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In praise of older women
pdef1949 14 Reviews 905 reads
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If like me you have been around the block a few times, do you like to be with an age-appropriate woman or do you prefer the plethora of 20-somethings I see on BP all the time?

In the last couple of years I have been less willing to go for a young cutie who has a body and an attitude because of her age.....and maybe the fact that men of all ages swoon over her. I've met some nice ones but also a few who were a big disappointment, Now it's very rare I will see anyone under the age of 30.

I have met some dynamite partners this way and am wondering what some other people have experienced.  Two of the most beautiful (physically) women I have met were 30 or older.....and one who recently gave me my most memorable night is in her mid-30's.

What do you think?

are over 30, and one is likely closer to 40.  The latter is the most intimate lover I have ever had in my life, civie or provider, and I wouldn't trade my time with her for any provider out there.

The one "about 30" has the most insanely hot body I have ever seen on a women.  Hot yoga every day and a borderline obsessive healthy lifestyle show why.....maybe that lifestyle is actually a good idea.

And even the young one is pushing 25, and is flat out the best lover I have ever had. The sex is just fucking insane, and she is old enough to be over the fact that she was born having hit the genetic lottery, just perfect features and couldn't be prettier.  And not hung up in the least.  I would guess, just guess, that she had a different perspective at 20.

You can have your 19 year old hotties, I just need more...depth....at this point in life

One of my ATFs was just over 40 and the others are mid-30s  The worst experience I have had in the hobby was with a 19-year old with an attitude.  I must admit I have also met some nice 20-somethings who were pleasant to be with, but I felt more at ease with the more mature ladies.

My latest experience is also the best....a wonderful combination of mid 30s, and a body that appeals to me and a personality that so meshes with mine that we had nearly instant rapport on the first phone call. In person it just got better and better all evening. She says she wants only a few men for a LT ongoing thing and I am happy to go with the flow.

Beerformyhorses423 reads

The definition is "ALL time favorite!" that means it is only possible to have ONE!
Hate the overuse of these stupid acronyms.

I gotta favorite vanilla, a favorite chocolate, a favorite pistachio...

Ya know?

I got an all time favorite chocolate- Haagen Daaz
My all time favorite vanilla- Breyers
My all time favorite Pistachio- Ben & Jerry's.

Pretty fucking simple concept. Singular not necessarily implied

My primary ATF visits every two weeks or so.  If she was local, I simply wouldn't see anyone else.  She is the 25ish one.

The other two - I could never list them as 1B and 1C, they each offer a uniquely different experience and I appreciate each for what she brings to the table and my life.  The 30ish one visits about every two months from NYC.  Too long between dates to be primary ATF, for me at least.  And the 40ish one is local, and if I had not found 1A, then she would be "the girl".  

You do understand that these girls retire quite frequently, right?  That is why.  It was my objective last year to find three ATFs, when one drops out I will not be high and dry looking for a women with whom I am exceedingly comfortable, there will still be the other two

and, according to Eros, the "mature" category is their most clicked link.  

It doesn't surprise me.  It does please me.

Go figure.

Yep, only cheap, bang for the buck types insist on girls who are barely legal...well, ok a few exceptions excluded lol. I actually lost business when my age was listed 26-30...go figure.

Blumpkinlover412 reads

You probably lost business when you were listed as 26-30 because us ... uh i mean those cheap, bang for the buck types see 26-30 and think that means 30+.  Since they like barely legal that's a pass.  

Then the guys that like 30+ see 26-30 and think she is too young.

by a number of men, that they would not see any woman with a 2 as the first number in her age. I don't much care either way, but did find it odd that many guys insist on 30+.

More experienced, easier to relate to, and still HOT!!  Win, Win, Win!

I am 33 years old and usually try to see providers that are at least my age or older.  The quality and experience is unparalleled.

riorunner452 reads

because they've learned how to spell. Seriously. For example, a kiss can be a comma, question mark, period or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling every woman ought to know but which many younger women have yet to learn. What do you all think?
                                                                        Regards....RR

They make great pets

MM

riorunner367 reads

I agreeMM! But you have to be careful when you let them off their leash...lol

Feed them a steady serving of meat and they purr like a little pussy should

MM

Its so nice to know that an enormous amount of men feel the same as myself.  Why do you think I only see men over 40? You certainly dont think I do this for them do you?  If that was the case then I would see any aged man and be in it for  the money alone, and when your in this profession just for the money then your no good at it.  I absolutely love what I do it just happens to pay well.  I see men  who know how to treat a real woman so in return it just comes naturally  and willingly to do the same.  

Posted By: pdef1949
If like me you have been around the block a few times, do you like to be with an age-appropriate woman or do you prefer the plethora of 20-somethings I see on BP all the time?  
   
 In the last couple of years I have been less willing to go for a young cutie who has a body and an attitude because of her age.....and maybe the fact that men of all ages swoon over her. I've met some nice ones but also a few who were a big disappointment, Now it's very rare I will see anyone under the age of 30.  
   
