n one case it was because we were going to meet first in a public area, and she wanted to know whom to look for.  I did not know what she looked like.

In the other, the gal told me she wanted to see if I had "kind eyes".  I guess I did as she agreed to meet

I suspect it is just part of her screening and process of feeling comfortable with you.  

I suspect most guys, myself included, would not choose to send pics and in almost every situation would simply find another provider.  

I did send a pic once, but that was a very unusual situation and I fully understood why I was doing it. I also made sure to not send a pic that could be "google-imaged" and lead back to too many personally-identifiable details

It was from another site where that was standard mo. After inspection she decided to see me. She wanted to make sure it was not too big lol.

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e you get away from the hobby, some oddities will jump out at you. This is a big one.  Many of the guys here get *offended* by the thought of a provider asking for client photos.  They think providers should just agree to have sex with anonymous men on the internet, without a clue as to what they look like.  This sense of privilege is quite strange.  Even a streetwalker gets to look over a guy before agreeing to anything.  

 For those who think there's little difference between providers and SBs: this is a deal breaker in the sugar bowl.  Forget about fucking a top tier SB--she won't even meet you for a lunch date without first seeing your photos.  --z