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Defending a provider on Bpage .. is that being a Mangina thing or the right thing to do?
MoundLickerFuker 1065 reads
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Ok I've seen this provider a couple of times and she's a perfect GFE. Then some guy posted that she's a rip off.  She has a couple of TER reviews ranging from 8-9 (no 7s).  She's awesome.
I asked her why this guy is posting bad stuff.  She says, he tried to short her $150 for an outcall and
she refused him service. Two guys posted in her defense.  
Anyway, I also did the same thing, and paid $3 for a Bpage ad.
Do you think I've been a Mangina for defending a provider from a recurring hate ad.
Or is this the right thing to do ?

Of course it's the right thing to do!

Even though she might be a fav of yours, I prefer to just mind my own businees and not get involved. Providers usually can defend themselves and if a lady has one bad review  along with other excellent reviews, it's pretty easy to figure out what happened.

I'm with you Hidden...I might add a positive comment somewhere or voice my opinion but I'm in this hobby to avoid drama, not get into it.  Openly defending a provider is a noble pursuit and I'm not criticizing the OP for doing it...it just brings too much potential drama for my liking.

as you describe it, it seems fine. BUT can you accept the risk that the guy posting the hate ad might go nuts and cause you grief in your personal life?

maybe be more skeptical... contrary to hiddenhills you cannot always tell what went on from one bad review. MAYBE your BP provider friend is telling the truth. MAYBE there was some other reason for her behaving badly with that client. do you really want to sort all that out?

good rules of thumb to consider are be very careful to consider whether:
1) you and your interests are DIRECTLY threatened or
2) you have REAL evidence not just hearsay
3) you can tolerate the consequences

you need to mae your own decision that you can live with.

And what I would do, but I have been told that I am the ultimate mangina. Take it for what it's worth. I think you did the right thing.

I visited a provider that had great reviews, put the entire donation in an envelope and set it on her coffee table. We had agreed to 2 hours because we would get a chance to talk and get comfortable. She drank though the entire visit, and by the time I said "we should get started she was feeling good from drinking and said "I don't always have sex on the first date". This was not a $300 date, so I said It would have been nice to know that before our date. She said maybe things would be different next time. I left her a less than stellar review and wondered what people would think about 2 great reviews and one bad one. All I can say is, my review was the truth. I wonder what she would say about it?

How can you possibly defend the provider, unless you were in the room with them at the time?
How do you know what really happened? All you can talk about is what happened to you - you have no idea if perhaps she really did rip off the other guy. Maybe she pegged him as a sucker and tried to rip him.

The mangina aspect is not that you tried to defend her, it's that you really don't know what you're talking about. You're nothing more than a character witness, which on BP is a real waste of time (and 3 dollars).

Posted By: MoundLickerFuker
Ok I've seen this provider a couple of times and she's a perfect GFE. Then some guy posted that she's a rip off.  She has a couple of TER reviews ranging from 8-9 (no 7s).  She's awesome.
I asked her why this guy is posting bad stuff.  She says, he tried to short her $150 for an outcall and
she refused him service. Two guys posted in her defense.  
Anyway, I also did the same thing, and paid $3 for a Bpage ad.
Do you think I've been a Mangina for defending a provider from a recurring hate ad.
Or is this the right thing to do ?

Please tell me this is a joke of a post.  I prefer not to believe that there is yet another idiot out there that is trying to fight shadowy battles for his paid-for love-interest of the month.

How many times does someone have to tell you to keep your hands away from a hot stove?  Please, feel free to stick your mitts into the inferno.  I am sure that you will remember the lesson after getting burned.

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