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escalade1964 65 Reviews 2932 reads
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1 / 58

Take a bit of the GFE away?

Many are nice, I just prefer to have some sort of correspondence prior to our date.

I request an appt. today for next week, type out a bit about myself, ask for  
incall, date, time, duration etc.....

Only to get a cold response from her assistant:
"Incall area has not been determined."

I've seem to have Lost that "Loving Feeling"

Would you rather communicate with her or book thru an assistant?

Your thoughts if any?

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1363 reads
posted
2 / 58

The assistant takes care of all the awkward discussion about money, scheduling between other guys, etc. She takes that entire piece out of the equation when it comes to you and her. All you have to do is plop the donation down somewhere and get on with your date as if that part never happened.

Between you and her, she gets ready, you show up... and BAM, CHAZAM you have a great time!

:D

LunaNYC See my TER Reviews 1252 reads
posted
3 / 58

If you feel it's cold and not GFE enough for you to be contacted by a booker than the actual girl then why not just cancel, and look for the girls who book by themselves? It's not that hard :)

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1469 reads
posted
4 / 58

I'd rather deal with the girl directly...

Now, I'm just not going to turn down a great gal because she has an assistant, but it takes away the fun out of GFE - at least for me.  I like to flirt with the girl a little bit.. All of this with complete understanding that this is a temporary arrangement. So no delusions there..

What's worse is dealing with male booker...It just makes me wonder if Dungy might be on the other end...Yuck....

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1400 reads
posted
6 / 58

But if I see opportunity to flirt, (I can see all email threads,) I chime in and mess with them a bit. :) Builds anticipation.

I totally get what you're saying... both of you. :)

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1590 reads
posted
7 / 58

But I need to know when its you and when its her..
 
A lot of times when we are think we are dealing with the girl, it is sometimes the booker. And that's the worst.  How do we know? When we bring up something during the session that was said over the email or text, the girl is clueless.. LOL

LunaNYC See my TER Reviews 1262 reads
posted
8 / 58

Lol, I am. I've just been ignoring it for the past month or so.

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 1314 reads
posted
9 / 58

I do have an assistant due to my graduate school obligations, she is just warm, easy to talk to and wonderful overall because she genuinely enjoys talking to people . I do see where others are probably a bit "cold" maybe because of lack of experience or not enjoying their job period. I find that it is useful to have her and then I will also establish phone contact and or/reply to all my email with my potential date in order to go "full circle". I guess if a good and efficient system is in place, the "assistant" is just a facilitator of the process and not an obstacle.

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 1466 reads
posted
10 / 58

While I don't plan on ever using an assistant or booker, IF I ever did, my assistant and I would use different emails. Email my email to chat/flirt/make outfit requests, etc. Use her (would never hire a male) email to screen, set date, ask questions pertaining to locale,etc.  

I have to be a part of the communication process, and definitely would want you to know the flirtyness is seen only by me. So once you are screened, my assistant would have you email me, and then I know your safe and we can "meet" prior to our date.  

But once again, this isn't how I do things, I'm only speaking hypothetically.

tg_baby 1719 reads
posted
11 / 58

I do my own emails.  

However, some assistants/agency madams have excellent telephone skills, and guys love them. Some guys don't care who they talk to, so long as the appointment is easy to schedule and the voice on the other end of the telephone is polite and pleasant.

I could never get away with that. First of all, my writing, both in my ads and my emails, is one of the stronger aspects of my presentation. In terms of marketing, a warm, engaging email is second only to flattering photos... Plus, the guys I see WANT to talk to ME. I've had some very interesting conversations with men leading up to the date, and it really helps in building anticipation. These are mostly longer dates, btw.  

I'm also very good at getting a sense of a man through his written word. Strangely enough, I do NOT have that sixth sense when it comes to phone conversations (probably because I'm not a phone person and am distracted by nervousness).  



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inicky46 61 Reviews 1440 reads
posted
12 / 58

This time I'm too lazy to search for it.  But really?  Can you possibly be that comatose?

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1309 reads
posted
13 / 58

I do not cancel.

You can hit the "ignore" button below if you really want to.

Your "post" about ignoring me was hurtful and mean. I hope you feel good for "posting" it.

