I've been a lurker here for awhile now and have found both the advice here on the boards, and the reviews very beneficial in my hobbying. I decided that it was time that I actually created an account and posted some reviews of my own in order to give back to the community 
, and also so that I can access the VIP reviews.
Now that that's out of the way, I have an experience that I simply must tell someone, but since I'm married this is not exactly the type of story that I can go around telling. So I figured this would be a good ice breaker for my first post here. I realize that this not directly hobbyist related, but like I said, I've got to tell someone. I'm also curious to see what kind of reaction this type of activity will get from you all (in other words, do you guys frown upon this kind of stuff)
I'm in my early 30's and have been to many-a-strip club. I'm not a regular anywhere, but I travel a lot for work and I almost always find a local strip club when I'm out of town. That said, something happened last night that has never happened to me before.
I was out of town with a workmate, and we hit a local strip club. A couple dancers come over to sit with us and after a few minutes of talking I could tell that the girl that sat by me was particularly "freaky". When she asked the obligatory "you ready for a dance?", I was happy to oblige.
The VIP area at this club was on the main floor in the front corner of the room. Only a half-height wall (about 4 feet high) separated VIP from the main floor, and the VIP area was one giant sectional couch around the outer wall (ie., no privacy). While you're getting a dance you can clearly see the stage, and the rest of the patrons in the club for that matter.
So we sat on the couch, waiting for the current song to end and a fresh one start so that we could get started. While we're sitting there, she drapes one of her legs over my lap in order to shield my lap from view from the other people in VIP, and then she proceeds to unbuckle my belt, unbutton my pants, and unzip my fly. She reaches in and starts playing with big jim and the twins. Keep in mind, the dance hadn't even officially started yet!
By the time our dance started I was already at full mast. She straddled me, pulls her thong aside, and slips me in. At this point we're like 30 seconds into the first song! Like I said, I've been to a heck of a lot of strip clubs; the clubs in my hometown are known for having good mileage so I'm used to the dancer groping my package through my jeans, and allowing me to run my hands wild on her. I can only count maybe 5 times where a dancer has actually reached her hand into my pants. So to go from that to all of a sudden full intercourse with a dancer I have no previous experience with right at the beginning of our first song, I was shocked. It was like I couldn't comprehend what was happening.
After a few songs my workmate and his dancer came back and sat right next to us, literally like a foot away. He had no idea what was going on though.
So we went at it like that for like 6 songs, french kissing the whole time as well. She's one of the few dancers that I've met that doesn't smoke, so kissing her was actually enjoyable. In fact it was great, she was a great kisser. After about 6 songs she was called up on stage. I had to stay seated for a few minutes in order to get into a state where I could actually stand up and walk back to my seat, if you know what I mean.
So anyway, there's my story. I've heard stories every now and then about BJ's or even full intercourse during a dance, but it always seems like those are few and far between. As I write this 24 hours later I'm still in a weird mental state over the experience; I keep asking myself "did this really happen?" I can't really explain why I feel that way. I guess when you see a provider, you a have a lot of time to prepare and work up to the experience you're about to have. But to be sitting next to a girl and then 2 minutes later you're screwing, with no advance planning or expectations, man it's just a different feeling. My heart is even racing right now as I type this. It was one of the most exciting experiences that I can remember, and I think it's purely because it was so spur of the moment and "forbidden".
So, I'm curious to know if anyone else has any similar experiences. Obviously I know that this wasn't exactly a very safe activity. But right now I don't really care; I'm going to enjoy this memory as long as I can.
I also just realized that I have no idea what her name is, not even her stage name.
I hope you don't get HIV.
my biggest concern is you never mentioned a condom... BB sex is dangerous... imagine the next time you have sex with your wife, you inocculate her with every man this stripper has ever had sex with... What happens if you get an std?
with that said... count yourself lucky... and I hope you tipped huge!
You had unprotected sex with a woman you don't know.
Get your ass and your dick to a clinic and get tested.
As an aside, I have had sex many times in strip clubs but never unprotected ( a girl tried once but I stopped her). I'm not sure what would poses a woman to boink a total stranger bareback in this day and age but it's one of the reasons that I now prefer an encounter with an escort to trying to get laid in strip clubs.
-- Modified on 11/15/2007 4:55:17 AM
And I would not tollerate it. I carry a condom into the clubs for use in this type of situation and to slip on my boy if I think I am gonna cum (just don't like the mess). Have I had similar experiences? yup.... but as I say, no BB for me. ever - civie, escort, or stripper. just not a good idea.... ever.
I'm going to avoid discussion of the BB aspect of things. It's been covered, so enough said.
I would like to thank you for sharing. This board needs new contributors to keep things alive, and your story was interesting and thought provoking.
Responsibility aside, that's one of those experiences that you'll remember for years to come.
Thanks for your responses. It was a bit of a downer to read the comments regarding the seriousness of going BB, but ultimately you guys are right and this thread has helped me to realize that I need to take this more seriously. Someone replied that they take condoms to strip clubs, I guess that's a good idea. It's just that this kind of thing had never happened to me before, and really I had no reason to expect that it would. Combine that with the 6 or 7 beers that I already had in me and how quickly the situation developed, and I clearly lacked judgement here.
Hopefully I'll have more, safer, experiences to contribute to the group in the future!
