Hello Gentlemen, I hope this is not an embarrasing question to ask you. I am very much facinated in the study of male sexuality, even when I wasnt a provider, I read alot of books on human sexuality, but one thing I never found info on was the vast and various kinds of orgasms that men experience. Anything Ive learned about types of orgasms has been from observing first-hand, my lover's responses to and about their orgasms, and how each time they cum, it can be a different type of orgasm. There have been very short orgasms, to very long and intense ones, to ones that make them shiver or convulse, to the kind that almost takes them to another realm (where it takes forever to bring them back to reality). Some men are dizzy after they cum and cant stand up, some get emotional, ect...
Im curious, if you feel open, to know and hear more about the various types of orgasms experienced by the TER men. Thankyou for sharing your intimate experience with me.
x Flora
Until last year when I actually started to focus more on the physiology of sex, I would have answered maybe three. After an exciting year of meeting some wonderful ladies, present company included, I have to say many more. 
While we are born with 'standardized' equipment, many of us have read the sexual experience is 80%+ in the brain. (I do not claim that the following terms are industry-accepted, just used for discussion.)
1. Standard orgasm - whatever the 'normal' is for a guy.
2. Retrograde orgasm - where you feel the effects of orgasm, but due to the clenching of Kegel (PC) muscles, no ejaculate. Can be intense, but also uncomfortable, especially if it has been a while since the last release.
3. Compression orgasm - Instead of using the PC muscles to stop an ejaculation, rather, the lower abdomen is expanded down and out, pressing against the two nerves which reside on the top of the penis to the left and right of the center line. This delays the ejaculation without the PC pressure. Very nice. Requires concentration and an inward focus for a bit.
4. 'short prep' orgasm - The 'Quickie'. When you swant one fast. Doesn't have much of an 'after-life'.
5. 'long prep' orgasm - Take an hour to keep on the edge of cumming, but not going over. After about 10 minutes, it is very nice to switch to a light touch to stay at attention. When you finally decide to release, it is like your essence is draining out. Very, very intense.
6. 'soft' orgasm - where one is not hard, maybe a '2' on a 1-10 scale. Not as intense, but can feel 'comforting' like being enveloped.
Some variations which add more to the above:
A- when with that special someone, making direct eye contact, your faces an inch or so apart, can be transcedental. A feeling of 'losing oneself'.
B- shared breathing - either both breathing in and out at the same time, or one in and one out. With the latter, it is like exchanging energy. A feeling of consuming and being consumed. Wow!
C- If one is receiving a BBBJ or HJ, and your Lover is running her hands from your member outwards down your thighs and then back up again in a circle, at the point of orgasm it can feel like electricity spreading, your member hot, but your legs very cool. Very nice.
Finally, there is the Floragasm. Each lady can bring something unique, and this one is very memorable. It doesn't occur often enough, but is sought out like a fine wine.
I could go on, but I'll let others jump in.
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There are only 2 ways. Either alone or with someone. And, they are both good (some are just better than others)!
One is with the feeling like I want to thrust so hard, I'm afraid my male member will break off. Usually accompanied by vocal sounds I seem not able to constrain, and the feeling borders on the thin line between pleasure and pain. The second is when it feels so good that it tickles and I start laughing. It's great when this happens in simultaneous, mutual orgasms. The third is when it just happens quietly but very pleasurably, usually during very slow and soft stimulation. I'm still trying to find out more about the types the professor is talking about.
I've twice experienced a full body sensory orgasm that either nearly lost consciousness for a few moments or transported me to a total body spiritual/physical plane totally dissociated from the room, bed, time, and only aware of me, my lady and the sensations being aroused in me. Described as Le Petite Mort occasionally.
Once recently after three hours of intense sharing and touching, we had become so connected that as my lady began touching, caressing, kissing over my entire body, I became so totally in touch with what she eliciting in me and in her response to what she was eliciting that I began tingling all over, floating and lost all awareness of anything but her and me for several minutes of intensity that was beyond anything I had ever experienced. And when she brought me to orgasm, we remained so totally still for such a period of time that it almost felt timeless.
The other time was in a period of shared inhaling/exhaling that visiting prof described- we were in missionary and became so intuned to each other that we aware that we had begun inhaling/exhaling alternately, breathing in each other's breath- the heat, spirituality of it was so intense during orgasm that we both lost time for a few minutes and recovered slowly together. Next time, we tried it mouth to nose, and it was even more intense. Obviously takes two who are very close and don't cringe from incredible closeness. Besides the intense spiritual connection of shared breathing I have often wondered if there is not a small aspect of sexual asphyxia from it. Obviously, I'd never try the true version of that- but I've wondered if the shared breathing gave a little oxygen deprivation similar to it?
...I get really, really excited and then gooey stuff comes out of the end of my...Little Lex.
It happens pretty much the same way every time.
LOL ... Lex, pretty much how I feel. Intensity for me increases with multiples, as in , it's more sensitive the more it happens simultaneously. The third is always greater than the first, and some are better than others. I'm not sure why.
-M
That's what I like about you Lex. You are such an unpretentious, uncomplicated guy.
....she thinks I'm an asshole.
Straight forward, simple, and quite the same with me. I have never understood when people say they have tons of different kinds of orgasms. Especially when they say they "pass out".
b-
volunteer for you to conduct a study of male orgasms? I do not need to be compensated for my time or travel.
You're just way too helpful. (lol)
Until you asked the question, I never thought of them as different types, only different degrees of the same type. After thinking about it, you're absolutely right. They are different. There is, of course the normal, run of the mill, "just get my rocks off" type. Then, there is a young lady that I have seen several times who has a way with oral that literally makes my legs shake for several minutes afterwards. The first provider I ever saw, and have seen many times since, is one that I connect with very nicely. At first, I thought is was just the adventure that made the orgasm better, but even after seeing her several times, they are still incredible. The aftershocks are amazingly powerful and last for quite a long while. They must be amazing, because she has even commented on their strength. So, I guess that makes it three for me.
