Keep it simple...
Never ever knock on the Door
I'm in Nor Cal but my style should work anywhere in 'merica.
Please understand that the girls are freaked out about catching the C19. You made a rookie mistake. Don't do it again!!!
My advice is to pre-book like you did; then confirm the morning of and show up on time with the appropriate donation amount. Have fun. Don't talk about C19!!!!
You're welcome to read my threads and reviews for my style. The proper donation amount and good manners go a long way...
Good luck on your mission should you decide to try again...
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Just trying to reassure her in advance.
Thanks for the input though, from now on I think I'll leave the subject of covid alone.
Your response is ridiculous. Ignoring how the conversation should be had (text or email or phone) - if a provider is unwilling to discuss or acknowledge that she is healthy - walk away. The same is true for clients if asked by a provider.
We all take personal risks when we monger.
I'm in excellent health, wear my mask outside and observe safe distancing. But that's prolly not good enough for you...
Asking about the health of a provider is a no no in my playbook. You can choose to: # 1 stay home and rub one out; # 2 wear a hazmat suit to your appointment; # 3 see no GFE girls and you both wear masks, gloves and condoms. Is that what you have in mind as a fun session?
I consider myself a whore monger or just monger. I don't hobby. I don't consider myself a hobbyist. You say client. I say customer.
Attorney's represent clients. Clients have privilege in a court of law. There is no privilege between the provider and monger in a court of law.
Judge not lest ye be judged.
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You forgot #4 - Common Sense.
While typically it is frowned upon to ask about someone's personal health status, I think during a global pandemic an exception can be made. In my opinion, C19 is an important discussion to have with someone you intend to spend intimate time with. I have been laying low and taking time off the past 3 months. When I return to seeing clients I will be inquiring to their social distancing habits and symptoms, as well as being open & transparent about my own.
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That seems like a bit of a strong reaction to your statement -- assuming that is a quote. I probably should not say BSC but seems to be a bit borderline.
Perhaps could have been more subtly stated -- maybe something like "do you have a covid protocol I should be aware of when arriving" so something. It might also be something best mentioned at the start of the contact.
But I do agree with Twoon as well -- any good provider is taking care of things too, just as you, and chances that she has the virus is probably lower than having some STD.
i HATE texts ... its so easy to misunderstand tone and intention .. i have been burned many times myself .. my suggestion would have been to say "hey i got tested neg for c19," and leave it at that .. then see how she replies .. if says "great news i have been careful too" .... thats what you want to hear. and that way you didn't question her.
in text less is more. also understand although you meant well the ladies here get bombarded by total jerks all day long so its sometimes hard for a lady to tell the difference between a guy being nice and a guy being a jerk.
Know your audience is the way i approach things...
The " "btw.... I have been 100% healthy and assume that you have been as well." should have been bought up at the first text or however you reached her. But you'll need to be delicate but yet to the point.
Not knowing the girl, what her website or ads says about her, I would have phrased it differently at the beginning. Not coming in....but that's just Moi.
Not out of line, but out of line for HER. :p
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I can see how to a provider that you have not meet before, this could come across poorly. Absent COVID, would you have sent a message that said "I just took a shower, can I assume you did as well?"
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There are really two parts to your message:
Part 1 - Tell her you are healthy to presumably reassure her that you are responsible and respect her health needs.
Part 2 - Ask if she is healthy to presumably get her to what?
-Admit she's been sucking face with strangers 5 times a day for a month?
-"Prove" she's not Typhoid Mary?
-Infer that you think she's a "dirty crack addict ho"?
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Nope! Bad Monger!
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Part 1: Good idea.
Part 2: Bad idea.
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Less is more.
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Life is good.
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The Cat
Never stir the pot..just enjoy the meal..
This sounds like a serious overreaction on her part. Not saying a lady shouldn't be sensitive about her health but she could have simply said she's a professional and wouldn't endanger someone else's health. I had someone fly off the handle a few months ago because I asked her to meet me at the entrance rather than the middle of the lobby. A difference of 30 feet with the former being further away from prying eyes. She went completely ballistic. I considered myself lucky.
I've had other ladies who seemed twitchy before we connected but I went ahead with the meeting. Regretted it each and every time.
I will do this while booking (hopefully in tactful way) and if she is good she most likely won’t mind! If she does mind it’s her loss ... I am gone!
There are certain people in this world who are easily triggered by this or that. If it is not one thing it is the other. I'm sure her life is filled with drama. You likely dodged a bullet.
These are different and unprecedented times. Concerns about your safety are your number one concern and should never be compromised. If she took it the wrong way then well that’s just too fucking bad on her part.
I agree that maybe you dodged a bullet, your comment was pretty innocuous but if she blew off the handle because of such a simple text message, then she probably wasn’t worth the time. Count yourself lucky and move on.
the same way she did. When I read it, it seems you were telling her about YOUR health as an excuse to ask her about HER health. This may account for her negative reaction. If you had just said you are in good health, it would be reassuring as you intended, but adding the last part made it sound like YOU had concerns about her heatlh. Just my take from the words you used.
You never know how a woman will take things. Like the old joke, "Do these jeans make me look fat?" question. Often there is a no-win scenario.
I had a provider block me because I misunderstood her text. I'm a 30,000 foot level guy and details, no matter how hard I try, are beyond me. She asked if I could check-in with her on the day of the date to see if the day worked for her. I gave her alternate dates thinking she wasn't sure she could make the day I scheduled. She went off on me as being flightly, and that I was changing the confirmed date on her. I went back and looked and she said, "let's check-in" on the day I proposed - meaning let's confirm on that day for the session. WTF? Anyway, I chalked it up to the sign of the times and providers are on edge to start. They have a lot more to worry about than we do; stalkers, murderers, rip-off customers, STDs, LEO, and now COVID-19.
That being said I've seen four of my ATFss these past few weeks; ultimate professionals and no problems. So when you run into these schizoid providers, you truly appreciate the professionals; Sasha Noelle, Josephine, Juliette, etc.
If she cancelled on you for trying to be safe, then later for her. Stick with your regulars. I have seen a total of one new provider during the pandemic. I always show up with a mask, regardless who it is.
If you want to see new ones, just show up with a mask and gloves on. Keep them on for the whole session.
