This is for the women:   When you are with a man do you tell him what you like or do you keep quite?  Example would be, fuck me slower, lick me faster, higher, etc.

Most men don't like to be told what to do...
But after some level of confidence, I would certainly do it!!!

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Double post!!!
Sorry something happened with my browser... Read my next post... Not that is something super important though lol!!! Only if you are curious..

Doesn't that make the envelope awful heavy?

Fixed!!!!

Wasn't sure if that was an upsell for higher education!  LOL

if that is the type of experience a man is seeking, then he would steer WELL clear of me, lol. however, what i like, in fact the only thing i like, is to please my partner...thoroughly. he should be able to instruct or gently guide me to achieving that goal.

however, long before i ever meet anyone, we will have gotten to know one another and he will know that i am a submissive woman, and if he is not the type of man whose nature works with that, then we will never meet in the first place.

I love it when a lady tells me what she likes. That way we can hopefully please each other which IMO creates a much better connection. If I just wanted to get my rocks off i could find a BP gal for a lot less $$$.

A sexual encounter between two people should be mutually enjoyable. I wouldn't enjoy being with a man (or woman) who was not as into my pleasure as I am into his or her pleasure. So as I let my desires be known, I also hope he does as well.

I'm the way same.  Communication is key to great sex, fucking and my favorite love making ;  

Being told what to do, but I try to be attentive and listen for cues like when her breathing gets heavier, when her moans get deeper. I remember where she likes to be touched and teased. If she likes my tongue flat, or the tip circling her spot. Eventually ends with her thighs as my ear muffs while I hold on for that rodeo ride.
Damn I need to make a phone call.

And whether at home, casual civie sex, or p4p, Sarah is 100% correct ....it goes both ways!

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