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DATY
CPTCrash79 6 Reviews 1360 reads
posted
1 / 31

I anticipate the populace will revolt but... explain to me the allure of DATY.  Paying a woman to eat her snatch is akin to going to a Jiffy Lube and paying them to let you change your own oil.  And, the other half of it, are the ridiculous reviews - "she came multiple times", ""she said I was the best she ever had", "I showed her a few tricks"  Really????

inicky46 61 Reviews 954 reads
posted
2 / 31

Why?  No, it has nothing to do with DATY.  It has to do with judging what other people like.  OK, here's the Sex 101.  Everyone's wired different.  Some like DATY, some require DFK.  Some love greek.  Some love getting pissed on.  No one loves it all.  So, unless it's dangerous or involves coercion or minors, DON"T FUCKING JUDGE IT!
Personally, I love DATY because you are worshipping at the Font of Femininity.  You also have the best chance of turning her on to the point where you'll get a better session.  Get it now?
You don't have to like it.  You don't have to do it.  But if you judge it, you are just a simplistic ass-wipe.  Sorry about that.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 925 reads
posted
3 / 31

...Capt. Picard is like a fine meal without dessert. ;-)

Back_In_Black 697 reads
posted
4 / 31

Is "font" ? Honestly I ain't goin down unless I know that . But yes we all like different things and you like to feel the woman , at her moment of ecstacy. Its not what u say but how u say it . Still pissed at u .

inicky46 61 Reviews 846 reads
posted
5 / 31
Mr.Tennis 1 Reviews 738 reads
posted
6 / 31

If you don't like it, don't do it. Simple, right?

Personally, a lot of the fun for me is trying to make sure she enjoys our encounter too.  It's a bit of a learning experience for me.  It also helps me to be more confident in myself and take charge a bit.

Although, I do agree people exaggerating the reviews...But that happens practically all the time anyway.

Jake45owens 13 Reviews 867 reads
posted
7 / 31

That's what I was thinking!

Bowman1138 30 Reviews 726 reads
posted
8 / 31

If you simply think that you are buying a glorified masturbation service, you are mistaken. Show me a woman that has her needs met, and I'll show you a man that has his needs met 10 times more.  The more she is turned on, the more I am turned on. My ATF loves it when I DATY, and I can almost cum just from her moaning.  And no, she doesn't fake it. Yes, there are women that don't enjoy it, as there are men that don't enjoy it.  Don't do it if you don't enjoy it.

You are paying for an experience, not for any specific act.  If you think of it that way, then you will understand why some of use love to give to our partners as much as we receive.

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Posted By: CPTCrash79
I anticipate the populace will revolt but... explain to me the allure of DATY.  Paying a woman to eat her snatch is akin to going to a Jiffy Lube and paying them to let you change your own oil.  And, the other half of it, are the ridiculous reviews - "she came multiple times", ""she said I was the best she ever had", "I showed her a few tricks"  Really????  

HillaryLynk See my TER Reviews 888 reads
posted
9 / 31
romeogolf 34 Reviews 807 reads
posted
10 / 31

When we finally get together will I find that you enjoy Daty and Dato or are not really interested ?

HillaryLynk See my TER Reviews 880 reads
posted
11 / 31

Romeo you sound fun!I am in Palm Springs & Las Vegas the rest of the summer. I will send you a pm love!!

Crisis25 902 reads
posted
12 / 31

I have recently discovered that I enjoy DATY and making a lady scream more than anything else. Just like there are women out there that genuinely love sucking dick, I get almost nothing out of it and feel left out if we're not 69ing.

ScarlettLaPink See my TER Reviews 765 reads
posted
13 / 31

Thank you!!!!!!

Posted By: inicky46
Why?  No, it has nothing to do with DATY.  It has to do with judging what other people like.  OK, here's the Sex 101.  Everyone's wired different.  Some like DATY, some require DFK.  Some love greek.  Some love getting pissed on.  No one loves it all.  So, unless it's dangerous or involves coercion or minors, DON"T FUCKING JUDGE IT!  
 Personally, I love DATY because you are worshipping at the Font of Femininity.  You also have the best chance of turning her on to the point where you'll get a better session.  Get it now?  
 You don't have to like it.  You don't have to do it.  But if you judge it, you are just a simplistic ass-wipe.  Sorry about that.

inicky46 61 Reviews 691 reads
posted
14 / 31

the ultimate source, the well-spring of something.  Gosh, I hope you were able to sleep last night!  I'm imagining you thrashing in your bed, screaming, "WTF is a fucking FONT?!?!?"  LMAO!
Jeez, dude, don't u no google iz yore frend?
An y r u pissed?  Still havent figgered that out.  Not loosin eny sleep over it tho!  Peace out!

areyoutheone 713 reads
posted
15 / 31

I can't wipe the image of all the other swinging dicks that have been in there to allow me to dine peacefully.  Not criticizing those that do though.  I do wonder though if the women enjoy it at any level or if it's just part of the performance every time.  Hmm...

