and not in spite of their sizes but because of their sizes.

A large gal is oodles of fun to explore her flesh.

A tiny gal is a blast to be able to maneuver around with.

And a gal in the middle can have aspects of both.

I also like steak and potatoes as well as a vegetable casserole, or Thai food or Mexican.

I love to drive a sports car some times; but a big luxury sedan is also a sweet ride, as is a pickup truck at times.

Sometimes I go out in my Aloha shirts, sometime I get fancy and wear a suit and tie.

I like rap, country, classical and on occasioon, ABBA (But don't tell anyone about that last one, OK?)

Variety is the spice of life.

Might be a dumb question, but I have to ask.

Outside of the business, I hear a lot of guys say they like women with meat on their bones et cetera et cetera. When reading forums for hobbying, however, I often read a lot of the opposite.

My curiosity has got to me. What gives? Is there an answer to this or is there just a difference between what men want to settle down with and what men want to pay for a night with?

(Just like there's a difference in what women prefer depending on what they want the man for. If you're curious, I'll divulge. Women tend to choose chubbier, softer, effeminate men for dating and settling down, but they tend to choose buff a-hole type of men for one night stands.)

First answer to this is everyone has a different taste so there is someone out there that likes whatever size you might be. On a more personal note, I prefer someone between Twiggy and Roseanne Barr My civvie choices, long term and one night stand are pretty much the same as p4p choices... 5'5"-5'8", 110-140 lbs, C-C+ cup, shoulder length hair over a buzz, but Sigourney Weaver put my libido in overdrive in "Alien". I much prefer intelligence over stupidty, but you can't tell that from a picture. After everythng is weighed in, give my a nice ass wrapped in shrink to fit men's 501's

Good answer. My own reply when I happen to be asked what type of guy I like, I say "the kind with a penis". I like all men, give or take. The rating system (0-10) is still in place of course, and I'd love to drool over some more than others, but I like guys. Period!

What's strange and I didn't expect this at all, but when I started providing, I found the men a lot more knowledgable, kind, understanding and considerate than your typical run of the mill guy I'd meet on the street. I was pleasantly surprised! I've learned more and had a lot more fun experiences on a paid date than my regular dates.

Hey... I like ABBA too... so we're sworn to secrecy, no one else must know.

Good answer, all of it. I call myself a "chameleon" because I find the ability to talk to , fit in with, and enjoy everything. Life is so short, no point in limiting my choices.

Mrfisher I used to have a lot of respect for you but now I know you like ABBA, I lost all of that respect I had for you. LOL Just joking, you still have my respect but you lost some liking ABBA. I too like a great variety of girls. I am attracted to women of almost any weight, hight, age, ethnicity, hair color, and other physical factors. Variety is the spice of life and if I am going to play out side of my marriage, I am going to get that variety. I like a variety of music, food and other things as well. But ABBA not so much. To each there own.

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"Does your mother know?"

Well my mother is dead. She died in a car crash that was my fault three years ago and haunts me to this day. So I don't know what she knows now if she knows anything at all as I not sure what happens after death. As to what she knew: she knew I can be an ass, she knew I do not like ABBA, and I didn't hobby except for onetime before she died and she had no clue I did it, so it depends what your asking what she knew if she knew it or not. Now to be fair while I don't like ABBA, but I know lots of people do including my wife who I love and respect more than almost anyone and my mother loved ABBA when she was alive. I was just messing with mrfisher as he went out of his way to post not to share that he likes ABBA as if it was something to be ashamed of. Not my tastes but to each there own. Now if you are asking if she knew I am attracted to a wide variety of women, yes I think she knew but I rarely dated before I met my wife so maybe she didn't. So what did you want to know if my mother knows about? I try to answer questions posted to me by beautiful women, except if they aren't to personal or meant to insult me. By the way, was your post really meant for me, or was it meant for mrfisher? It would make more sense in response to his post but you never know so I tried to answer your question in this reply. Your question was a bit vague though if addressed to me and while everything I posted is true, I am mostly being a smart ass as I doubt you meant to post in reply to my post. Yes my mother knew I was a smart ass and yes she tried to teach me it is better not to be one. I just was not that teachable and became one anyway.

I did mean to ask the question of you but if you're really not familiar with ABBA then I can totally see your confusion.  "Does Your Mother Know" is a great song sung from a guy to a youngish (teen maybe) girl asking her if her mother knows she's flirting like mad with him and staying up too late.  He's taking the high road and turning her down despite her persistence in trying to seduce him.  It's quite a catchy tune... Maybe YouTube will have a version of it.

Other great songs they had - Gimme Gimme Gimme (A Man After Midnight), Take A Chance On Me,  Lay All Your Love On Me, Thank You For The Music.... not to mention the ubiquitous Super Trooper and Dancing Queen.   I could go on and on.

I honestly meant no harm and it seems as though referencing your "mom" was uncomfortable for you (which I wasn't actually referencing but that's how it came across).  So sorry!

Kindly ignore me and carry on giving Mr. Fisher a hard time...

I agree. Variety is the spice of life.

But ABBA?

I am soooo fucking glad I don't own a gun cuz I'd shoot myself dead right fucking now knowing one of my mentors likes ABBA.

Yeah, yeah, yeah! Before any of you wise-asses volunteer your fire-arms for the cause, I'm just fucking kidding!

Sheesh!

I got one forya brother, mr-ABBA-lover...!

What's the difference anyway?

When I started hobbying I thought I liked women with some curves. All my girlfriends had been skinny. Curves look good in pictures, so I figured I'd like to try that. Unfortunately after I had a couple of sessions with providers that were a little bigger than I was used to, I discovered that it just wasn't going to work for me. And if anything, I'd be a lot more picky when choosing someone to settle down with vs. spending an hour with in P4P.

being 6'5" @250#, i do prefer someone who can take the pounding.  have been with the petite spinner type and am always concerned that i might hurt them.  give me a kim kardashian type that can take a licking and keep on ticking!!!

I found it in my wifes music collection. It was not awful but not in my tastes. ABBA is not my thing. But everyone has there own tastes and thats a good thing. Now as to my reply to your original post, I was being a jerk. Even MP67 thought I was being harsh. I know you meant no harm. My post was not meant to attack you or anyone else but I am sure it came off that way. For that I am sorry. As far as me kindly ignoring you, why would anyone do that? I find many of your post entertaining and well written. It would be my loss if I ignored you. Besides who could ignore such a beautiful lady? Now I do see why people would choose to ignore me as I can sometimes be an ass. Thank you for your apology, but it was not needed as I was not offended and it more than obvious you did not mean to offend. I was just being stupid. Now you should kindly go on listening to ABBA and enjoying it. Does Your Mother Know?

Brings a tear to my eye.....

In a way of race & culture but again in a way.....more often than not the black men or hispanic men don't usually like women they think they might break. With white men in my experience is a toss up some see me and i'm the biggest they'll see and imo i'm not all that big i'm around a size 15/16 but there are some who like all sizes as long as she looks good. Some can correlate size w/ attractiveness tho that's not necessarily the thing to do. From this site & other also I've gathered spinners are more sought after as well but it just depends on where you look. A lot of the white men I see are married to the opposite of me: white and skinny or asian and skinny, same w/ the asian men usually but w/ hispanic or black men I see i'm not much of a difference from what they've been w/ or married too except i'm younger.

Ha!....ABBA....

Clothes can be misleading......

My penis is quite large and many providers, especially young ones, are often intimidated by it. I am rarely able to slide it in balls deep but that wasn't the case for this one provider who was around 4' 6". She took every inch of me and had a series of really intense orgasms.