It certainly did not make me feel good.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1426 reads
posted
14 / 58

... stating it is the assistant or the 'girlfriend'. That's how I feel it should work, and is how it works with me. If there is any important information I may have missed, she tells me.

I've gotten into some fun back and forth emails with men. She is hands off in the extracurricular (not detailed) talk. :

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1721 reads
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15 / 58
1192967 45 Reviews 1330 reads
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16 / 58
ihateuga 1289 reads
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17 / 58
Dr Who revived 1227 reads
posted
18 / 58

Quite often hookers..or recently retired hookers.

I've had lots of fun playing around with an assistant or two over the years.  Most get how this game is played and what their role is as the "assistant".

At least here in ChiTown many of the assistants are fairly well known...may still have a TER page up and are good at this gig.

Honestly I haven't found that initial correspondence to be a problem for me...but then I also know the game we're all playing  LOL

If I want a pen pal...well, let's just say there's no shortage of those either.  And those who go that route with me...it's a blast as well.  But I guess there's always a party pooper (not a popper...but those can be fun too) as well...sorry Taylor  LOL
Posted By: escalade1964
Take a bit of the GFE away?  
   
 Many are nice, I just prefer to have some sort of correspondence prior to our date.  
   
 I request an appt. today for next week, type out a bit about myself, ask for  
 incall, date, time, duration etc.....  
   
 Only to get a cold response from her assistant:  
 "Incall area has not been determined."  
   
 I've seem to have Lost that "Loving Feeling"  
   
 Would you rather communicate with her or book thru an assistant?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

cspatz 68 Reviews 1549 reads
posted
19 / 58

.. You want to get off on an email confirmation. Who are you ... Anthony Weiner.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1349 reads
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20 / 58
lungman 10 Reviews 1450 reads
posted
21 / 58

I get on here about being Angel's assistant for a while........believe me ( and she will tell you herself )....it's too much for one person to keep up with. ( emails, screening, etc, etc. )
I'm not saying she would be a bad date without the help, but I do know, she had more time to get ready for the date when I helped. She gave you that "LOVING FEELING" when you got there.
When she did her own appointments, she would be trying to get ready for a date and guys would be calling, texting, emailing, etc right up until date time......."madness".......how the hell did she have time to get her pretty ass ready to see you guys.
So CurlyQ, CPA, Inicky....go fuck yourselves. You think you have the inside scoop on me....NOT!!  
Just a bunch of jealous old fucks.

tg_baby 1390 reads
posted
22 / 58

Some guys look for more than a list of acronyms...they look for someone who will be good company for a few hours or more. They really don't want to get stuck talking to a girl about folks in the tabloids for 4 hours straight.  

It must be very reassuring to find the person on the other end happy to reply in a friendly and intelligent manner...and conversant in matters beyond, '2moro go 2 the sbux on 78th and lex nd txt me for the apt number.' It's reassuring for me, too, since the guys usually come across as quite intelligent and charming. They tend to be the dates I genuinely look forward to.  

There's a clear difference between that and the 'pen pal' mentality.  

Different strokes for different folks.

Dr Who revived 1502 reads
posted
23 / 58

That is exactly why you are dangerous.

Jealous of you...when you win the $ 620M Powerball ask me again.  Until then however...pity is a better adjective.
Posted By: lungman
I get on here about being Angel's assistant for a while........believe me ( and she will tell you herself )....it's too much for one person to keep up with. ( emails, screening, etc, etc. )  
 I'm not saying she would be a bad date without the help, but I do know, she had more time to get ready for the date when I helped. She gave you that "LOVING FEELING" when you got there.  
 When she did her own appointments, she would be trying to get ready for a date and guys would be calling, texting, emailing, etc right up until date time......."madness".......how the hell did she have time to get her pretty ass ready to see you guys.  
 So CurlyQ, CPA, Inicky....go fuck yourselves. You think you have the inside scoop on me....NOT!!  
 Just a bunch of jealous old fucks.

cspatz 68 Reviews 1458 reads
posted
24 / 58

I am turned on that you used the term specious! Nothing like a good vocabulary.

