I teased one gentleman that he should invent a hat for ladies to wear with padding on top. He wanted to know why. Because when you are performing DATY, her body's gonna rocket towards the ceiling and she'll bump her head! LOL

I'm sure we're all different, so what one enjoys and dislikes might be a turnoff to someone else.

I'm sure if you let her know that you're open to her guidance, she'll tell you..

In the meantime, I can think of a few who were INCREDIBLE..
(and they were 10's..)

I hear that using the alfabets works fine.  It can get the ladies guessing when you mix it up or spell words.

Sedona is right, it's going to vary from woman to woman (just as some guys like a BJ soft and gentle and other like fast and furions so the best thing you can do is ask.  I never have a problem saying what I like, after all, when you're down there, I want to make the most of it!  lol