Seriously, and I don't want to beat this into the ground but, if we hadn't pointed out the dangers of going BB would you have realized it on your own? P4P is fun but, with an escort, a willing stripper or even a civie there are serious health risks involved with unprotected sex. Be careful out there...
You are correct, and I don't think you're beating it into the ground at all. When I posted this I was still riding an emotional high from what had happened. Your posts woke me up, so to speak.
and the suggestion of carrying a condom came from a stripper (I am just not clever enough to think of it on my own!). She refused to give full serve in the couch dance area without the condom... HJ? yea, but FS- no way.
just last night I was in a similar situation. This was with a lady I have been with a couple of times... she and her lady friend were in a particularly frisky mood! Wow, is all I can say. DATY, BBBJ, and cowgirl - all on the table... I got to DATY her friend while she was cowgirl on me! - and both are lookers - two 9s. whew... I get a woodie just thinking about it.
Met a girl in the VIP room of a local club. She was sort of a stripper ATF of a friend of mine. I started talking to her about her loser boyfriend (not my friend, btw), not really looking for anything or to do anything with her. Saw her again a few weeks later with a bunch of my friends at the same club and she started hanging out with all of us. Several guys did private dances with her, and when it was my turn, we go to the private area and she starts telling me how sexy I am and how she was hoping I would get a dance from her. Now, I do not exactly consider myself a looker or anything so I think she was just BSing me. Anyways she starts lapdancing and I start massaging her, and she starts telling me how she is horney and wants to fuck me. I still think she is just BSing until she rips off my belt, undoes my pants and starts playing with my guy. Well, long story short - BBBJTCIMNQNS. Quite a surprise for me. I did give her a nice tip. I tried to hook up with her and we exchanged emails for a while, but we never got together again. I think she is retired now. Oh well, It is still quite a memory.
I am just suprised to hear this happened....most dancers actually hate men. They love women and $$.
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-- Modified on 11/14/2007 8:47:12 PM
Do you mind telling the TER group which titty bar this was ?
I doubt many would like to run over and go behind God only knows how many shes done this same action with BARE BACK but as a former dancer I am curious myself as to which place gives this kind of service .
To each is his own . IMO you may be thinking now that you dont care but you are just 2 days into the 21 day period for a really really good DISEASE . Like the mother of Bubba says to Forrest "Are you crazy or just plain Stupid" !!!
Hey you story even give me some tingle but damn why would you do that and then come on here in public and tell the world you done BB with a dancer and you are now in the "hobby" ?
Do you really think many ladies are going to want to see you after reading this ?
***nodding head***
I worked in a pretty famous strip club a couple of years ago in Hollywood and the room for table dances had video surveillance and monitors all over the damn place. They'd forgive the occasional obvious gropage as long as it was quick, but something like your story would've certainly gotten you ass up in the manager's office (he was a horny bastard) and then pushed out the damn door. Hell, maybe just out the door immediately. Either way, I'm kinda' shocked that there are strip clubs out there that don't monitor their compliance with local ordinances because it's the norm in L.A.
Katie
I'd rather not name the exact club, but it was in Detroit along the 8 Mile corridor (the same 8 Mile from Eminem's movie "8 Mile").
Oh, to the guy that's calling BS, my only comment is that I'm guessing you've never been to an 8 Mile strip club.
A stripper goes from "hi nice to meet you" to an unsolicited riding of your dick in a matter of 2 minutes. You can't be naive enough to think you just won the stripper lottery and this was an isolated case. She's probably done that to countless other guys too.
Yeah...I'm piling on about the whole BB thing. But seriously, it wasn't the brightest move on your part.
To answer your original question...I've had one similar experience in my lifetime. It was in Vegas at the Crazy Horse on a Saturday afternoon. Unlike your situation, I wound up talking with her for almost an hour before we even did a lap dance. We just sort of hit it off well and the conversation flowed.
After a couple very hot lap dances I told her I was getting ready to head out (I'd been there all afternoon w/ my buddies and spent a fortune). She was bummed and said we should do the VIP room. I declined but she seemed honestly disappointed. So I said yes and she said I wouldn't regret it.
On the way into the VIP she told me to throw the doorman a $20 so he'd leave us alone. She knew of a corner in the VIP room that the camera's didn't cover that well. After a couple songs of dry humping like crazy she slid my hand inside her G-String which led to a great BJ while I fingered her. I'm sure we'd have fucked right there but after the dozens of lap dances I'd had that day I came in no time flat. She gave me her number and we hooked up after her shift was done and spent the night at my hotel.
She said she'd never fucked a customer before, and hadn't had sex for almost a year prior to me. Can't say that I truly believed her but what the fuck did I care. It was a cool experience. After having visited a thousand titty bars and walking out of them with blue balls, it was cool to finish things off the way that every guy wishes he could!
... and I know it happens. But....no attempt to get more $ or upcharge? no privacy? no condom? I'm still not buying it.
The exact same thing has happened to me. The only difference was that I didn't allow the very drunk young lady to sit on my cock (she even tried to put it in her ass when I refused the vaginal penetration). You can bet I showed up with a condom the next time...
Clubs and what can happen in them vary quite a bit in different parts of the country. In my area extras, including FS, are not an up sell anymore, they are a bargaining chip that many dancers offer to get a guys business.