 I have met some dynamite partners this way and am wondering what some other people have experienced.  Two of the most beautiful (physically) women I have met were 30 or older.....and one who recently gave me my most memorable night is in her mid-30's.  
   
 What do you think?

Panthera12403 reads

To a 70 year old man, a fat droopy MILF is a 10.

Personally, I would make exceptions for a 35 or 40 year old if she is good shape, but most MILF's are not. I see some of the reviews and gag when I look at the provider's profiles and pictures. I could do better in a bar on a Friday night.

I have seen plenty of providers under 30 who don't have an attitude. When you read these boards, most of the MILF's have the bad attitudes along with the lesbians who hate themselves and men in general.

I never said a fat droopy MILF was a 10 and I'm not 70 yet....so fat and droopy, regardless of age, is nowhere near a 10 for me.

There are plenty of women who are 30s, 40s and 50s who keep themselves in shape and are still very hot. I know quite a few from my outside activities, although they are not in the hobby. Too bad for me, I'd love to hear a few of them say "Let's go" instead of "Thanks for the dance".  

I also said I have met providers in thier 20s whose attitude is vey good....but it's harder for me to relate to them on more than a friendly business level.  That's more likely my fault than theirs but a 40-year age gap is not so easily overcome.

But thank God there are still choices for me among the mid-30s and older set. My most recent favorite is at least 35 and may be a year or two o0lder....and she and I relate very, very well.
We are becoming very good friends even though we've only had a first visti together. I can hardly wait for No. 2.

Panthera12371 reads

My statement was a general one, and I didn't mean to imply that you were 70.

If she says she is 35, she is probably 40+, but if she floats your boat, enjoy.

She might be late 30s or 40 or 40+.....in case it's fine with me! Because she is so fine!

because I do prefer the 35 to mid 40's ladies.  Of course, I only look for the ones that take care of themselves (like I do).  There are many whose bodies would rival or surpass your 20 somethings, and their experience and abilitity to do more than just 'look' good often enhances the overall experience for me.  Of course I have a few under 30 ladies who are very hot and very talented, and don't rule that age group out because of general stereotypes.  Still, mostly there is no comparison.  JMHO!

Panthera12350 reads

Forgive me if I am being presumptuous.

Fucking and sucking is not rocket science and is supposed to be natural. It doesn't take years of experience to learn how to do it.

My best sessions have been with providers in their 20's. The times that I went for the MILF's were not the best. They tire too easily and  were too mechanical and set in their ways.  Yes, there have been exceptions.

BadBoyfriend338 reads

As you say fucking and sucking is natural, and so is walking and talking and expressing your individuality. You get better at those as you grow and learn. Basic skills can be improved!  Many young ladies are in too big of a hurry for my tastes.  Maybe the relating goes both ways.  YMMV as they say ;)

It seems I am far from alone in my praise of older women.  Who knew?  And I certainly did not know the most clicked category of Eros was "Mature Women".

It's also interesting to me that on Backpage Philadelphia the ads are full of under-25 providers, but in Allentown (only 50 miles away but older populace) there are more over-30 providers who advertise. I've often wondered if all these providers really are 20 or 21 or 22....maybe they just claim that because they think it will get them more clients.

Now I must admit I've had some memorable sessions with women in their mid-20s and the women were very nice to me. But the connection was more physical than anything else....and maybe that's because of MY attitudes, not theirs.

Still, maturity shows and the only way to get maturity is to live more years.

In my limited experience, the yongest girls expect a man to be push button and don't want to put any effort into it.  For a Gal to keep a nice body takes work & focus beyond the teens & early 20s...  but it's usually doable.  I think the 30's age bracket most likely to get me what I am looking for in a provider.

iliketofarm390 reads

I've totally given up on 20-somethings. In fact, the best experience I've ever had was with 40 yr old. She was fkin amazing.

Posted By: pdef1949
If like me you have been around the block a few times, do you like to be with an age-appropriate woman or do you prefer the plethora of 20-somethings I see on BP all the time?  
   
 In the last couple of years I have been less willing to go for a young cutie who has a body and an attitude because of her age.....and maybe the fact that men of all ages swoon over her. I've met some nice ones but also a few who were a big disappointment, Now it's very rare I will see anyone under the age of 30.  
   
 I have met some dynamite partners this way and am wondering what some other people have experienced.  Two of the most beautiful (physically) women I have met were 30 or older.....and one who recently gave me my most memorable night is in her mid-30's.  
   
 What do you think?

Hey guys...I'm that mature older woman you seek!!!

You bet older mature woman are the bomb! Not just because they have more experience and knowledge about men, but because an older woman was raised in an earlier time period that you can relate to and talk about things you experienced when you where growing up.  The 20 somethings are still wet behind the ears that haven't lived enough life yet to satisfy your intellect. I only take care of the 40+ club.

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