TER General Board
Congrat
bbfs4ever
posted
1 / 33
GaGambler
posted
2 / 33
Alan_Nimm
posted
4 / 33
bbfs4ever
posted
5 / 33
followme
posted
9 / 33
Skyfyre
posted
12 / 33
bbfs4ever
posted
13 / 33
bbfs4ever
posted
14 / 33
ROGM
posted
16 / 33
bbfs4ever
posted
17 / 33
followme
posted
18 / 33
GaGambler
posted
20 / 33
intique
posted
22 / 33
Psychoanalysis: late 20s, chronic liar, locked in a marriage with kid(s) and/or a dead end job, bipolar, hates women (especially hookers), his family, and parents. Bullseye? He is the only one who knows for sure. Have a nice weekend everyone 
Hookers yadda yadda, gifts, yadda yadda. My Love, did you just answer that trollestion?
More importantly...Did I just make up a new word? What up GaGambler Good to see you still here.
More importantly...Did I just make up a new word? What up GaGambler
Good to see you still here. and you still went ahead and turned your perfectly good hooker/john relationship into something more?
I think you should consult CosmicSuckUp and Gizzy before going any further down this road. I hear Gizzy left that wonderful guy CSU for some loser named Ragnar, from what I hear he offered her more money and since Ragnar suffers from serious ED she not only doesn't have to fuck him, but she is free to resume her hooker career as long as his gets the dubious privilege of calling her "His Giselle"
Do you really want to run the risk of becoming someguy that pathetic?
I think you should consult CosmicSuckUp and Gizzy before going any further down this road. I hear Gizzy left that wonderful guy CSU for some loser named Ragnar, from what I hear he offered her more money and since Ragnar suffers from serious ED she not only doesn't have to fuck him, but she is free to resume her hooker career as long as his gets the dubious privilege of calling her "His Giselle"
Do you really want to run the risk of becoming someguy that pathetic?
skarphedin
posted
24 / 33
GaGambler
posted
26 / 33
YI812
posted
27 / 33
Well, what girlfriend would be complete without the wish list of useless crap that you can buy her? Doesn't mean you have to fall in to that trap. No one's making you do it. But if it helps you to buy in to the illusion more, then it's there for you.
Doesn't mean you have to fall in to that trap. No one's making you do it. But if it helps you to buy in to the illusion more, then it's there for you.
I have a gifts suggestion page because clients requested it, and I know I'm not alone in that. I think that for some people gift giving to service providers at the winter holidays and maybe birthdays is customary; I give my hairdresser and my trainer gifts equivalent to the cost of an appointment with them during those times.
But beyond that, gift giving enhances the feel of the GFE for some men. It might make things feel more like a "real" relationship (although I have to say, I have yet to meet a man in "real" life who is as generous as my clients), it might scratch their provider/nurturer itch or they might be a thoughtful guy whose generosity is taken for granted at home and he wants to share it with someone who will be appreciative of him.
One of the biggest mistakes I see younger providers make is thinking that gifts from a client is a statement about her value. It isn't about us at all, other than we lucked out and a generous man chose us to spend his time with and part of what makes an experience good for him is giving gifts. Which isn't to say that it isn't appreciated. But to get wrapped up in the idea that it means you're extra special as opposed to it meaning that the client is generous/kind and giving is meaningful to his experience is a dangerous way of thinking.
So the lists are less "gimme gimme gimme" and more a tool for those who want it.
I think that a "wish list" page is something that is a benefit to the client. We exchange money for the ladies' time and attention. Let's face it we, the client, get the better end of the dealBut beyond that, gift giving enhances the feel of the GFE for some men. It might make things feel more like a "real" relationship (although I have to say, I have yet to meet a man in "real" life who is as generous as my clients), it might scratch their provider/nurturer itch or they might be a thoughtful guy whose generosity is taken for granted at home and he wants to share it with someone who will be appreciative of him.
One of the biggest mistakes I see younger providers make is thinking that gifts from a client is a statement about her value. It isn't about us at all, other than we lucked out and a generous man chose us to spend his time with and part of what makes an experience good for him is giving gifts. Which isn't to say that it isn't appreciated. But to get wrapped up in the idea that it means you're extra special as opposed to it meaning that the client is generous/kind and giving is meaningful to his experience is a dangerous way of thinking.
So the lists are less "gimme gimme gimme" and more a tool for those who want it.
. If we didn't, would we hobby? In any event, let's say that our relationship with the provider, whether it be one hour or if it has gone on for years, is mutually beneficial. I regularly give a gift to others, usually at Holiday time, with whom I have a mutually beneficial relationship...Mail carrier, barber, housekeeper, etc. Why wouldn't I do the same with someone who treats me as well as my favorite providers do? The thing that would bother me would be getting a gift for a lady that she didn't like (ex. Wrong brand of perfume) or couldn't enjoy (ex. Allergic to chocolate). Thus, the wish list helps to avoid this and, thus, benefits me
H ha! On second thought, my name isn't GAGambler, so I would be relegated to most ladies' "friend zone" most likely. That's also what happens to nice guys, unfortunately (I didn't make that rule up).
There could be a market for it. Or not. one can always dream.
londonheather
posted
33 / 33