The last couple of times I've seen ladies at their incalls (hotels, condos used by numerous providers), they've mentioned that we also could have met at their homes.

I was a first time client each time and the first time that this subject was brought up was after the session had started. Why would these ladies say that we could have met at their house? Is it to make me feel more comfortable? Is it just something to say?

... maybe it's possible that those ladies were comfortable with you to mention something like that.

Yea, that has happened to me before and yes... in future visits, I have gone to their residences only AFTER they made the suggestion.

Serpius

She wants to give you illusion of being your girlfriend. That's what the whole GFE thing is based around. An experience like a girlfriend.

In reality meeting someone at their home is very risky. It always spooks the neighbors when guy after guy keeps going to the same house. I have gone to several residences in the past,  but really prefer hotel.

So if she is just saying it, its more likely that she is trying to create the girl friend experience. If she is actually having people come over, well... too risky...

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Have you been seeing ladies from the same agency or perhaps some group of girls who share a residence? Not sure where you hobby but in 25 years of seeing all sorts of sex workers I've yet to have one invite me to her home rather than her in call. Seems odd...

sees them at home for next meetings.

This way she minimizes expenses of getting incall for new appointments.

But it does seem as the only reasonable explanation.

While not been at the rodeo for that long, I have never experienced it myself in last 10 yrs unless the girl actually provided off her residence

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"omg you are so SPECIAL i just gotta bring you home"

I honestly prefer a gal to have her own place to play at.

Others are concerned about traffic.

Oh well...something for everyone  

Not saying that every stalker is a result of girl letting him in his house, but why raise your odds...

Just sayin'

maybe she wants you to meet her SO and kids since you are so sweet..little mitten..

Didn't he say that he loves firing people and that 47% of the county (nearly 150 million people) should go fuck themselves...

Also that constant bragging about what he and his wife drive?

Now is that sweet now....?

Of course...hookers never lie  

They have the Spaghetti Monster living in their basement...once they have seduced you to their abode, they will sacrifice you to him like the Incan Gods of old.

Seriously...Why the hell do you think? They are trying to make you feel special so you will show up for a return visit. I'm guessing your envelope had the correct amount in it.

WHAT...I'M NOT SPECIAL

Seems some gals will use their residence...but only if the time works.

You know...kids in school..SO off at work.

Roommate is otherwise occupied.

Or maybe...just maybe because that johnnie boy is so special  LOL

Does she have her gal pal help?

Spaghetti monster...indeed  

Back when I first started, I was seeing one who only did car dates - oral only. After a few times, she told me that we could just meet at her place. She lived in a very chill apartment community, and the sessions were much better even though still just head. Why? Because it was safer, way more comfortable, and we could get naked.

FF>> a few years and a lot more experience later, and I've seen at least five working girls at their actual homes. Sometimes because they didn't want to spring for an incall spot, didn't want to go out and were taking it easy, or whatever. I always felt safer, parking was easier, and they didn't care about the clock as much. Most of the time, I expected that they weren't really working that day, and this usually meant I was their only date that day. Cool!

It takes a certain amount of trust and comfort in both parties, but it has been better in my experience so far. When a girl feels safe and comfortable, the only thing to worry about is having/giving a good time. That's how it should be anyway!

If they ever filmed me without my permission, I only ask now that they send me a copy and hopefully used flattering angles.

I was just pointing out that someone with less going on than an attached provider with kids would invite a client over to her house. Besides, you can tell if people have kids, roommates, etc by just, you know, looking at the place and what kind of furniture there is. A lady living in an 800 sq ft condo with 1 bedroom probably doesn't have kids at home. I've also found that providers like talking about their kids.

Gosh, you guys like making inferences. Thanks for the help. I'm out.

I assume one reason would be to avoid the hotel fee a provider has to pay when taking in-calls at a hotel.  I have often seen providers who provide in-call at their apartments, and I assume they do so to save $$.

Do you resale think anyone really know the answer to someone else’s offer? Were you meeting them at Motel 6?

Until she has gotten to know you.  Think about it.  She is now telling you where she lives and taking on risk because you could be completely insane or a stalker, and she could very well be at risk with her neighbors by inviting you or any other client over.  That's why women are going to be a lot more comfortable seeing someone they have already met at their place.

Plus, remember that hotels aren't free.  All other things being equal, a provider would rather save the hotel cost and see you at her place, assuming you are safe and respectful and discreet.

It's not to butter you up or just "something to say."