A question for providers--are you currently married or have a significant other/partner, etc? Lately I've seen a couple of ladies who currently are in a serious relationship yet their partners are OK with them staying in the hobby  (at least for the time being.) Additionally, it doesn't seem to be a source of contention for them in the relationship according to what these ladies told me.

Beat it!

And we've been together almost four years. I am polyamorous, so I have had other relationships come and go during that time as well. They accept who I am and what I do. If I were tied to one person forever I would wither away.

We talked on/off for five years as we were just friends and nothing more. However, life circumstances drew us very close and we decided to tie the knot last month and I consider myself to be a very lucky woman in love!  

Hence the "no bbj" clause in my agreement. Lol

That's wonderful!! I really am happy for you and I hop there are more stories out there like yours!!

After reading about what recently happened on another thread concerning the public posting of confidential information---my sentiments have changed (and not for the better.)

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And I will be honest. When she first returned to providing it cause lots and lots of problems. Part of it i was how she returned, but part of it was my own insecurity.

I have often thought of this. i have been very attracted to a number of providers over the years and wonder what marriage would be like.  I think it would be fine as long as it did not interfere with our feelings for each other and as long as she was safe and happy with her work.  But this is easy to say and might be very hard for me to do.  I will never know since this my second marriage has been a very happy one.

That is so wonderful you found a great man to love and support you for any decision you make.

Dating seems to be a hassle, and more trouble than it's worth, on both sides of the fence.  But a serious relationship is usually worth it.  It doesn't mean that there aren't some unique problems and stress, but if both are intent and committed to making it work(takes a lot of communication, etc) then it's pretty good!

I am very staunchly non-monogamous (and bisexual!). I've had a number of partners since starting sex work and I am always honest with them. If I can't tell someone what I do for work, then why would I want them in my life?  
Right now, I am actually dating another provider who is new to the game but has been making independent porn for 5 years. I've always wanted to date another working girl and it is so refreshing and different than dating civs.

Our 1 year anniversary yesterday. My husband and I work together on occasion and he loves hearing about my "work". I am lucky I am married to a very confident and sexy man who knows that I am faithful in my heart, we don't believe in physical monogamy. It works for us and has helped our fantasies become even more wild and fun.