A friend of mine was asking me this question, so I thought I would run it by you all. Do providers have a problem seeing someone that has a physical disability?.  My friend is a great guy but he has a bum leg, so he walks with a limp. I know from seeing him in shorts that one of his legs is quite a bit smaller than the other.  I'd never really thought about it and couldn't see any earlier posts about it.  Let me know what you think.

I have seen hobbyists with physical disabilities.  Being born with a birth defects makes me just that much more aware of how others can be so cruel and callous.
I believe that if you treat others as you wish to be treated life will be fine.

I've seen lots of gents with various disabilities.  Ranging from lost limbs to genital issues.

And I've found every one to be wonderfull gentle, kind and loving people. So I can't imagine it making a bit of difference to a quality girl.

Sure there are probably girls who are like "Ick..." but then there are girls who won't date black men, or young men, or old men...  so I just say it's their loss.

For the same reason I don't think most disabilities are a big issue with couples in "real life" relationships.  They either like/ love one another or they don't.

IMHO, hugs,
TS Jamie

Then we can both give each other positive feedback and energy. Honey! I was in the military and have been to Hell and back. Not too many things shock me -- least a disability.

Hugs,
Ciara

I have been hobbying for over ten years and seen over 40 providers, i can honestly say that my disability has not been an issue. I have mild cerebal palsey ( and walk slow )  almost every provider that i have seen has treated me great.

Thanks To All The Providers I Have Seen

As the others have said, it shouldn't be a problem.  This question's been asked b4, and someone with a disability wrote a review detailing that a provider picked him up out of his wheelchair and carried him up a flight of stairs.  Now THAT'S service!

I have seen several hobbiests with disabilities.  One lost both legs in Nam.  Another who lost an arm.  I think that the gent should be upfront and honest in advance and leave it to the provider to decide...

Just my .02 cents..

"I'd never really thought about it"
Because we treat all clients with same passion heart and quality service so its not a problem at all, at least to me and to those who think the same way.
Recently a gent was about to make date with me but he had accidence so he had to rest for 2 months, I just tried to delight his cant-walk-days by emails since its a part of GEF service I provide to the real clients.
Happy hunting to all gentlemen!
Kitty

The comments on this thread are refreshing to hear. Glad there are still some good people in the world

....that you would be visiting the Washington DC area anytime soon?  I really like your posts, and would love to meet you.

Thank you Andre, I wish I could but I hope I can visit USA next year. This year I may take tour to Europe. catch you somewhere than USA? renewing visa is quite strict now-out of my control. ;-(

Kitty,

I may be going to Europe this year, but probably unlikely that I will be in any position for "extr-curricular activities" while I am there.  Here's hoping you do get the chance to visit the USA next year.

Cheers

depends on the provider. a professional will treat you good no matter what your physical situation.

I think the key to things working well is to manage expectations by communicating.  When I am setting up a time with a lady I try to tell her what I look like (over weight) and send her a photo so that she knows what she is getting into.
 I think some of the social missteps and upsets come from someone just not knowing what to expect when something is out of the norm.
 I do know that you can't legislate morality and values and there will be some people who can't handle out of the norm aspects of people. I have seen web sites where a provider say she will not see anyone with a waist size larger than 36 and I have seen Hobbyists complain about skin blemishes, stretch marks.
 The best solution I have found is to politly, and hopefully with humor, communicate before hand.
Good luck.
B