"I love meeting men who enjoy talking about politics, current events, arts/theater etc for these are all topics that connect us and we can share our passions around".
Me too but, providers of this type are. I have found a few in my area though. Highly educated providers they are. We enjoy being with each other but that doesn't mean we are head over heels high-school romance.
Mature and self-confident people can carry on friendships and relationships at several different levels, can't they?
After Hobbying for about a year, and only posting about half out of that bunch I would definitely consider two maybe three ATF who I just really connect with. My question is do you Gals ever really connect with any of your clients that way or is it ALL just a roll play / fantasy. I'm not necessarily talking Girlfriend / BoyFriend kind of connection but one where you really wanted to spend more time just getting to know this person. I suppose it possible to have such a intense sexual bond that it makes you want that person more. My problem is I'm a bit of a Romantic and I do everything with intensity and passion and immerse myself into the fantasy which is what make Hobbying so fantastic! Afterward I usually have to slap myself back into reality but that's me. ...lol
Do you Gals every fantasize about your clients? If so, how do relate to them and how do separate Reality from Fantasy?
You can PM me if you don't want to share your response with the world....
Hi! Happy Saturday Morning! I love this question that you pose! As I am very selective about who I choose to spend time with and my dates involve us sitting down over lunch or dinner to get to know each other before we move onto sharing a "yummy private dessert" together, it is highly important for me to enjoy spending time with my "suitors". I love meeting men who enjoy talking about politics, current events, arts/theater etc for these are all topics that connect us and we can share our passions around. I believe that a lot of sexual arousal comes from communication between two people, and if I am sharing a really fun, passionate, seductive conversation with a suitor, it makes it that much hotter for us when we are intimate together. I am lucky that the majority of men that I share company with are worldly, articulate, well traveled and well read and that we find each other fascinating both inside the bedroom and in public too! xoxo Sitara Devi
I can't say I connect that deeply very often but yes it does happen; we are human after all. Being single I think helps in wanting a deeper connection. Most of my dates are multi hours so I do have the time to get to know someone a little deeper.
I think it would be awful to loose the ability to connect because the "job" made one blase of men in general.
"I love meeting men who enjoy talking about politics, current events, arts/theater etc for these are all topics that connect us and we can share our passions around".
Me too but, providers of this type are. I have found a few in my area though. Highly educated providers they are. We enjoy being with each other but that doesn't mean we are head over heels high-school romance.
Mature and self-confident people can carry on friendships and relationships at several different levels, can't they?
"My problem is I'm a bit of a Romantic and I do everything with intensity and passion and immerse myself into the fantasy which is what make Hobbying so fantastic!". Bullshit psycho babble along with :if you are optimistic and positive you can do anything you want.
If it is true, Colts looking for a QB half as good as Peyton, go see you optimism and positive whatever can meet the challenge.
Invented by psychologists and self-help gurus to steal your money so, they can rich.
It scares me sometimes, I'm afraid to ask that question, I don't want to hear that I'm just another client, or want them to lie to save my feelings, sometimes when I see them flirt on the boards, it makes me jealous, not with all of them, just a few. Then just as you said, I have to slap myself back into reality. I just started a year ago as well, is this a newbie phase? I'm older as well, I thought it was male menopause. I'd like to know if other hobbyists suffer from this as well. How do you deal with it?
And you can read about it over and over right here on TER...just do a search and you will read all about your feelings on this, and read a bunch of really good recommendations to make sure it doesn't ruin your hobbying experiences.
This is a fantasy world...nothing more. As long as you always remember that fact, all will be well.
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