I'm considering the possibility of offering a favorite provider a SB/SD relationship as a live-in.  For the relatively short amount of time I've known her we've clicked extremely well -- I really like her a lot.  I don't know yet if she would be interested but there are some aspects about her current living situation that make me think she just might consider it.  Anyway, I'd like to bring up the subject when I see her next time.  Since this would be new territory for me the thought of a short term "trial run" is appealing --basically "test the waters" with the understanding that either one of us could terminate the relationship at any time if it isn't working out.  I'm just curious about other's experiences with this type of arrangement and possible advice.

Unless your curiosity about this is such that you just have to know if you two can live under the same roof, then don't do it lest you lose this gal forever.

 
Living with a person is one of the most difficult things in life, as any divorce lawyer will tell you.

 
Hell, I liked one provider so much that I married her, but we still live 1,500 miles apart.

A live-in escort as a sugar baby?  

Inquiring minds would like to know.

Difference between a SB and a prostitute, legally, is pay per sex. SB is legal. Prostitute is not.

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this statement alone makes me think you have incredibly unrealistic expectations.

How many overnights have you had with her? How much OTC time do you spend with her? Do you expect her to stop providing for other clients? If the answers are none, none, or yes to any of these questions keep this fantasy to yourself.

Don’t do it !!!
You have something good with someone u enjoy seeing a hour or so at a time, possibly a few times a month
Why ruin that?

I think I can speak to your question based on personal experience.  I just broke up with a provider who moved in with me a year ago - over the issue of her still working as an escort.  She claimed all along that she wanted out of the profession, but then she began to get the urge to get on the road again.  I wasn't about to tolerate that as I was providing room and board and entertainment for both of us.

So she started to make excuses for having to go back to CA to pack up her belongings.  All the while she was back into escorting.  Very nasty split so I would recommend keep it as a client/provider relationship - don't try and make it something more than that!  Just one man's opinion.

If you are really determined to do this, try splitting this into 2 phases.  
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First - propose the SD/SB arrangement.  Spend time with her socially, buy her dinner, take her shopping, and bang hard and often for some amount of "sugar".  Let that go on for a while (3-6 months or more).  
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Then, do not even entertain the idea of her moving in with you until you know from repeated experience that you can go 2, 5, 10 and even 30 days together 24x7.  The risks are huge to both of you.  
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From your perspective, she could be totally BSC (bat shit crazy) and end up robbing you, destroying your possessions and home, and even injuring/killing you!  You just can't know the risks from a few one- or two-hour fuck sessions.  
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From her perspective it's the same risks. Plus what happens if it breaks up after a few weeks? If she gives up her current apartment/home to move in with you, where will she live if she suddenly needs to move out (because you turn out to be BSC or just a total asshole)? Do you want to pay her rent on the old place until you are "sure", or pay huge amounts to move her out (movers, 1st/last + security deposit)?  
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No. Bad. Wrong!  
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Start by thinking about ALL the things that can go wrong. Not by dreaming about how cool it would be to have BJ's on demand (BJOD?) at home.

right now all you know is her hooker persona, you have no idea how she will be 24/7 and she knows just as little about you.

 

Try an overnight (or 30 of them) first, then a long weekend, then maybe a week long trip together. If you are still on speaking terms with her afterwards, then and only then should you even consider such a thing.

 
The closest experience I have with this was a hooker GF I had for quite some time, for close to a year we spent 5-6 nights a week together, (yes she was an active hooker and we saw each other "after work")  There was ZERO money involved she was truly my GF and NOT any kind of SD/SB. This worked out fine until her agency got busted and she moved in with me for a couple of weeks. By the end of the first week i was already feeling the walls closing in on me and I couldn't wait until she went "on tour" a week after that. That was a reality check for me and we broke up shortly thereafter as I knew I couldn't give her what she wanted, I just don't have it in me I suppose.

 
I know the two of you are totally different people, but I would still agree with the crowd here and say this sounds like a horrible, horrible idea.

What GaGa said....

I know.

The idea of a sugar baby relationship appealed to her but the logistics of a live-in arrangement weren't practical for either of us...her three year old daughter lives with her (at least when she's staying here in my area, her hometown).  I knew her daughter was in the picture but it wasn't entirely clear to me earlier with whom her daughter lives and when.   It's just as well...all of your "thumbs down" comments were on point and well taken.  That said, we did agree on a reduced rate relationship with the understanding I'd see her three or four times a month.  Thanks to all who commented!

Don't let the fact that you briefly entertained something incredibly dumb bother you, "thinking about" doing something dumb is a far cry from actually doing it. lol

 
It sounds like you are transitioning into something more like a SD/SB relationship which has much higher odds of success, and is a lot easier to get out of if either of you gets tired of the arrangement.

 
One last word of advice if this "type" of arrangement appeals to you for after this relationship runs it's course (and ALL relationships end eventually). While it's possible for a hooker/john relationship to transition into a SD/SB or even BF/GF relationship, having a hooker lower her rates still is usually a lot costlier than just finding a "non pro" on a site like Seeking Arrangements.  I know the hookers here hate the competition from the non pro's, but to give you an idea of the savings, it's not uncommon at all for Sugar Babies to agree to spending 12-24 hours a week with their SD's for only a few hundred bucks in "allowance" per week.

sounds like a good mix.  You both really could benefit and a good friendship is so hard to find.  I hurd a guy YES A GUY say one time, he asked him self a question,Do I love my partner? is it just sex, or just friends?  If she had sex with someone else would it be over?  
he said he loves the person she is and even if sex is not perfect every time they have it,he will always come to her for it and for the affection and touch she gives and he receives is real.  If she had sex with another person he still would love there relationship .  He said he would forever be for her and that was his personal decision.  
  I never seen that guy again we met at a aa meeting, but what a big impact.  So im sure he did not come to that conclusion over night lol time tells.  
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once with someone and it was VERY rewarding for both of us!!!  Personally I loved this relationship I had with him!!!! I received a generous monthly allowance and he his sexy sugar baby.... It lasted for quite a while until sadly someone from his family moved in ...  LOL