Eat away gentlemen.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 766 reads
posted
16 / 31

I would pay some and hour and do that only

Hello.Duchess See my TER Reviews 753 reads
posted
18 / 31

Maybe your job has paid health insurance or some other perk.  This is one of the best perks of the hobby ;) Not saying we are entitled to it, but it is sure nice to receive it...

So, I don't think you should do anything you don't feel like doing in the context of an appointment.  But if you feel like being nice to someone, then why not?  Some people really enjoy it, but if you don't, then maybe you could be generous in some other way.  Don't you like feeling appreciated at work?  When does that never come back to you, in some way or another?  

Why do we thank or be nice to people who we are paying anyway?  I don't know.  I do know it makes me feel good to do it.  

Also take it from me, those reviews are NOT ridiculous.  Seriously.

Have a great day :)

justanillusion 627 reads
posted
19 / 31

And leave those who want to, to go lick as much pussy as they want to.

You see no allure, others do

You don't want to lick pussy, others do.

Some of the time the DATY IS for their pleasure and some of the ladies would rather guys didn't bother.

Why do you care what other men do BCD?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 632 reads
posted
20 / 31
Dr. joe 32 Reviews 705 reads
posted
21 / 31

DATY and DATO for someone who enjoys it,  I had one friend with benefits who loved to be "forced" to blow me and to come to climax with me using vibrators; she was sub  so I had no interest in DATY DATO with her; but one of my very favorites sat on my face with a thin vibrator in my ass and "made" me daty and dato until she came. (She would occasionally "make me do a friend of hers as well.) My most recent friend with benefits was multi orgasmic and lay on her back and came over and over if I was careful with my timing and pacing, and did her just right.  After she was spent she glowed and was so beautiful and I had spontaneously cum at least twice.  
Each to his/her own.

BiancaJaguar See my TER Reviews 775 reads
posted
22 / 31

I would even go with 9 out of 10...and yes i enjoy receiving as much as giving! 69 is the way to go :D

Posted By: LillyLockHart
Just throwing out some statistics.

CPTCrash79 6 Reviews 716 reads
posted
23 / 31

no one acknowledged the second part of my comment.  Just saying - you all are paying to think you made a girl cum.  I'd bet money that this is achieved less than 10% of the time!

Crisis25 606 reads
posted
24 / 31

You clearly need to experience some unjaded ladies. You will be able to tell when it's real.

Dr Who revived 691 reads
posted
25 / 31

And while you're watching it you know it isn't real...right?

But you see more anyhow.

10% of the time is on the high side...IMHO
Posted By: CPTCrash79
no one acknowledged the second part of my comment.  Just saying - you all are paying to think you made a girl cum.  I'd bet money that this is achieved less than 10% of the time!

random133 117 Reviews 686 reads
posted
26 / 31

If by this time in your life (I presume you're over 21) and you don't get that there is an almost infinite variety in human tastes, desires and lusts then I can't explain it to you.  You might as well ask why some men like BJs, others like mish, yet others love doggie, etc. ad infinitum.

random133 117 Reviews 514 reads
posted
27 / 31

No I do not think I made the last 107 providers I saw come (there was one girl in DC but that's a story for another day).  Yes there are some guys (most likely very young) who think that and write it in their reviews but it is certainly not all or even most.  And if some do so what--laugh along with the rest of us and save your exclamation marks for the next hottie that rocks your world.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 762 reads
posted
28 / 31

My rate was lower and I had to see more men. I quickly learned how to actually enjoy myself for that most part, and it showed in my rates and reviews. Just about every guy I see, wants to do that. I guess if they just wanted a blow job, they could find it for a fourth of the rate and without jumping through all the screening hoops that GFE providers require.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 658 reads
posted
29 / 31

No, making her cum is not why they are paying. I've yet to see a high percentage of men willing to pay just to daty and NOT get a blow job or a fk along with it. Have you any idea how many older providers there are? I mean women in their "prime" sexually so to speak? Those bitches could cum on a wall if need be, because they are so horny all the time. I am not one of them, but just letting you know that many, many providers cum with most of the guys they see. I would say 3 out of 5 in my case and usually only from oral. I don't recall too many times I came from sex...especially in the hobby.

Crisis25 676 reads
posted
30 / 31

What I got from this is stick to older horny ladies. Roger that.

donbecker54 19 Reviews 208 reads
posted
31 / 31

Could you go into a bit more detail as to what is "properly"?

I'm serious. I never know if I'm doing a good job or not. Married wayyy too long, and now just getting into seeing providers (who make noises that I don't think are for real).

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