at risk health wise.
Maybe he scheduled two hours specifically because he has issues.
I have to admit that I have given back the other hour before too.
When you have a two hour be sure to start off slower and save the juicy bits for the second hour.
In two hours you could have had him wash his hair with hotel shampoo. Trimmed his beard or have him carefully and slowly DATY to both of your satisfaction.
I have had guys go and rinse their mouths after strong minty gum.
Communication helps a lot.
A lot of people are sexually repressed and taught that sexual skill is not valuable or important.
I have lost clients to girlfriends after I transformed them into hot guys.
I give them written notes on brands of shampoo and all sorts of things.
I helped them loose weight and they come back to show me the results and tell me how happy they are.
It is okay to care about them.
-- Modified on 1/15/2008 1:51:24 AM
What the hell????
Why would you put up a client review in the first place and then one where you weren't the absolute magnificent goddess you should hopefully be wanting these men to think you are???? ESPECIALLY when part of your target market might be older men with beards who experience ED in some form!
Whatever floats your boat honey, but I could easily imagine there are a few men who are at this moment crossing you off their lists. Maybe it's just me, but it didn't seem to be a very flattering story. JMHO.
I wish you well, though.
Katie
because, though I do not have ED, I do not ejaculate quickly, primarily due to the fact that I am older and take blood pressure and colesterol meds. Most ladies I have been with have not had a problem with it, though a few get a little frustrated because their best moves do not always create the response they are used to. The way I look at it, if I make an appointment for 2 hours and it takes me 1 hour and 30 minutes to pop...so freaking what? Sorry, I am a little sensitive about this issue as you can see.
You notice how there haven't been many responses to this post. That doesn't surprise me. You probably realize you were touching on some very touchy areas.
Goodness know we should all appreciate that working as a provider is difficult. Very difficult. So many of the guys one sees, especially older guys, are insecure. You describe this gentleman as a nice, polite professional in his late 40s. I assume that covers a broad band of the folks who use escorts. Sounds like he was very awkward when it came to the deed. That, I'm sure, covers many as well.
The thing is, that's why someone like this hires a professional - so that he won't experience the discomfort or rejection he might experience in his civie life. And, given that you work in a service profession, it is an inevitable professional hazard that you're going to end up with some guys like this. And as a professional, I guess my feeling is that you should try if at all possible to provide the service you've been hired to provide.
But at least, I wouldn't air this dirty linen. Many of us guys are insecure little boys who like escorts to make us feel successful and potent. This sort of post could really make folks more insecure. Unless of course your goal is to get your rocks off. In this case, why is the hobbyist paying you rather than vice versa?
-- Modified on 1/14/2008 9:24:09 AM
Sounds like good f'in times.
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