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DATY really safe?confused_smile
iheartasians 2569 reads
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I'm not completely ignorant about STDs, but I don't know it all, so pardon my question, but..

Isn't it just a tad unsafe to DATY an escort?  Consider the following: guy with oral herpes who doesn't currently have a visible outbreak but has a naturally high transmission rate does DATY.  The rest of the scenario is obvious.

Hell, while we're on the oral topic, BBBJ isn't safe either.  You can have herpes for a good couple years with no symptoms and you'd never know you had it.

I haven't hobbied yet, so I'm just thinking of this stuff ahead of time to play it safe when I do.


I was freaked out when you told me your name was "mr dirty mouth" but it looks like I made the right decision in REJECTING YOUR APPT.

xo lisa butler

Most research would indicate that escorts take more precautions (basically condom use) than civies do, so if you think that DATY with a civie is OK, you shouldn't have any concerns with a well reviewed escort.

I have no links to past posts, but this issue has been raised on numerous occasions here and the consensus is that while there is no such thing a zero risk when it comes to sex, DATY is not a particularly risky activity as sexual activities go.

It is one a a series of steps down the slippery road of depravity.  It leads to a potentially pleasurable session for the provider and thus she will secrete more of her germ laden fluids.  She will then lose her mind entirely, and might even kiss you!!  Avoid this at ALL costs as this can lead to a complete infatuation on your part.  You will soon find yourself knocking over liquor stores to support the hobby -  

Honestly, sorry to be a bit off hand with you, but this topic has been raised MANY times, so troll the board (use the SEARCH mode) and you will see the years of responses.  Essentially, while you have a point, the risk is much lower than you think.  Choose a well reviewed (and perhaps somewhat more mature) provider and then let her know it is your first time and you are a bit concerned about these issues.  She will take it from there...but if you cannot enjoy, then it is not worth it.

Alternatively, take your first step by getting a sensual massage if offered in your area.  No real sex involved but it may be just what you need and sometimes, as satisfying.



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