As far as I am concerned DATY is an absolute "must." I prefer it in fact to anything else -- regardless of whether the girl labels herself as a GFE, PSE, or an AEIOU. Its all about pleasing her.
I feel that Daty is a major component of a "girl friend experience". I feel that if a lady is providing her service as "GFE" she should have it on her "menu". Of course, everything is a matter of personal tast; some guys like to perform it; some don't care for it. But whenever I see a lady label herself as GFE I automatically assume it is available. Of course, I will check her profile and reviews and if its not available I would move on. just my preference, as I am paying to enjoy myself.
In the previous thread there was some discussion about lack of Daty being a deal breaker.
I feel that Daty is a major component of a "girl friend experience". I feel that if a lady is providing her service as "GFE" she should have it on her "menu". Of course, everything is a matter of personal tast; some guys like to perform it; some don't care for it. But whenever I see a lady label herself as GFE I automatically assume it is available. Of course, I will check her profile and reviews and if its not available I would move on. just my preference, as I am paying to enjoy myself.
but they made up for it in other ways.
You have to remember that there are no hard and fast rules about these labels.
I only eat about 33% of the girls I see tops and rarely do it in those lousy short 60 minute sessions. Maybe for 2 hours plus, but not for a stinking 60 minute session. I rarely do 60 minutes only anymore anyway. I also don't eat high volume girls, or girls who aren't squeaky clean. Many girls smell of the last guy's Trojan down there even if they've washed & scrubbed. I have a good nose. Truth be known, many girls only take a "bird bath" (quick washcloth rinse) between clients anyway.
DATY is the one service that I only enjoy with certain girls in extended time frames. Other services are a lot more important.
He has four, you dolt. You can call a "tail" anything you want, that doesn't make it a "leg".
When you ask questions or make statements like this, you continue to add to the confusion regarding "GFE". The label means nothing because there is no national registry of GFE weights and measurements.
To answer your question, "can you still call yourself GFE"? - yes, you can. You can call yourself Eleanor Roosevelt if you want to - but it doesn't mean squat.
Have you ever seen a provider advertise in big, bold letters "I am not GFE"? As a matter of fact, occasionally one does. But most say nothing at all, or they say "GFE", but the services they offer vary greatly. Why?
BECAUSE GFE DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING! ARRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!1
As far as I am concerned DATY is an absolute "must." I prefer it in fact to anything else -- regardless of whether the girl labels herself as a GFE, PSE, or an AEIOU. Its all about pleasing her.
I feel that Daty is a major component of a "girl friend experience". I feel that if a lady is providing her service as "GFE" she should have it on her "menu". Of course, everything is a matter of personal tast; some guys like to perform it; some don't care for it. But whenever I see a lady label herself as GFE I automatically assume it is available. Of course, I will check her profile and reviews and if its not available I would move on. just my preference, as I am paying to enjoy myself.
"Prefer it to anything else"
Uh I wouldn't go that far. I prefer a BJ, but I certainly enjoy DATY. And it's not all about pleasing her, but is about pleasure for both. I'm not one of those "its all about me" type of guys, but its not all about her either.
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how many times do we have to have this discussion. Since your one review was written in 12/12, I'll guess your somewhat new to TER and will give you a pass for the time being. My advice, read the juicy details of the review, backchannel with other hobbyists, and forget about all the hobby terms and acronyms.
I feel that Daty is a major component of a "girl friend experience". I feel that if a lady is providing her service as "GFE" she should have it on her "menu". Of course, everything is a matter of personal tast; some guys like to perform it; some don't care for it. But whenever I see a lady label herself as GFE I automatically assume it is available. Of course, I will check her profile and reviews and if its not available I would move on. just my preference, as I am paying to enjoy myself.
whomever you ask and what they consider a GF "experience" to be for them. Be it the "boyfriend" or the "girlfriend".
Most BF and GF are barebacking...so to call it a true GFE should include that. I asked around to my female friends that are in relationships about cetain things they do...mostly the same but again, there are differences. Rarely do they do Greek, some girls just won't Bj and others, well anything goes.
And even the civvie broads expect to get paid one way or another.
Still the BF has to listen to the drivel and nonsense. And fucking beg for pussy.
Kind of like some of the pathetic mangina's here that do the same LOL
Most BF and GF are barebacking...so to call it a true GFE should include that. I asked around to my female friends that are in relationships about cetain things they do...mostly the same but again, there are differences. Rarely do they do Greek, some girls just won't Bj and others, well anything goes.
That's why I just start to question the notion of why a non-specific term should also include a specific term as part of its definition.
I love when its my turn to get pleased! ![]()
Im a Gfe babe and consider it just as important as the passionate kissing and hot bbbj!
No Daty=No Gfe lol
Call me old school... but when I was around, DATY was one of the defining terms for a GFE. If you were a GFE, DATY was certainly splashed on the appetizer, main event, and dessert pages as a possibility.. If it wasn't, you weren't a GFE. I'm not sure how providers handle this nowadays, but that's how it used to be.
Personally, I like DATY, but I'd rather have my fun in other ways.
Just because something is on the menu doesn't mean you have order it. ![]()