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lungman 10 Reviews 1699 reads
posted
25 / 58

Despite what you might think...ASSWIPE, she does NOT want to be FLIRTING with you or any other client.
She doesn't have the time, her time is valuable.
Set up the date, show up on time ( not early ) with a clean ass, pay your bennies, fuck, then leave....that's what she really wants

Dr Who revived 1281 reads
posted
26 / 58

This is eye opening  LOL

So now you really do know that they aren't interested in you.

Maybe you'll stop your shill posts here?
Posted By: lungman
Despite what you might think...ASSWIPE, she does NOT want to be FLIRTING with you or any other client.  
 She doesn't have the time, her time is valuable.  
 Set up the date, show up on time ( not early ) with a clean ass, pay your bennies, fuck, then leave....that's what she really wants.  
 

russbbj 89 Reviews 1251 reads
posted
28 / 58

I know exactly what this arrangement is and I'm pleased that someone is handling the scheduling. To me, a good provider is one that will greet me appropriately and after I do my part (drop the donation where I've been asked to) she turns on GFE mode. I prefer not to have to deal with awkward moments or miscommunication and get to GFE mode as soon as possible. So I prefer an assistant or an agency. But I am aware that my opinions and view points are not shared by everyone, and I respect that.

cspatz 68 Reviews 1250 reads
posted
29 / 58

And in a word or two you were a psycho and criminal not an enabler of her business.  

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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1399 reads
posted
30 / 58

In my case, a "nice" assistant might help me lol. I told at least 20 time wasting fktards to "go jack off" just last week. Whatcha think?

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1413 reads
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31 / 58

Hey...I know that dude! He was on my facebook lol.

lungman 10 Reviews 1692 reads
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32 / 58

I don't give a shit about what you read.....have you spoke with her lately??
Don't believe everything you read.
The best you can hope for, is that a lady finds someone to assist her, that keeps your privacy....PRIVATE!!

lungman 10 Reviews 1351 reads
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33 / 58

Come on CurlyQ, ya suck ass.....at least post your own pics and quit borrowing from Nikkipoopoopoo.

cspatz 68 Reviews 1616 reads
posted
34 / 58

I actually saw Weiner and Huma out for a stroll with the baby. They live in the neighborhood I work in. She is fucking HOT! He is fucking NUTS!

inicky46 61 Reviews 1568 reads
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35 / 58

And he continues to try re-writing history.  First of all he's blatantly lying again.  His stint as angel's assistant lasted about two weeks before his  annoying behavior got him fired by her.  Not nearly long enough for him to know anything about her.  And does he think by gratuitously bringing up the whole sad mess again for no good reason he'll convince anyone?  Not a chance.
All he has done is, once again, bring more abuse down on his pathetic, lying self.  I had been mostly ignoring him today but he clearly is a sad, sick fuck who must enjoy being scourged.  There is no hope for him.  And he doesn't even have the common sense to just go away

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1633 reads
posted
36 / 58

Some day but right now I am eating a pint of Ben and Jerry's (Crying out loud)

cashorcredit 1359 reads
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37 / 58
escalade1964 65 Reviews 1364 reads
posted
38 / 58

I would feel much better being called a f...tard from you rather than your assistant. imo
Just sayin

actually a little HOT. lol

lungman 10 Reviews 1465 reads
posted
39 / 58

"and there ya have it"  
But CurlyQ would rather flirt.
Good luck finding someone..."nice" around here.
I'm out, cause i'm a "stalker and dangerous"....Boo!!

lungman 10 Reviews 1501 reads
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40 / 58

Well then post something that HASN'T been discussed before....ya worthless piece of shit!!

inicky46 61 Reviews 1374 reads
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41 / 58
inicky46 61 Reviews 1452 reads
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42 / 58

Not a chance, Curly.  No provider would ever hire him now.  Hell, no reputable provider will even see him now.  He is a complete pariah.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1372 reads
posted
43 / 58

Your insults are so gameless and pathetic you don't even deserve a new insult, little girl

lungman 10 Reviews 1396 reads
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44 / 58

Nikkipoopoopoo......I could be screening your sorry ass and you would never know it.
Just be thankful i'm a "nice" guy and i'm a stickler for another person's privacy.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1209 reads
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45 / 58

A demented tool like you would never be hired as a screener by any woman I would see.  Also, keep in mind I was a screener for a very well known provider.  And for much longer than your two-week train wreck with Angel.  You aren't fooling anyone with your lies.  Except, perhaps, yourself.

