YMMV. Personally, I am very clitoral vs vaginal and too much FIV (esp too deep or too rough) can turn me off at times.  

And I also say some saliva is good but if there's too much - it creates a barrier and I can't feel the sensation of your tongue anymore!~

I always ask about FIV when I start DATY because I've found it's an individual preference. Some girls really like it to the point where I end up fucking them hard with two fingers and they're squirting all over. Others would rather I stick with the mouth.

.... to end up being wrist deep inside their pussy, and all variations in between.
It's all in the communication.  
Have fun.  
Nails filed and hands washed and enjoy.

... I know a few women who have sensitive clits and don't like any direct contact there, except maybe very light tonguing.  But some of them love FIV, especially g-spot fingering.  

Just another example of why it's never a good idea to assume what a woman likes wrt sexual stimulation.  

...so there is not a single code that works. Also, they change their code sometimes, so what worked the last time may not work the next time.  My advice is to not worry about figuring them out, but just enjoy experimenting.

and then there is the whole question of chemistry.

 
You can never know exactly what is going to happen in a session, especially if it is the first time that you are seeing this provider.

 
That's part of the mystery of this whole enterprise, and a part of what makes it interesting.

Great ?

Personally, I love DATY & FIV.  If a person does not have well manicured hands FIV can be harmful.  A jagged nail can cut the vagina & that is no fun it is an issue.  If your well groomed muy bueno.

Pleasing me is a prerequisite.

i love FIV.  i would take it in lieu of DATY anytime!

Dude, they are human. Humans are different

You are not going to get a one fits all answer. Guys are different too. You think every man likes the same style blowjob as you?

As for the ladies, some don't want a finger in them at all. Some want a whole fist. Some don't want any saliva. Others want you to spit all over their pussy. Some want only very gentle tongue strokes on their clit. Others want you to suck on d some want you to nibble on it and some want you to bite it. (Hard!)

on having an orgasm while my finger was in her as my tongue was tending to her clit. So I promptly removed it and boy did she really let loose. The most I had ever seen from her. Now I always tell every lady if she wants me to do something different to let me know and I'm glad she did this time. It pays to listen to what works for her.

I don't use a lot of saliva because I've heard ladies don't like it. If done correctly, she produces enough wetness for the task at hand.

On a side note, I've had one lady tell me to spit on her clit. I told her I've never had that request before and she was shocked. She said spit, so I did. Anything to help her arrive at her destination.

One of my favorite ladies to daty with does not like fiv during daty but greatly enjoys fia during daty. As stated already, communication is the key.

My focus with daty is coming. No fingers, just tongue on the clit. It's my little head Please be warned I do come hard.

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I prefer just tongue but a little finger in pussy is okay if I'm wet enough

....eat me like a slice of fresh watermelon, not much finger on the clit (just a little sometimes) and fingers sometimes up to the wrist on my gspot please make me beg,  (kinda like going for that last pickle in a mason jar) you can tell when you have it right, my ass comes off the bed and my hips start rollling.. .......  
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Asking "hey is this ok" or "does this feel good" or "do you like this" are really good questions to ask in the heat of the moment! Inviting your date to tell you exactly what she likes, where she likes it, and how she takes it can be an extremely hot experience...... haha

But women are so different, this question is really better off asked each time you'd like to try it! Unless you know she likes it because she's already told you before!

I love feeling full so FIV is GREAT, but it also takes an extreme amount of concentration and coordination while you're DATY, so sometimes focusing on one thing at a time is better. I always bring hitachi just in case!

so she is cowboying your face.  She will now select where she wants your tongue; clit, a little lower, or rimming.
If she jumps off, then you must assume she does not like it or you have no fucking idea what you are doing.  
Based on what I have read on this thread, the majority of you have only hand  experiences with COCKS.

DATY

Every gal is different, so yes, ask!!  My clit is super sensitive, so I prefer very gentle and soft licking. And yes, I do like a firm but gentle rub to my G spot to get me to the top of the mountain.  

Like eating cherry pie, and Going Downtown 💋💋

Emjoy,  And afterwards Mouthwash  and brush your teeth....if your a ladie, washing soap and water,  peeing after ..will ward off desease 👧💋💋

Play With My Clit

It depends on the woman.... i love clitoral play the most, and lots of sucking and licking, and spitting. My hitachi gets the job done well too

For me, like most women..

We are all about the clit..not much inside unless you know how to make us squirt. Most of the time, if a  guy is going in there with a finger or two, he doesn't know what he is doing and only hurts or distracts us. Pay attention to the clit! :-P

Also, yes, you guys like a sloppy blow job. Its different for DATY...we do not want to feel spit all over our region running down our thighs. I've had some guys go down on me and leave me in a puddle on the bed...not my wetness, but their saliva...not sexy...please don't be afraid to swallow your spit.