Hi all,

Plus my dick in some pleasurable, moist, and orgasmic female body part. 8o}

Put all of the characteristics you mention together and you find someone who is "comfortable in her own skin."

As a lot of us here are even a bit older than 40, and what I find nicest is that we've got the same cultural landmarks.  So even though there's still a really nice age difference it's not a canyon - and when we talk about the Beatles they're not thinking 'oh yeah, that's Paul McCartney's old group'

Attractiveness, Experience, Grace, Sense of Humor, Intelligence, Connection, Trust, Confidence, Talent,  and the sense that she is happy to be there.  

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most of all...  is her experience.  
She doesn't just lay there & expect everything will just happen...  and if it doesn't, she has a good idea on how to get my motor running.  
A possitive attitude...  "Your cum belongs to me!"    
A no quit attitude.  She will make it happen.  
She is happy to see me again.

I once went on a road trip with a client.  Maybe 3 hours drive, in his Maserati.  This is very relevant to the story, lol.  Anyway, he was playing all this music and getting excited and I had never heard of any of it.  He's like, "WOW!  I just love this song by the...." I can't even think of one band's name he mentioned.  I wanted to play Jay Z and he was appalled.  He and I were easily a generation apart.

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Can ladies respond?

I love older women in my personal life. When I seek out couples, I do like it more if the female is over the age of 40. It's the way they touch you so the experience. I like the milf look, I like their bodies and the ones that I have encountered do know their way around a vagina. To me, older is very alluring

He lied to you

Until he yelled to pull over and get back in the passenger seat.  You guys are so controlling with your precious cars, and frankly, it's a bit rude.

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I'm in my mid fifties and the 40+ providers I see can relate to having children at least in their teens, some older. I'm just not comfortable being with someone who is younger than my step-daughter (30) or my son (26).
Aside from all that, they damn gorgeous and incredibly talented, kind and did I say gorgeous.

All of the above sounds great. However they're just that, soundbites. Pretty much any provider can promise the moon and the stars so meh...

Did you see him drop it off too?

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Until he yelled to pull over and get back in the passenger seat.  You guys are so controlling with your precious cars, and frankly, it's a bit rude.

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I look for some kissing,light and tender,soft touching,a few moans when i'm touching the right spot.cuddling and soft kisses after the main event ,gives me that intimate feeling that some youn providers dont understand.
 

The list of words in the original post just pass through my mind as meaningless advertising. A part of the draw of an older woman for me is that generally they are more genuine, less reliant on acting or bullshit. In this profession especially I think pictures speak louder than words. If you can convey class, kindness and beauty through your photos, then words will be superfluous really (you just want to avoid setting off alarm signals). Photos + reviews will draw clients more than any magic combination of words.

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One that is of legal age to give consent of course.

I don't "genuinely" share any cultural landmarks with women of any age group.

Physiologically,women over 40 are often peaking sexually and are often more interested than younger women.
Older women (says me whose oldest daughter is in her mid 40s) are often more comfortable in themselves.  Know what they want what they do and do not want to deliver and
with the knowledge of how best to deliver it.
In short a mature spirit and mind in a mature body often makes older women very exciting.

My preferences are always changing. I use to like the more mature providers, this board has changed my opinion of them.

One gal loves to reset all the presets on my radio when we're together.

Oh well, she's a great lover and friend, so what the hell?

In other words you mean Portia Eden.....right?  

The Mature category gets the highest amount of traffic on a major ad site whose name I am apparently not allowed to mention here (some other categories being Busty, GFE, All-Natural, Petite, College Girls, Blonde, etc).  
 
I've met some of those 40+ ladies. They BANK. Most of their rates are average or slightly higher than average (in a major metropolitan market). And they're really not hurting for business.
 
I'm sure they get emails saying that they're too old and charge too much for their age, etc. I'm sure they laugh all the way to their financial consultant's office.

And a few of the other things that people have already mentioned.

hank you all so much for your input ~ I really appreciate it

I take a lot of heat for this because the vast majority of gentlemen say that it can't be found in a place like this. That it's wishful thinking to hope for this, let alone think it has happened. Nevertheless, what I look for in a lady has to do with subtlety, nuance, distinctiveness, spirit, and essence. I'm here to tell you that it can, and has happened.