Back_In_Black 1312 reads
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46 / 58

Let it go . Start new . Tomorrow is a new day , your posts are better . Don't tell people to change their opinions . Show them that perhaps you have changed ? Actions speak louder than words , food for thought. And no I'm not fucking Chinese , just smart !

Back_In_Black 1514 reads
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47 / 58

Okay that was funny ! No it was hysterical. Love the pics , the animation brings it to another dimension and he does seem to be in a world far far away , the Jesus comparison , that was interesting .

inicky46 61 Reviews 1419 reads
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49 / 58

His posts "are better?"  Perhaps you didn't catch his "Burden of the Cross" post in the thread just below this.  The Dungbeetle is wackier than ever.

lungman 10 Reviews 1560 reads
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50 / 58

Does the Cross offend you?
Jesus was a REAL man.

Posted By: inicky46
His posts "are better?"  Perhaps you didn't catch his "Burden of the Cross" post in the thread just below this.  The Dungbeetle is wackier than ever.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1158 reads
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51 / 58

Why?  Because Jesus is simply a primitive fairy tale along with the rest of the bible, the Koran and every other "holy" book.  
You, on the other hand, while quite minor league, are a nut job, a stalker and an outed serial liar.  Get it now?
Oh, and.....remember this one

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1574 reads
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52 / 58

Seriously, if any ladies out there ever want to know how many time wasting dumb asses view their sites and never book, just password protect it! Fkin idiots! If you're not willing to get screened, you are NOT booking an appt. thus have no fkin reason to see my website!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1469 reads
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53 / 58

That is the very reason WHY so many have an assistant. We don't want to deal with bullshit either. My auto response usually shuts them up though. Even though I obviously have the time, I refuse to go back and forth with time wasting idiots who just want to jack off to photos vs. booking an appt. Password protecting my site, was the best decision I ever made because it showed me how many guys are just full of shit. Do I care? Nope...not really seeing anyone new for the next month, but it sure is funny seeing how silent they get when I ask for verification before granting them access.

cashorcredit 1424 reads
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54 / 58

To weed out the time wasters and the jag offs.

For me it's just too much of a hassle.. I had an appointment last year with a high end provider in my area.. after waiting a week with anticipation, the assistant emails me an hour before the appointment telling me some lame shit.. which she could've told me the day before.. screwing up my appointment.

I get a pm from a well known hobbyist a week ago come to find out we have something in common.. she wasted his time as well. That bad experience has ruined me from assistants.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1238 reads
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55 / 58

Well, she was just a dumb ass and the provider could have been the one to contact you. IMO, the ONLY time you should deal with an assistant is BEFORE you are verified. After that point, you should be given the provider's direct contact email/number to speak with her. This is how I have always done it for my agency. All I do is screen the guy, and they do the rest.

cashorcredit 1247 reads
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56 / 58

I assume because there's more accountability, I've always had good success dealing with agencies!

And you're correct once the assistant has verified the client.. he should be able to have direct contact with the provider.. maybe you could school or mentor the assistants in Atlanta lol

Back_In_Black 1340 reads
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57 / 58

What u need ? A retreat , on a mountain , far away , like the place in hangover part 2 ? No talking , no women , be at peace with yourself ? Just a thought . And you'll learn karate , so you can defend yourself when angel kicks your ass !  

Posted By: lungman
Does the Cross offend you?  
 Jesus was a REAL man.  
   
Posted By: inicky46
His posts "are better?"  Perhaps you didn't catch his "Burden of the Cross" post in the thread just below this.  The Dungbeetle is wackier than ever.

wrthurwhile 12 Reviews 1852 reads
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58 / 58

I like a few back and forth messages with a lady before we meet.  Confirms that she has a real personality, and it helps to rev up the anticipation, which, in my mind, is as important as the destination. If the assistant's role doesn't inhibit this, then it's fine with me.

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