I've known a few girls with straight jobs/careers who have popped up a few years apart for a few weeks/months at a time. There's one I saw three times about five years ago. Two years ago she pops up again, I see here twice, then I contact her for a third appointment and she never replies.
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This is mildly annoying, but she was a fantastic fuck, so if she pops up again I'll definitely try to see her.
February 8th, 2017. I emailed an escort. I was planning a trip to her area (Philly) in two weeks, and I wanted to see her availability. I did not get a response.
UNTIL TODAY
Apparently she is touring the state I live in (I mentioned my state when I contacted her back in 2017) this weekend and reached out to me about setting an appointment.
Thanks but no thanks...
She's pretty well organized. And if you're still upset she didn't reply more than three years ago, that's a shame.
I was never upset to begin with. I honestly forgot I emailed her. I moved on and reached out to another escort and had a really good appointment with her.
Well organized is reaching out to me after a month or two, apologizing for the late response and seeing if we could work something out in the near future since Philly and where I live aren't too far from each other.
Reaching out over 3 years later is just weird. I could've moved or I could no longer be a hobbyist. Hell, the 2 women I used as references in my initial email. One retired in June of 2017. The other, I haven't seen in almost 2 years.
the flaky factor. As we all know, there are some really sharp escorts, and some very flaky ones.
If she has reviews, might be an indication of which, otherwise forget it.
Basic member right now, so I'm not sure what her reviews say, but I have a previous flaky "encounter" with her.
Back in 2016, I was planning a trip to Philly. Stumbled across her and reached out. I had questions (I wasn't being a time waster, there were 2 websites of her up with different rates so I was trying to figure out which was correct, as well as other legitimate non vulgar questions). We emailed back and forth. I asked for a specific date, time and duration, waited a week, followed up and never heard back. Ended up moving on and scheduling with someone else.
Day before I leave Philly, she texts me saying she's available. I had mentioned the time frame I would be in Philly and my phone number in my email. Already had plans so I declined to see her. Though if she didn't flake out and go no contact, I would've seen her.
Just the other day I got a response from a text I sent on 5/2018!...Bottom line, we had a good laugh over it and she asked if there was still any interest. She sent CURRENT pictures and her website and sure there's still an interest and we're working on the details. I wonder if I'll get the 2018 entrance tag? Hmmmmm.....
I just hope we don't meet in 2023.
Due to the recent times and less demand, it seems some are desperate to just go randomly through messaging/phone/email history and solicit anyone who ever wanted a piece. At least that's my take on it.
Or maybe it's just really slow customer service 
Maybe only once a year or so, but I get hit up by a provider I saw once more than 4 years past.
I once had a provider who admitted to blacklisting me for cancelling a session but she would send me texts and emails when one of her friends was touring my town.
I still get advertising emails from the screener of a lady who now refuses to see me. I didn't do anything (too) out of line.
Saw her in April 2015 on vacation. She was coming to my area later that year in October, I scheduled an appointment. Figured I'd get some double afternoon delight before the wedding rehearsal I was going to. She ended up changing the parameters (her doubles partner wasn't making the trip and location changed) so I canceled 4 or 5 days before our appointment.
Fast forward 4 years later. I schedule another appointment. A week before, I realize I have a conflicting personal commitment. Thought it was going to be on another date but it wasn't. Let the lady know. She says she'll not be able to see me ever again since I canceled on her twice.
I'm too lazy to unsubscribe. Surprised she hasn't forcefully kicked me off her list yet.
Some of the ladies i met a couple of years ago would contact me again!
My kryptonite gal contacted me a year ago, when she was in the area, but I was sick as a dog, and couldn't make it down to see her. How I regret that bad timing...
I don't
If I haven't reached out to you, don't contact me. There have been 2 escorts that have contacted me unsolicitedly. Both of those women did things before/during our appointment that put them on my Never See Again list.
Made an appointment in April to see this provider the day before. Texed a hour before to confirm. Got to the site and no response. Texed twice in 30 minutes; nothing. She responded 30 minutes later apologizing she had fallen asleep. No big deal I was able to get a last minute with another provider I knew very nearby. Reached out to her 2-3 weeks ago and didn't hear back until very late at night and said she was having phones problems. As someone relativity new to the scene I blew it off. She recently has has some glowing reviews on TER so I'm going to give it another shot this weekend. Her marketing and web site are top of the charts.
Did you at least secure a discount?
I know if I scheduled an appointment with someone and they slept through it, I would want a discount if I were to try and see her again. Hell, lets say the reverse happened, she came to your place and you were asleep during the scheduled appointment, you'd have to pay a cancellation fee of some sort to see her again.
She offered at the time but that was months ago. Not planning on bringing it up unless she remembers.
Trying to rebuild her book of business now that the shut down is ending. I've received several unsolicited emails from long ago contacts letting me know they are touring again.
I've known a few girls with straight jobs/careers who have popped up a few years apart for a few weeks/months at a time. There's one I saw three times about five years ago. Two years ago she pops up again, I see here twice, then I contact her for a third appointment and she never replies.
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This is mildly annoying, but she was a fantastic fuck, so if she pops up again I'll definitely try to see her.
But probably not to the OP’s point, I have just started to hear from women I reached out in March and got crickets back then. That seems completely understandable.