There could be a myriad of reasons as to *why* but if you want to know what her rate is when you show up, it's safest to ask, not assume.
She could easily claim that you shorted her.. to avoid confusion simply ask her what's her rate
Forget traveling !!!!!! This multiple rate crap makes NO SENSE ! And I DO NOT want to ask ! I refuse to even mention it ! The smart and better girls do not do this ( okay some do ) ! But I call WTF ????? And that smiley , after I read provider math !
Then she claims that you've shorted her.. now you you have an angry gal on your hands lol.
Yeah multiple rates are tacky, but what's the problem with asking
And it came across her on the site with the lowest rate ! So she knows that's what she is getting ! Easy ! And I also clip coupons !
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Then she claims that you've shorted her.. now you you have an angry gal on your hands lol.
Yeah multiple rates are tacky, but what's the problem with asking
I see your point...
And you're going to have to enlighten me on the coupon clipping lol.
Oh , see every month many post "this month " or for guys I've never seen " or " if your a ter member " 100 $ off ! See no expiration date so those r good ! Just stick them in the envelope too ! Except for the 1 that says thus month ! Girls like coupons ! I know a nifty one > how about " if u refer a friend " ! Now since I like u , ( not that way ) check to see when her last review was ? Those gals give the best discounts !
Posted By: cashorcredit
I see your point...
And you're going to have to enlighten me on the coupon clipping lol.
You're a funny guy.
I've always done the Couponing when grocery shopping.. just never thought of using it in the hobby.. brilliant ideas BiB
I see this all the time. I just book her through whatever site she was on that had the rate/menu that I wanted 
+ 1 , and hope ALOT of guys learn from the recent threads ! B gd .
Posted By: OneBallMan
I see this all the time. I just book her through whatever site she was on that had the rate/menu that I wanted
There was an "ad mall" for NYC only services, mostly AMPs but also some indies, and they had $20 off coupons to increase their traffic. I can assure you that the coupons were honored, many times.
The site is now defunct due to craigslist-type crackdowns, not because of the coupons.
I might as well mention that several NYC AMPs have "frequent flyer" cards that provide discounts or freebies after so-many punches
Just tell her where you found it. If the cheapest rate is on p411, contact her through p411. If it is on TER, contact her through TER. If it's on EROS, tell her you found her ad on EROS. If she is going to be upset that you select yhe lowest rate, she should keep her rates consistant!
He mentions he's been burned many times, by choosing the cheapest rate listed.
It just seems shady not verifying the rate if you're not sure what it is
yes, you're right. Keep your rates consistent and there will be no problem.also, it'll take the awkwardness of discussing rateat a minimum.
I want to make it as easy as possible for guys to know the rate, but I do give both TER and P411 members a huge discount or should I say, I grandfathered them in at my old rate. Just ask what rate is accurate before you set the appt. If she says the higher rate, say "Ok thanks." Betcha she contacts you back and offers the lower one if you pass her by lol.
Instead just say: "I see rates for donations on P411. Are they accurate?"
And let her then decided.
That's exactly what I said !!!!!!
The idea that talking about money or mentioning actual sums of money is so bad is funny. Lol.
The no-no ssue is discussing money and sex (i.e, "how much for a BBBJ?"...now that would be a problem!) I see no problem asking what is the rate for 1 hour, 2 hours, etc. Or asking, is it $xxx for one hour? etc.
On the other hand, the method you mentioned (asking something like, "Is the rate listed on P411 accurate?") is also fine. I just don't see a problem mentioning "sums of money."
I have never had a problem asking about rates in emails or texts. I've never been ignored or deleted for asking, and have always received an answer. Of course this is only for instances when there is conflicting information, or no info on rates. If rate structure on website, ads, profile etc., is clear and consistant, there is obviously no need to ask.
I offer different rates for services provided, so I know it can be confusing. TER is great if your a VIP member because it clearly states the donations for services offered. I do not use the same lingo on my website because the laws very depending upon what city your providing in. My escort tribute is not the same as my body rub, but I offer discounts depending upon the situation. For example:
Local site may get advantages because it is a trusted small community that is not easy to get in & say I am only interested in outcalls near, or around my area I may want to offer a deal for less time spent getting an incall, or driving far.
Personal preference, so just ask the provider.
So, read minds is more apt
I have seen it too. I believe, it is because different boards are frequented different types of hobbyists and has an implied pricing structure, for example, say EROS vs. BP. So providers know, if they say $500 in BP they are simply wasting ad money. If you pay a little attention, you will also see this trend is much higher during slow times.
I would call and say which ever advertising venue you the lower priced ad, why not.
she is running a weekly special in her TER ad. We do not have control over the rates listed on our profile on TER. The clients put that there so it may not reflect our current rate.
Unfortunately many providers, some who have been here for years still don't know how to keep their profiles updated. It is so simple, even a cavewoman can do it.
Also, no I am not going to pay the TER rate or website rate if a provider's profile is less on P411 for instance. If I contact her on P411 that's the rate to pay.
...is all it would take to correct any incorrect info on your TER profile about rates. Providers certainly can make changes to correct info on their TER profile.
hit the report a problem button at the top, and type in the message the new rate. They update it fairly quickly.
An AD may have a Special. I discovered belatedly that the Special was for lesser time & service than I wanted. I was fortunate in that case I was able to extend at extra cost.
When I made contact, I'd state which ad I was responding to. HOWEVER, if the rate is below the norm for my area, I suspect a Special or even an upsell... under the excuse of 'other than Special service' request. I would be prepared to make the full donation for GFE FS. Or I would not go.
I really prefer to know up from but it's not comfortable inquiring.
and book off that website.
I do confirm which is ironic as "she stated on her sites" it is never to be discussed. LMFAO
Sometimes the provider changes her rates on her website and forgets to change places like TER, since she did not provide that information to them.
The rate on TER could be wrong. If the provider has raised her rates recently, she may not have filled out a problem report on TER to have them corrected.
The rates on P411 must be the same as everywhere else or lower or the provider risks the possibility of being dropped by P411.
I would go by her rates on her website, unless she is advertising a special somewhere
A provider is generally going to know where she advertises. Maybe not the details of every single ad but that's fine. My usual contact is by email. I will either reference the where I saw the recent ad or I will throw in the link. If she is touring and her rates may change. Heck, her home rates may change too. But I would reference what you're talking about ...WHEN your talking about it with her. Things go MUCH easier when all parties are on the same page.
neither party should assume.... discussing rates is taboo... but there are ways to make sure both parties hear the Dog Whistle
I know personally I have a standard rate that I go by but every now and then my rates will differ if im running specials- we keep the old rates still up on our websites so you are able to see the discount
that is like raising your rate then having a special every other week for the old rate or below. I hate playing that game so, I don’t.
No drama necessary about the Holly Grail called rates.
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That's not what he is talking about though. He means you would have say 200 an hour on P411, 300 an hour on TER, and 350 an hour on Eros. Just totally different rates across the board with no specials running.
At the start of the discussion... ex: Hey (escort), how are you? I saw your ad on (cheapest rated ad name here).
And continue your email.
I've been having some trouble keeping my ads straight, and now that I have control over everything again, I can make everything consistent. Just found crazy rates on an old Eros ad I just reactivated. Had no idea those rates were on there. I say this to explain some ladies may not keep up with all ads to make sure they match.
Best bet, their personal website, if any, is the most accurate.
Just my guess.
Meaning a sacred japan mirror.
JK thanks for the help there. Next time... 
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