I meant once you give me your real name, you CAN have mine.. Till then STFU...
A stupid question, engendered by the luggage tag thread.
Do most guys try to hide their real names from providers? How can you get screened that way?
When it's little, it reads "TINY". With an erection, it reads "TICONDEROGA NY".
I'm da BOWSS!!
They usually take that as being good enough for verification, being a corporate executive and wearing a Vera Wang suit and all. 
You haven't posted a contrite apology yet.
latline for sure
...pretty stupid wearing tuxedos to work every day. Idjit!
There are lots of hi end ladies that want all your real info. Why give it and why give the OP shit for a legitimate question.
There are four reliable ladies that could drive up in the yard and ask for me by name.
Hope I don't have to make it five.
Whatever you feel comfortable divulging.is what you should do. Whether you use a pseudonym or your real name you will get to bone beautiful providers. There are verification methods for either. Oh, there will be many outspoken ladies on this board who will have an aneurysm at the mere thought of your audacity to protect your identity. They are in the minority, but have to be the loudest to drown out and shame the majority of ladies who don't require such personal info. You stay in control of your own life.
Do most guys try to hide their real names from providers? How can you get screened that way?
-- Modified on 2/18/2014 11:44:37 PM
get your name, no?
While I was admiring her car. Hot car,,, hotter lady. But I check out the driver of every car I see like it
If you're stupid enough to have a car registered in your own name
eom
So your wife gets a note telling HER that the car was at a hookers incall/hotel. Either way, someone in your family gets noticed.
Nothing to do with license plates
and that is that I figure a gal who screens carefully and insists on knowing whom she is meeting will be a safer person to see.
A provider who is careless is not someone I would necessarily want to be with.
I know that some hobbyists have reported problems from giving out their names, but I've been doing this for a long time and I haven't run into any problems.
he would piss off anyone to the extent of the woman wanting to blackmail him or worse.. kill him..
With some other guys, like yours truly, its a different case... 
For the record, I've been following Mr. F's posts before you even got here, and have never seen him lose his cool one bit..He is somewhat of a Saint...lol
Except he has a pee fetish and would lose it completely if bad girl doesn't urinate on him.
How cool is that to be pissed off if someone won't piss me?
Well, not saint-like, I'll admit.
As for being a saint, I'm shit out of luck.
They already have a Saint Fisher:
He seems like a decent guy, but c'mon.
I do agree with his premise.
If you have nothing nefarious in mind, you need not worry. Be a jerk and you get what you deserve (not you personally Mr. Fisher).
The application includes provider references, rs2k/p411 info, etc. their resume is a nice email with the application, a hello and goodbye.
I guess that would be a cover letter. Nm. Forget this lol
Dear courtney ova
Attached is my resume. I'm da BOWSS. Therefore, I like to take charge of the session. Since I'm da BOWSS that should make verification a breeze. My full name is Da Bowss.
I seek multiple positions: 69, doggy style, Mish, CG, RCG, and lazy dog. While I'm gentle, I work hard. I may collapse after the session and flat line. So please have an ambulance on stand by.
My severance package would need to be negotiated upfront but generally a nice hot shower would suffice.
Sincerely,
Da BOWSS
Wow! and I thought AnotherDickLicker was an Asshole!
You two must be twins !
It renders me speechless and I must defenestrate myself.
I can understand why some men hesitate divulging info about themselves. Many women in the bizbiz I would not want to know my name or info either as the profession lends itself to many LCD's (lowest common denominator) but that applies to the men as well.
Here is an idea that seems to escape many. Investigate the women you plan on spending time with instead of looking at a hot photo and dialing.
See ladies you have some trust and respect for. Have a conversation and see what that person is about. It is something you establish and takes very little effort, that is if you have 2 brain cells to rub together.
For me - knowing who I am going to spend time with is a matter of respect and why anyone thinks that dollars void this aspect of a social interaction is a little insane.
Many of the men who refuse to let a girl know who they are.. have to be mr.anonymous, often harbor issues with women, a castration complex or they don not feel empowered - and it is a passive aggressive means to dehumanize and make the lady a lowly object. A way for that man to feel powerful at the expense of the lady.
Ladies who allow themselves to be seen this way, as an object, are the ones at risk for problems. IMHO the ladies who do not insist on info are usually the ones a man is most at risk with.. if they don't have adequate respect for themselves do you think they can respect you? I also think there are ladies so desperate for money for whatever reason they let men stay anonymous even though it makes them nervous and uncomfortable. Some men are turned on by desperation.
I like to see smart, cool, guys that I enjoy... a man who has to be anonymous with me is a man who (to me) doesn't have confidence, generosity of spirit, and is not a good judge of character. If he says "gosh Alea you are not worthy to know my name." and expects me to lovingly spend my precious time and parts of myself. ! no , not gonna happen. Not like I have a form to fill out,, I don't need a home address... but many men don't even investigate what exactly it takes to reach a comfort level. I like to be seen as an individual not some stereotyped cardboard , met one you met'em all escort by some mentality challenged goon.
The starter of this thread might re-think his reasoning and approach to hiring companionship.
Hookers and escorts are two different professions. maybe that is where your confusion on how to proceed begins...
Do most guys try to hide their real names from providers? How can you get screened that way?
I can't even begin to dissect your post...
All I will say is once you give me your real name, you can't have mine.. Till then STFU...
What he said.
All I will say is once you give me your real name, you can't have mine.. Till then STFU...
I meant once you give me your real name, you CAN have mine.. Till then STFU...
But you don't need to insult all the other providers who screen differently. You are making serious judgments about them without even knowing who they are.
This one has been around since 2000...
