I recently bought a provider 3 pairs of high heels, and she may just have run out of mine.  Just kidding, maybe.  I had asked her if I could buy her a costume and shoes to do it in next time, and she was cool with the idea.  I really liked that, her willingness to play.  

As I was window shopping on the net, I came across a couple of costumes and three pairs of heels that I was hooked on.  One was of the stripper costume variety.  The other more in line with BDSM theme.  She asked several times why so many pairs, but I told her that each one really caught my eye and I couldn't resist.  

When we met again, she gladly put them on, and we got busy.  It was a lot of fun to say the least, as she put on each pair and costume, and we test drove them.  At the end of our time, she asked if I wanted to get something to eat.  This was the first that I was offered OTC time, so I was a little nervous but agreed to it.  The dinner went okay, but she asked about other providers I had seen as well as what got me into this hobby.  I probably foolishly answered them, but at the time she showed no issues with my answers.

Now the walking out part...I can no longer get in contact with her.  My question, when or where is it best to draw the line on being generous?  Should you never answer questions about the hobby with a provider, especially about other providers?  I certainly enjoyed my time with this provider, mainly for her willingness to play, but am lost as to what went wrong here.  

I will move on, but damn sure will miss this particular woman.

That's very odd. Maybe she's worried youll always expect OTC now? Or perhaps she was turned off about you seeing other providers or some of things you may have mentioned about them. She could be worried youll talk about her to other providers since you did the same with her at dinner. She should of at least told you why she no longer wants to see you. Im always honest with gents that I no longer wish to see and tell them exactly why, Sorry this happened.

On a side note i LOVE shoe shopping with a date. So much fun and such a turn on
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Tayl

Wow, I bought my ex wife a few pair of shoes (she had a shoe fetish). Who knew? The smartest thing I've ever done apparently. I'm fucking brilliant, and didn't even know it.

Perhaps you can enlighten me Taylor, why do women have such a shoe fetish? Not that I mind, I love women's legs and butts and evidently high heels make legs and butts more pronounced, so I'm all for it. I just wonder why women go so crazy over shoes.

Almost as many Choos, Blahniks, Loubies, etc. as Imelda Marcos.  And she's gone.  As for hookers, my favorite gal confessed one day to a fantasy of role playing as a slutty schoolgirl.  So I bought her an outfit and still have some great pictures of her in it.
I also know several of her friends and, when they heard about it, wanted outfits of their own.  I've now bought about five of them from spicylingerie.com.  Funny how so many gals like that fantasy. And I'm still in touch with almost all of them.

and you could have probably made her nervous. How about taking it one step at a time...But that's just a guess from someone who wasn't there when it all happened.  

The Hooker-John relationship is intended to be a transactional relationship. Sometimes, it does end up becoming a BF-GF relationship due to the very intimate nature of the business. But lines can get blurred real fast if the communication is not clear. If you really want to date a hooker, at least take it one step at a time...

If you really wanted to enjoy the woman, you should have kept it as a transactional relationship, and could have probably been able to enjoy her a little longer in a hobby setting. You reached out, took risk and got stung..

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She's doing poorly in your class and comes by your office to ask how she can improve her grades.....hmmm I'd better stop there.

I was the Head Coach of the High School football team and she'd been teasing my boys by flashing her panties at them.  I brought her into my office, made her suck my cock and then took her "virginity."  Then I told her she was now my whore and I was going to sell her ass to the entire football team.  After that, I think I told her I was going to let the entire 9th Grade boys jerk off all over her.  She squirted.  What a wonderful slut she is.
Just keep in mind, it was her idea, not mine.  I did have fun with it though, but it's not the only role play I've done at a lady's request.

I love this woman, and I don't even know who she is. What perverts we are.

Followed by:
Amanda Sweet and Petite/Amanda Bordeauxxx
Kayla Daze
Bambi Lynn
and one other I will  not see any more.
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And have seen gents many times after; however, I really feel bad sometimes if the gift is too big. Not sure why.

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Is similar to men and tools.

Women and purses.

Men and cars.

Men and food.

Men and blowjobs.

Women and foot/back/body rubs..

All of the above mentioned things are fun for the parties that enjoy them, so why not love them?

Not poking fun or malicious.. I just thought that was a clever reply.

Guess when you go OTC and get into prior providers, and the why's of getting into the hobby, it's like getting into old girlfriends or ex'es with a civvie date.  Maybe comparisons were a bit too much?  Perhaps.  That's a minefield I'd rather not get into, and best bet would have been to take the Fifth.  Crown Royal would have been my choice.

I'd suggest if you go gifting for something as personal as shoes and costumes, make sure you've got some time spent with them.  I went shopping with a long time friend at Victoria's Secret before Christmas for some fun stuff.  Afterwards, went to a hotel with my camera gear and took a bunch of pictures we used on her website and ads.  But make sure it's something you don't ever expect to see, just in case.  Maybe she thought you were getting too deep too quick?  

Life happens.  People happen.  Shit happens.  Get back on the horse.  Good luck

Lots of good one liners these past few days lol.

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