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PRS2005 1404 reads
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1 / 30

with something that was absolutely not contagious (think acid reflux or pneumonia), and you had an appointment scheduled, would you still go? Bear in mind that I haven't seen my ATF in nearly a year, and haven't had sex since August.  

I don't know that I could do much more than lie there and hold her, but at this point that might be fine.

JackDunphy 451 reads
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2 / 30

No, I pay to fuck them, not to hold them or for them to hold me.

Maybe ask mom for that type of service? I heard the milk and cookies are free. :)

Afro-desiac 295 reads
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3 / 30

Yes, reflux isn't but I don't know about pneumonia.  Anyway, why seek advice here on a medical matter. Bad idea.

bocabuster 19 Reviews 192 reads
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4 / 30

Why don't you ask her instead of asking us?
It's her body and her choice.

clairecavendish See my TER Reviews 233 reads
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5 / 30

It's stuff like colds and flu that we hate catching from clients. I got conjunctivitis once from a client I didn't know was recovering from it so my face swelled up and my eyes went all disgusting and I couldn't work for two weeks!! Not happy!

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 564 reads
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6 / 30

It's their time, and how they use it is up to them.  ;-)

Long ago, I had a regular who did overnights just to have someone to hold.   He was a very gentlemanly older widower.  

I've also had guys with severe ED who did little more than that.  

 
They're not the norm, of course, but they're out there.  And there's nothing wrong with that. :-)

Skyfyre 265 reads
posted
7 / 30

You can do the holding thingy then for a happy ending ask her to give you head til completion with swallow (LOL)

PRS2005 152 reads
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8 / 30
diablowc3 161 reads
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9 / 30

when i'm feel under the weather, i wouldn't see a provider.  if I gave them a whatever i had, they would not be too happy about it.  Remember this is their job, they need this to pay bills.  Imagine you going to work and someone next to you sneeze or cough, you know they are sick and they still came to work and next day you caught whatever they gave you, how would you feel??

PRS2005 141 reads
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10 / 30
cspatz 68 Reviews 236 reads
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11 / 30

The bacteria/virusus that cause it are. Cancel.

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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 188 reads
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12 / 30

Two completely different things! Some types of pneumonia are highly contagious. You were just throwing those out as examples in the OP, so we don't know what the real issue is, yet now you are replying to diablow like acid reflux IS the issue and we should all know that.
 In any case if it's not contagious I don't see a problem (but you should still let her know), and if it is contagious the date should be cancelled.  



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PRS2005 164 reads
posted
13 / 30

If it were contagious I would definitely cancel. I threw it pneumonia as an example because I didn't think it could be communicable.

bocabuster 19 Reviews 160 reads
posted
14 / 30

Hold on a second!
I gave this some thought.  
Acid reflux is negated by buying Gaviscon antacid over the counter.  
Or getting Zantac or a similar drug
Pneumonia is something altogether. You don't just get pneumonia, you contract it thru a virus or bacterial infection...both of those are upper respiratory and both highly contagious.

harborview 10 Reviews 168 reads
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15 / 30

Norovirus has been in the news lately & some bug is going around because I know several families with people out sick.  
I feel for you if you are horny but you'd not thnk much of yourself if you gave something to your Favorite lady...  and she wouldn't think much of you either.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 178 reads
posted
16 / 30

let alone flush money down the toilet on something you're not even going to enjoy

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 202 reads
posted
17 / 30

first, if it's not contagious then it's a matter of are you feeling well. if you're not feeling well whats the point of having sex?  sure you get your nut off but you're still not feeling well.  stay home and jerk off.

secondly, even if it's not contagious, how frakking fun do you think it is to be around a sick person?  let alone, be intimate with a sick person?

give the girl a break, stay home.

i cancel even if i get a cold sore.  no point in spreading anything, just to be sure.

Afro-desiac 146 reads
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18 / 30

I think he was simply using those two conditions as examples of things he thought were not communicable.

Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 158 reads
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19 / 30

I would be seeking TLC from a nurse. You can have your ATF visit you at your bedside to comfort you until you get better. Pneumonia can be a deadly thing if left treated.

impposter 49 Reviews 293 reads
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20 / 30

It was known for a long time that your family, friends and co-workers could do things that would give you ulcers, but not necessarily in a communicable way.  