"Hookers and Escorts are two different professions...."
The fact that she's been around since 2000 shows that she can find gentlemen who are willing to give her that info. I have no problem with anyone doing that as long as they don't feel pressured to do so.
But you are assuming that just because she says she screens, she really does..
Also reading her posts, its quite clear that despite of being around since 2000, she hasn't learned a damn thing...
I have fun, try to make sure I see nice people - make sure this is not a drudgery. Repeat clients all theses years too. Plus I currently am at my own personal best! If your trying to diss my age (-: go ahead. I am old and skinny and super white,....but apparently many people find that attractive. But truly , beauty comes from within.. and I think most people like that I can see their beauty and what they see is really their own reflection thru my eyes. ! (-: sappy , but true. Good luck and happy huntingto all the decent sweet men out there. Ladies too.
Just saying that you haven't learned a damn thing about business.. And in this case being around since 1998 is not a positive thing. That makes my argument stronger and your's worse.
At this point you should have figured out there is no difference between hooker and escorts. One is just a raw term and other more polished for the PC crowd.
Get real girl.. Use your experience to contribute something more positive to the boards...
Fair enough.. I don't know how everyone screens.
I do know many that seem to use the method of asking other escorts, women they do not know / have never met if so and so guy is OK. Which I find to be a method with numerous fatal flaws as well as being indiscrete, impersonal.
Also some men THINK they are anonymous when they have given enough info to be verified.
2 cases in point. A fellow told me his first name and went on and on about being a successful attorney in a highly specializedbranch of the law. one google search and a minute later up pops his website with his smiling face on it.
A fellow told me his first name (unusual as he was from India) and his home address as he wanted outcall to his home. (He owned) address in Dallas appraisal district site, full lgal name plus prperty info, when purchased etc.
I arrived,, he was super sweet, totally house proud,, very communicative and open. I also saw in a later post how he had seen me 'without being verified. bragging. ha ha isn't that cute
The attorney I met 4 a coffe and he was a dick who had some nasty things to say about women including his wife.. so I met him but not for an apptment.
The house guy.. I knew his name and felt safe enough from our convo to arrive at his house to see how I felt about him. It was a weekend afternoon. I could have left if I didn't/ like him. Buying a house is rarely done with a false identity, right? I felt comfortable.. I think at some point after I arrived I asked his last and he told me. I probably told him my full name. Many of my clients know my name and have been to my home. Not a huge deal.
Don't assume every John is that dumb. Also don't assume that because you have their legal name crook won't try to take advantage of you.. Also don't assume that because he doesn't give you real name, he is a bad guy. The fact that he wanted outcall to his home tells me that he is not the smartest of the guys.
Providers accounts get hacked all the time. providers make dumb mistakes by sending mass emails using Bcc:. It happens so god damn frequently that I simply do not trust the level of YOUR competence. (Not you in particular, just providers in general)
I'm a very confident man but I'm also confident that some providers are too careless in safe guarding our info. Sometimes it's not the providers fault either. I understand that we are only human but my personal information will stay private because it's none of an escorts fucking business.
You are not the FBI or my employer. All you need to know is that I'm a safe guy and that I'm not LE. That's It! How much of my personal information do you really need.
However, I'm pretty confident if you give me YOUR real name, address, employment history, and personal number, I can give you my real info too. 
Until then, you will know me only by my first name, hobby number, and hobby email.
"Hookers and escorts are two separate professions"
Good thing you're otherwise someone I wouldn't see. There was a well known BSC lady in Chicago but every hobbyist at least knew she would rock our world. You lady are no xxxxx. Lol.
I think that some of these folks equate a flop on Harry Hines with an evening at the Mansion on TC.
There are lots of ways to get a certain level of confidence before anyone makes the plunge. It's one thing to play in your local sandbox and rack up a string of direct references from known, well established ladies.
TER is fine for that with white listing, but I seriously doubt for a moment there isn't some back channel communications going on.
Just for a moment, let's say I decide to go visit friends and family back home and would be really interested in meeting Alea. Well, I haven't lived in Dallas for 20 years. We don't share any mutual acquaintances. For starters, she's getting my Date Check info and I fully expect that she'll be getting full disclosure well before I cross 635.
She is justified in screening me anyway she feels comfortable. Just as well as I have done my research as well. Personally, I'd prefer knowing that someone has done their homework to insure their safety since they take this seriously. Besides, if she starts asking things like the 4 digits on AMEX, what brokerage firm I like, last 8 of the VIN, I can always decline and say good bye and move on. Easy.
BP has lots of little fishies that don't care to know who you are or want to screen.
Bottom line is if you don't like her rules, don't play with her. How hard can that be
to the providers that I have prescreened and requested a date with. A level of trust has to go both ways. She's potentially risking her life. I just got the impression from the thread that there are guys out there not using their real name, and wonder how they pass screening. Maybe they are seeing lower tier ladies who just want the money and don't screen.
I agree that a lady has the right to screen you under your own name and don't object despite the potential downside. Just choose the ladies that you ask to screen you carefully.
Most providers require references and a few of them. They also have to be legit, meaning not some random fly by night girl who does not screen that well herself, and just throws up an ad on backpage. I only required personal info. in my home town, and at the end of my provider career, but when I toured, it was not necessary provided I approved the guy's references.
If she did not have a pro website... not the free shit, pass. If she did not have at least six months of a history of reviews on TER, pass. If she was known for BBFS, Stripper Slide, and lack of screening, pass. For others, not so strict but that's how I did things, and in six years never caught an STD, was never physically assaulted, or arrested.
-- Modified on 2/19/2014 2:34:57 PM