Then they discovered Helicobacter pylori and it won the Nobel Prize (2005).
Posted By: PRS2005
with something that was absolutely not contagious (think acid reflux or pneumonia), and you had an appointment scheduled, would you still go? Bear in mind that I haven't seen my ATF in nearly a year, and haven't had sex since August.  
   
 I don't know that I could do much more than lie there and hold her, but at this point that might be fine.
As to the meeting, I've shown up with an upset stomach or otherwise not feeling my best (over exercised at the gym) and it's really not enjoyable for me or her.  If there is time to cancel without penalty, I would.  

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Afro-desiac 208 reads
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22 / 30

And if you have it on your lip and DATY it can end up in her coochie.

ad4saf8 10 Reviews 147 reads
posted
23 / 30

...that it only had you down for 2 weeks. Mine took 5 weeks to clear up.

Posted By: clairecavendish
It's stuff like colds and flu that we hate catching from clients. I got conjunctivitis once from a client I didn't know was recovering from it so my face swelled up and my eyes went all disgusting and I couldn't work for two weeks!! Not happy!

EroticRobbin 229 reads
posted
24 / 30

Besides being a provider, I have several other careers.  One being, 'Snuggle Session' where I am a professional cuddle therapist.  

There are many benefits to non-sexual cuddling, and if that's all you feel like doing, as long as you didn't have a contagious disease, or skin infection, I'd enjoy snuggling with you. ;)

NaomiGrey See my TER Reviews 164 reads
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25 / 30

I'll hold your ass with a hazmat suit on and one of those face masks the Korean girls wear at the airport hahahaha so sweet ;)

Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 239 reads
posted
26 / 30

other who wanted to hug for the whole time, others who just wanted someone to snuggle with and take a nap(I didn't sleep, can't with someone touching me).  It is not unusual at all.

Then there are long dates where the 1st 3-4hrs of a 5-6hr date is just conversation and a few drinks to set the mood.  Then it progresses like teens with long make out and eventually maybe a shot or 2.  

While they are not the norm as you state they are not totally rare either.  Most of my guests are not looking to jump into the sack the minute they walk in...

For the original poster...  If you feel like ass and are not going to enjoy your time with her then cancel, if she has a very strict cancellation fee where you would need to pay if you show or not then go and just see how things progress.  Maybe you can find something that will make you feel better at least for the time you are together.  Maybe still avoid kissing.  I try to do that when my allergies flair and I get a case of upper respiratory which is non-contagious because it is brought on by allergies not a cold.  

But if you can get out of it, do try.  If you feel miserable then she will feel it.  I have been there hun.  Had Gallbladder attacks a couple years ago and had t cancel more appts then I had in the rest of my years because of what I thought was extreme heart burn, it sucks for both when 1 or the other is not feeling it

GL hun, Sage

ScarlettYou See my TER Reviews 221 reads
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27 / 30

Although I agreed it is not the norm and typical but it does exist.  I had a very nice gentleman who booked a 1.5H time. He came in and sat down so quietly at the edge of the bed fully clothed and almost as if afraid to be disrespectful in any way. He insisted that all he wanted was to talk ! For 20 minutes, that's exactly what he did and got up while he still had one hour and 10 mins left...kindly excused himself and said how pleasant it was. For some reason, I sensed sadness.  I do not expect such normally but I couldn't help to think how SPECIAL he was ! That it lingers in my mind for days. He left a mark. An impression that I couldn't forget. That I would be glad to see him for no charge of my time at all  if I ever see him again. For some reasons, those who do not expect a lot of you or feels entitled to something end up making you want to give yourself  wholeheartedly.  

A very SPECIAL gentleman indeed. One of a kind !  

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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 158 reads
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Posted By: PRS2005
with something that was absolutely not contagious (think acid reflux or pneumonia), and you had an appointment scheduled, would you still go? Bear in mind that I haven't seen my ATF in nearly a year, and haven't had sex since August.  
   
 I don't know that I could do much more than lie there and hold her, but at this point that might be fine.

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 174 reads
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